New girlfriend through a short seperation?

Question

I recently seperated from my partner of ten years, It was my decesion. I wanted some space as I was confused on what I wanted for the rest of my life. Well he went out a week later and met a girl and started seeing her. After a month of being with her we decided to work things out slowly, he said he loved me and the kids and that he was so happy to come back. He said he had to end it with this other girl first as she had fallen hard for him and he didnt want to hurt her. Me and my partner have been intimate for the last 6 weeks and he keeps promising that he is genuinly in love with me and cant wait blah blah blah. But he still hasnt told this other girl whats been going on. As far as she Is concerned, hes her boyfriend and thinks everything is just fine?? They were together 4 weeks when we decided to work things out again.. Its now 6 weeks later. What do I do?? Ive told him I cant handle it I want to leave for good If he cant do it. He says ok then, thats your decesion??

I know in going to hear somethings I dont want to. But he Is so genuine In what he says and I so badly want this to work out. I love him more than ever. Am I a fool?? What do you think I should do? Please help as this sux.

Answer 1

He is not being honest with you or her and you need to tell him to leave and not come back . change the locks and put his stuff if he has any to the curb and be done with him and let him know you are done with him . girl he is playing you for a fool . dont be one . there are too many nice men out there for you to be treated like this . good luck.

Answer 2

Ok well, him moving on could have been as simple as needing to have someone to be with. It could be hard to just end things with someone when they are having strong feelings. Its a dificult stiuation you are in. I say give him a cut off. Let him know he needs to choose whats up now and not whenever he feels like it.