OMG wtf happened he tried to kiss me but i... cant kiss him ???

Question

i was with my boyfreind who i have been dating a long time now but this is only the 6th time ive spent time with him but the 6hours went ok we held hands i lied on him he layed on me hugged ALOT its just then.. my freind told me he was going to kiss me before he left and im 15 and nvr have kissed a guy before so i didnt noe what to think. Then he tried to kiss me he gave me a hug and went for my lips and i ducked and like backed away and he tried agen and i just ducked it again.. and then hes like "sorry i havta do this" and he went for my lips again but i ducked! but he still got the little corner of my mouth but my eyes were open like it wasnt even a real kiss on the lips like WHATS RONG WITH ME how come i cant kiss him hes attractive but i feel like i dont wanna kiss him and NO IM NOT LEZ someone help me plzz

Answer 1

As a lot of the other people have said, you just aren't ready.

Not being ready is okay. Deep down, you know why you don't want to kiss him and why you ducked his advances.
Don't be afraid to look at the reason.

Don't let anyone talk you into something you aren't ready for.

GL

Answer 2

Okay, seriously, it's not you! Sometimes, instincts and intuition just kick in. You act out what you're thinking. Maybe you did want to kiss him but was afraid you'd do it wrong or something, so ducked? Or, you know he's not for you, now and later. Drop him.

Or, if you think he's that gorgeous and was sincere, you try kissing him. Guys like that, but you giving that impression might also make things worse...when you were avoiding his kiss, he might have thought you were playing hard to get. So making another move, kissing him the next time you see him, might backfire and he'll expect a lot more out of you, thinking you were only acting innocent.

Guys are stupid, that's all there is to it. They have two heads, and when ones being used, the other isn't. Remember that. Also, there are two types of men out there; which one is he? There's the G-O-D, and there's the D-O-G. Are you going to be his Goddess, a mutual feeling between the two of you, or are you going to be his *****, always put on the back burner?

Answer 3

you prolly arent ready or are scared about how it will so. the first time you kiss ur gonna be a lil "sloppy" but the more you do it the more you get used to it and the better it gets. I'm 15 too and i had my first kiss this past june. it was a little weird at first and i was worried how i wuld do because i had never done it before and i knew had had plenty of times. But dont be worried, just go with it and follow his lead, thats what i did. and after that i have kissed another guy and (eventhough it was outtof NOWHERE) i was more confident because i knew what i was doing. but different pplz kiss differently so its a new expeerience each time. & not everyone kisses with their eyes closed. some people do some dont. juss go with it and do it when u feel comfortable.

Answer 4

You don't do anything you don't want to or feel you are ready to do. It's always scary the first time and kinda gross. Their's nothing wrong with you at all. We all have been there and done that. You'll know when you're ready BUT you'll still be scared your first time. Remember once you start kissing a boy for a while (Couple of months) they will eventually get tired of that and want to do other stuff. It'll never end they'll just keep wanting to try something else and something else then evenly they'll want to take it to that next step (If you know what I mean).

Answer 5

My first kiss was with a guy that I had liked since I was 10 years old. We started dating when we were 15. It was so romantic and the perfect way to remember your first kiss. I have kissed a lot of guys since then, but I will always remember my first lip lock!! I think you should wait until you are ready. It should be a time you always remember. If your boyfriend is too pushy, find a guy that will respect you. When you are much older like me, you will be able to look back on that time and smile!

Answer 6

You know when ur ready for ur first kiss its an impulse that you'll feel a mutual connection between the two of you not just one person in the relationship. I think u did the right thing by backing off you obviously werent ready and u didnt let yourself be pressured. Its normal. Dont worry when its time it will happen naturally. o and nothings wrong with u. good luck

Answer 7

It's ok....u don't have to kiss him. Wait and until ur ready, and tell him ur sorry, but not ready for that. If he really likes u he'll wait. That's good u didn't let him. U go girl!!! If ur not ready for something, stand up for urself. And maybe u wanna save ur first kiss 4 someone else. That's cool. Nothing's wrong with u honey, don't worry about it.

Answer 8

if your not ready for your first kiss then tell him that.
If he is gonna keep trying to kiss you and you didn't want to the first [2] times then he may not be treating you right. If he tries to do it again and you tell him no it would be considered sexual harassment.
If you feel like your ready and you kiss him and it is kinda weird then don't worry, first kisses can sometimes be perfect but normally there really weird and awkward and they make you feel sad or disappointed. Sometimes they make you laugh. For me, I was more startled and we both started laughing.
I think if he tries to force you into kissing him you should just leave because he is not worth your time.

Hope that helped, xoxo
Stephanie

Answer 9

Yeah, sounds like you're just not ready. Maybe try talking to your boyfriend...tell him that you still want to be with him and all, but you're just not quite ready to start kissing yet. There's NOTHING wrong with that...I mean girls are getting pregnant way to young, and it all does start with kissing.
Don't worry too much about it, talk to him, and hopefully he'll care about you enough to respect your need to move slower. Then, when you're ready, it will be SO much more enjoyable.
Don't feel that there's anything wrong with you though...you don't need to rush into all that physical stuff. :)
When the time is right, you'll want it, and it will be wonderful! :)

Answer 10

It takes time for different people. Im sure ur bf will wait until ur comfortable. The only person that knows when ur ready is you. I know it sound corny but do what you think feels best. But it always works! Wish you the best of luck and don't worry you'll get used to it!