2007-08-21 09:53:05 · 16 answers · asked by help! I need advice!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends on lots. eg how relaxed, how good foreplay is how thick hymen is how much you trust each other etc. First time should be v.special 4 both. Don't waste the experience
2007-08-21 10:00:32 · answer #1 · answered by weasel bat 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not a girl so cant fully know.
However...
The more practice you have had in kissing, making out, feeling each other up.
seeing each other underess, seeing each other and being seen naked.
The more weeks or months of foreplay and things like hand, finger, breast, mouth sex .
The better you are at with contraception. The longer you been with somone so can feel really at ease with them. The less planned as in set date and more it is going with the flow with expert use of more then one contraceptive.
The more used to having fun making out and being silly and tickling and sexy stuff being fun it is.
the better ... hence why its not good too early like 14 and mush better when more like 16/17 after lots of dating, making out, kissing, and 3rd base stuff
The less it should hurt
So still wear condoms as well.
And practice using them as it’s not as easy as it sounds. One **** up and life fucked up.
No extra lives.
And practice getting morning after pills ie where to go so you know and on a sunday or say xmas day.
AND IF ANYTHING GOES WRONG AND YOU THINK THERE IS A-N-Y DANGER OF GETTING PREGNANT YOU DO N-O-T WASTE TIME ASKING SILLY QUESTIONS HERE OR WITH YOUR MATES OR THINK WE'LL BE OK...
YOU
GET
YOU
BUTT
TO
GET
A MORNING AFTER PILL ie plan b
95% gonner work if taken within 24 hours (so don’t wait and ask questions here and on a Sunday or say xmas day go to hospital) that’s 5% you going to get pregnant
25-48 hours (two days and nights)
Its only 85% efficets that’s 15 % chance you will get pregnant
After 2 days its only 58% effective (much like flipping a coin)
You may be able to get a IUD coil as well.
IN OTHER WORDS NO QUERSTIONS ON COULD I BE PREGNANT… GO AND GET THE DAMN PILL OR BETTER STILL HAVE SOME IN THE HOUSE JUST IN CASE… BUT ITS FOR EMERGENCIES…
Proper contraception is better ie depro injections AND condoms.
THAT NIGHT OF FOLLOWING MORNING EVEN IF BUNKING OFF SCHOOL OR WORK... TRUST ME BRING PROOF AND THEY WILL THINK YOU DID THE RIGHT THING.
EVERY HOUR COUNTS...
http://www.morningafterpill.org/map2.htm
ABORTION PILL
http://www.abortionclinic.org/topics/articles/article_92.asp
VACUME ASPIRATION OR SURGICAL ABORTION
http://www.abortionclinic.org/topics/articles/article_99.asp
TELLING PARENTS
http://www.abortionclinic.org/topics/articles/article_61.asp
2007-08-21 20:06:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
A lot with an inexperienced clumsy boy and if not done in a loving relation -ship it will hurt
2007-08-21 17:03:25 · answer #3 · answered by joan g 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A lot!
It helps if you know that no one's going to interupt, that you want to spend the rest of life with that person and you've done plenty of foreplay.
2007-08-21 17:39:21 · answer #4 · answered by Wicked Top. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Agony
2007-08-21 17:22:13 · answer #5 · answered by NORMA P 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it was pretty painful. A lot of pressure and a lot of stretching of sensitive muscles. But my boyfriend (now fiance) was so gentle with me, it made the pain bareable.
2007-08-21 17:17:56 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Rizzle 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Every girl and situation is different. But if the guy is gentle and goes slow, with a condom on, and has her really wet, it won't be as bad.
2007-08-21 17:16:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think it would depend on how nervous the girl was. if you are both ready for a serious relationship, it doesnt necessarily have to be a painful experience
2007-08-21 16:59:04 · answer #8 · answered by L 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
never hurt me i do think it depends on the situation you in and lots of other stuff but too tired now so cant type much
good night
2007-08-21 18:38:04 · answer #9 · answered by pretty flower 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its different for every girl. For me it was agonsingly painful (and i am a tall, curvy woman). For others it doesnt hurt much. For others still it doesnt hurt at all
2007-08-21 20:24:04 · answer #10 · answered by Chimera's Song 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋