He seemed very interested, so when I became interested, he became scarce (although we work in the same building). Then, he seemed interested again and was asking me my work schedule so that we could talk "if I wanted to". However, this time, I acted less interested and told him that I was unsure of when I could talk with him (which is true because I am extremely busy) and now he seems hostile. What gives??
2007-08-21 13:54:50 · 7 answers · asked by traveller 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You rejected him. He's going to go pout about it and find someone else to flirt with.
2007-08-21 13:59:20 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems this guy has mixed feelings about u. Basically some guys love to talk to a girl merely to make her like them, thus boosting their ego. That is why when u actually showed some interesyt in him he avoided u. Most of the time the guy isnt even interested in the girl at all..but like I said its a huge ego boost. About him being hostile..well it seems that he was obviously offended when U didnt show any interest. I think u should completely drop this guy and find someone else who is more interested in u, and less interested in playing games. lol
well I hope that helps..its just my personal opinion though. It'll be interesting to see what everyone else thinks...
2007-08-21 21:03:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately it doesn't seem like the game goes both ways with this guy. You might have done the right thing, if you like to send the message that you don't appreciate guys who play games with your emotions. On the other hand, you might have caused unnecessary road blocks for yourself with this guy if you are truly interested and played it off like you weren't just to bring him closer... it backfired and he got the wrong message.
It sounds like he got a taste of his own medicine and didn't like it at all. Maybe it's a sign he's not mature enough for you. But if you really like him, I'd say just go over to him tomorrow, put on a nice smile, and ask him to make plans with you for this week, so that you can put an end to all this nonsense and get to the good part sooner.
Good luck!
2007-08-21 21:04:26 · answer #3 · answered by shindy9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you were in highschool, you could play hard to get, and guys would be eating out of the palm of your hand. no offence by this, but now you're in the real world and guys (i suppose i should say men) move on with their lives a lot faster. i'm a guy and here's some friendly advice for the future, dont be too available, but now isnt the time to play hard to get. and as for your current situation, he's probably moved on but talk to him and see if you can get something going. if he still plays hard to get, i think it would be best for you to move on too.
2007-08-21 21:02:36 · answer #4 · answered by juan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok welll if he plays hard to get then he acts interested he probably really is into you since he finally stopped playing games and came to you but if he quit the games he prob doesnt appreciate u playing them when he made an effort. good luck :)
2007-08-21 21:01:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he was hoping fer you to be very interested but you were acting like you weren't so mah best guess, he wants you to be interested once more
2007-08-21 21:02:21 · answer #6 · answered by kttyboy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's an idiot.
2007-08-21 21:29:50 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. Goddess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋