Singles & Dating - 21 August 2007

2007-08-21 20:34:07 · 1 answers · asked by 17*mezzo*17 1

please people im desperate for help..i just dont know what to do nymore.. im so confused and im just going soo crazy.. i really like this guy and he's the type of person that doesnt settle down and is always partying and he hasnt been in a relationship for 2 years, but he asked me to be his girlfriend 4 times but i have a boyfriend and he loves me with all his heart but he lives far away and he says im his first love and its true, i talked to his bff but we argue everyday and i never see him, i only saw him 2wice and we've been together for 2 mnths, i just dont know what to do, i dont wanna be hella ****** up to him like my first love was to me, please help me.. ='(

2007-08-21 20:32:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just wondering...I just changed it so wanted to see how the public liked it...I took it with my phone on a windy day:]] I sort of want to be a model when I am older: \

2007-08-21 20:32:14 · 3 answers · asked by kellylizzz :). 4

there's this one girl in my high school, we dont talk but she knows that i exist. She kept on looking as me as i passed by and sometimes even stare at me, but when look back she seems to look away. Then one day i told her that i saw you yesterday and she seems to ignore me. (i haven't met her for about 2 months will she still like me if she sees me again)

2007-08-21 20:31:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i wanna ask why all the beautiful girls are on web cam,is only the sex and money is the guiding factor for them does the notion of word love is of no mean to them why?does they dont like the word love or they are after sex and money only.what is happening to them if youdont agree see the site with loads and loads of really beautifull girls.

2007-08-21 19:53:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, 1 month ago I met Italian guy, and he was the one who asked my number in the first place. We met only 4 times in the club. He couldn't meet me at another time, because he said he was very busy at work and would get too tired to meet after work. But during our so-callec dates in the clubes, where he'd run around the club like a bug, he'd made it perfectly clear to me that he wants to have sex. Even asked me a few times flat out about it on the phone and face to face. Last Sat. I've didn't want to go to that club, coz it sucks. Instead I invited him to my place, but he said that he can't come coz he doesn't want to leave his friends there. So I got drunk :-( and went there myself to confront him. Then he admitted that he's actually got a g/f back in Italy and doesn't want cheat or else. And said that he was just joking and didn't mean anything at all. Since when kissing in the neck, lips, touching the a$$ and even kissing a breast is nothing? Or maybe I just scared him?

2007-08-21 19:45:29 · 7 answers · asked by juliyastarr 1

My roommate boyfriend is so sexy. I feel bad because my lust for him is so strong I think if things were vice versa I might actually rape him and thats horrible.

2007-08-21 19:44:38 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi frds
I need to know boys mind when and why they change their mind?Ohk i tell u something i know dis guy for 1 month we become good frds ,use to talk to each other everyday,he was interested in relationship and i have shown my interest too but i am slow starter and he was fine with dis.We met recently before he went to his work trip for 5days only.We had good time but no sex,just kissed and he left.Since he come back we didn't talk, no msg ,he respond to some of my msg that nothing is wrong ,i ask him straighforward dat if he is ignoring me like dis w'll be da lst msg but he didn't reply then i send 1 more to ask finally ...dat i need to know y u r ignoring ..have i done somtg bad ,he said chill baby nothg like dis just crazly busy.But frds he was always busy but had time for me and he never ever did dis to me even though he was damn busy so i need to know boys mind? Why he has changed ?Busy is not an excuse.

2007-08-21 19:42:10 · 2 answers · asked by mandy 1

My boyfriend of six months recently left for 8 weeks (Army training). When he came back, I realized I didn't love him the way I had before he left, if at all.

This happened in my last relationship. I suddenly lost feelings for someone who once meant the world for me, and I immediately ended it, a decision that I still regret.

After he got back, it didn't take long for me to realize I'd fallen out of love with him. I still love him in a friendly way, but we started getting into big fights that showed that we have fundamental conflicts of character.

My boyfriend is an amazing man and I still have fun with him. He constantly talks about our future together and he adores me. I know that he would fall into self-abuse (alcohol, drugs, etc) if I left, and I'm afraid that I would regret leaving someone who cared so much about me.

I am moving so this will be long-distance. I don't know if I should stay with him and hope that these feelings come back, or end the relationship now. Help?

2007-08-21 19:39:28 · 7 answers · asked by siberiankiss720 1

2007-08-21 19:26:02 · 3 answers · asked by ? 1

I said why wouldnt her husband call and ask you then?I just find it very strange I have been having my suspisions but no proof.He hasnt been feeling well for the past few weeks and we havent had any sexual contact in about 5 weeks now.And the thing was right b4 she called I said are you having an internet affair or something?I am his 1st g/friend and I hate to suspect anything.Any advice?He says he s not cheating or seeing anyone.I dont want him to leave me either for me accusing him.Plus I told him if u r going to cheat yr better off just breaking up with me so I can move on rt?I am not sure what to think that woman calling put some icing on the cake.He says he has no time for an affair but I said it doesnt take long to have sex I know that.I said married men have affairs all the time and how do they find the time?

2007-08-21 19:23:39 · 23 answers · asked by And life goes on 2

My boyfriend and I have been arguing the past couple of days.

We had plans recently to move in together and I'm currently unemployed, but since he makes good money he offered to support me until I get on my feet. He said he had faith that I would find a job and once I did I could then contribute.

All of a sudden he has been very mean to me lately and almost talking down to me cause I didn't find a job yet. It has not been that long and I have been trying. So he decided all of a sudden that he needs to move into his own place cause hes not happy where he is. But Im not happy where I am either. I wish he was not so mean to me.

So I got very upset and told him that I know where we stand now. Every man for himself as he made it to be. And I don't need him. I am an independent woman and can get a job and then move out on my own. I thanked him cause the fact that he was so mean to me lit a fire under my butt to get my own place...and I said F*** you to him. I am so mad right now

2007-08-21 19:16:36 · 6 answers · asked by Amber 1

Ok so me and this guy have been off and on, he lives 3hrs away and this is his week off for school and he wanted to meet half way tonight.I had to wait to leave till 9 which would get us together around 10:30 and I had to leave by 11am the next morning to get back home.Well he was all good with all this last night when he saying how much he cared about me and wanted me and only me and all that stuff,I called him around 1pm and he said to call and ask about hotels he would call me later,so he calls me around 6 to say it just dawned on him how short of a time we would be spending together and he would rather wait till thursday to come and see me and why it took him till just then to know that i have no clue.He said he would call me later so here it is 1am and still no word from him.I asked if he was doing anything tonight and he said no he would chill at the cabin and call me and then go to bed.But no word as of yet.He seemed kinda wierd on the phone,I just don't get it. Anyone???

2007-08-21 19:12:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've been friends with this guy for over 6 months. about 2 months ago, we fell out of touch wit each other and then suddenly he called me about 2 weeks ago and we started talkin again. he's soon to be 27 and i'm 20 (not that age matters to me). but he invited me over for a cookout with him and his mom (who doesn't live with him) at his own house last sunday (aug. 12). it was so amazing, we were laughing and talking and pickin on each other like we were never apart! after that i've been going over there EVERY night for the past 2 weeks mainly just to hang out and have fun. then about a week ago, as we were pickin on each other like usual, we started to wrestle, and then he kept inchin closer to my face... he ended up kissin me and things went further. we've been "together" like that for the past week and he asked me to come over last night and i did, he was super cuddly with me and always wanting to hug me and whatever and it was so sweet.

2007-08-21 19:02:20 · 7 answers · asked by Proud mommy of Logan! <3 3

I mean, I know the obvious answer; someone to love and kiss and cuddle etc etc... But, there was this guy who I used to like, and he told me that if we were going to go out, he wanted me to do things for him that were going to be a little out of my comfort zone, for example, I'm not too big on public affection, but he said he is, so that was something he wanted to do more of. He told me a relationship is about give and take. It occurred to me, that... what exactly would I be gaining out of this situation? The pleasure of his company? What? Hence, we are no longer dating. It sounds cruel, but then again, so was he. The idiot then told me he was interested in two other girls!! He was trying on the jealously thing. I could not have been more repulsed. No Deal!!!! Should I tell him all this? So he doesn't screw it up with the next girl? We're still kind of friends, though he keeps hitting on me, and I've told him I'm not interested. Sorry about the long question! Had to get it off my chest

2007-08-21 18:59:20 · 8 answers · asked by Sarah T 2

friends house unless she talk 2 they parents and other people cant come 2 my house the only reason we can talk is on the phone or in school thats it she get really mad easy how can i tell her all of these things without her getin mad and hurtin her feelings but if i really really want 2 tell her whats on my mind she wont talk 2 me 4 a year i just want 2 tell her whats on my mind she really is sweet she buys me everything 1 want i am spoiled she dont know that i feel this way should i tell her or wait but everytime when she do something i dont like i get mad 2 but i forgive her when i am over it ilove her i will never do anything 2 hurt her she is my life but she still teats me like a baby and its not cool at all i cant talk 2 any1 else about it

2007-08-21 18:57:51 · 21 answers · asked by Britt Britt 2

what is the worst place to have sex...?

2007-08-21 18:49:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met a guy he's polite I like such men,but I'm 24 he's 38 actually I like the men that older than me but in some situations I don't know really now how to behave,should i text him first or he's grown up for such things and he's also very restrain, my girlfriend advices me to be more active if he's ratrain it should work out, but I don't want to disturb him.He's never been married before. What if he's just plays fool and I'm gonna be just the next in his list of the female names? Please help me. I'm kinda fed up being always alone, need to do some changes, but a bit confused about him. He's on vacation and don't know if he's gonna text me, I can't understand him.When I told him that situation seems that I've been used couple of times, he told me to don't bullshit and stop this stupid things. Thanks

2007-08-21 18:48:26 · 2 answers · asked by Alisa A 1

People say I am pretty, you can look at my 360
i am nice, really
i am shy at first
but then not at all

im not meeting any boys that want to stay with me
i am in the point of my life where i am ready for a stable relationship. All they want to do is mess around

i do have slightly high standards
and i want a certain type of guy
what others would call "emo, scene, punk"... whatever

any advice helps
unless you have absoloutley no idea what you are talking about

thanks in advance

2007-08-21 18:41:51 · 4 answers · asked by elemenopee. 4

ok me n my bf are sexually active and when it comes to getting horny, all i have to do is kiss him and he's standing tall. however, the deal isn't the same for me. he'll play with my breasts and try all sorts of things to get me wet but it just isn't happening. any tips?

2007-08-21 18:39:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met this guy recently (friend of a friend), and have spoken to him a bit online via email. I ask him questions and he responds promptly. I waited a couple days between the last messages and he still responded within 12 hours. I'm not asking very detailed questions but he answers briefly and generally positively.

Do guys just tend not to ask many questions? Is he just not interested? If so why does he respond to my emails in about 12 hours?
Any suggestions for finding out if he is interested or trying to get the conversation rolling more? I asked him to get together last week and he said he was busy but maybe next week (this week).

2007-08-21 18:35:20 · 13 answers · asked by k80_k 2

um yeah, i have an ex. we have both confessed our love to each other in hte past. bla bla bla... then sometimes we havnet been getting along as good. anyways i told him my boyfreind moved in with me last week. it was a lie. so today i said " yeah he doesnt really live here. i just said that to make you mad" he sounded all annoyed - and good reason. why would he be mad , its not like were togheter. so now i feel really stupid . do u think it sounds like he wishes i would just leave him alone or something? was that a big blunder? how to undo it? Thanks


oh and what he did to make me wonder if he wishes i would leave him alone is that - he sounded all annoyed THEN i said ' have a good day mark, " and he said "ok bye " instead of ' You too "

2007-08-21 18:30:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

what kind of things should i say to him, ways i could flirt with him, things that will make him want me..i think he likes me too-he started to tell me that once but then he got nervous and said nevermind..i think he likes me a lot..so i want him to know i like him too..but i dont want to come right out and say it for certain reasons, so i could use any advice you offer. =]

2007-08-21 18:30:36 · 3 answers · asked by Jay babe 3

I broke up with him twice and he still comes back . We enjoy each others company and finally my son has accepted him. He is the first real relationship I have been in since my son's father.He says that he can see us togethere for years to come We are also starting a joint venture together and he is footing most of the bill. I love him and he is the first person that made me look at myself in the mirror and be real. I think he loves me too but he has only said it once. We go to church on occasion together, we play together he has cried and I have cried . Our love making is wonderful and really I'am just happy to be with him no matter what we do together. But our age difference is a factor and I'am afraid that he will find someone his age that is problem free,child free like him and have the whole world to explore. He says he is happy with our relationship and the age thing is my issue because it does not bother him until I bring it up when we go out. HELP

2007-08-21 18:27:53 · 27 answers · asked by Lea H 1

I've been talking to this guy for about two weeks online. He lives about 800 miles away. He wants to move here with his son and be with me and my two kids... any advise?

2007-08-21 18:12:48 · 13 answers · asked by princess 1

I have a boyfriend whom I have now dated for 2yrs. Last year around the Christmas holidays he cheated on me with his ex-girlfriend ( while I was sick in bed). By some miraculous miracle , I took him back ( don't ask me why). Things are ok now but I am working on gaining his trust back. He has really tried to be honest and more open with me. However, I am now overly paranoid and still insecure about the whole issue. Its driving me insane. It seems almost impossible for me to be happy again...
How do I deal with this if I want this relationship to work?
What are some things he or I can do to work through this?
Should I break up with him? How?

Thanks so much for the help.

2007-08-21 18:12:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-21 18:10:02 · 1 answers · asked by justty09 1

i'm only 15... and i really want to have sex, but i don't want to lose it until i get married... what should i do?

2007-08-21 18:03:48 · 49 answers · asked by thischick 2

ok heres the deal a girl that i rly like is a 50% chance of moving and i dont think ill ever meet some1 as fantastic as her

anyway she starts to tell me that i would miss her and id forget about her and stuff is this a girl trick to see if i care about her? and how do i break my fellings to her?

2007-08-21 18:01:51 · 9 answers · asked by a dumb idiot 1

I have been dating this guy, who so far has been a total jerk, for about 16 months now & he tells me around 9:00 pm, "I am going to get the car looked at, over at my friend's shop...I will be back in an hour & a half.", and now it is midnight & I haven't received one call as to his where abouts, he has the only car we have & I have to work tomorrow...right now I am stranded at my dad's....no one can take me home....he doesn't have a cell phone....I know his "friend" has got to have a phone....I feel so ....I don't even know the word....I am very upset & I guess I just needed to vent....Everytime this happens I want to leave him but then I tell myself, You work to pay the rent & if you leave him....who's gonna pay the rest of the bills? Who's wrong here?

2007-08-21 18:01:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous