Singles & Dating - 5 July 2007

I like all these guys and they say they like me......we go out they try to get to third base.....i wont let them.......they get mad.....they break up with me! I havent been able to find a nice decent guy to be my bf thru HS. Can anyone give me any advice or help me in anyway? Possibly a mail order boyfriend catalog? Jus kidding PLEAS HELP ME!!

2007-07-05 19:23:54 · 13 answers · asked by nicolas~cage~luver 2

It seems that women only want jerks these days.

2007-07-05 19:22:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am average looking, but I do not want to dance alone. I have done salsa before but never been to a ballroom before. any advise would be helpful.

2007-07-05 19:20:10 · 4 answers · asked by ahisha 2

We've been together for 4.5 years. Every now and then he had this outbursts of annoyance of being with me. Sometimes he wanted to have the total sigle life, and since he has a girlfriend, can't, therefor, frustrated. But did not dump me. Just treated me badly, which I endured thinking that all would pass and that he would eventually realize he really loves me. But as time passes, he complains more and more. Goes on and on about how he doesn't want to be tied down with me, still has more to do with his life, that he'll settle when he's done everything he wants to do. Has called me the 'hot potato', since we're both 25 and now he got 'stuck' with me. I know this is not working... but he recently got into an awful fight with his family. He says he feels dead inside. Things at his house are very bad. I want to help him, but since he doesn't quite love me, i don't know how. He suggested we rent together. But I don't feel the same anymore, all his bad comments have finally gotten to me.

2007-07-05 19:17:01 · 21 answers · asked by jade 2

Hi Guys! I'm a big curvy girl, and am feeling like I could use some male company. Where can I meet guys who would like me? Is there an online community? A place in the real world?

Also... What should a big curvy girl say in a personal ad that would reel in appreciative men?

Thanks a bunch!

2007-07-05 19:14:17 · 3 answers · asked by superfish 3

My girlfriend gave me an ultimatum.

2007-07-05 19:11:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Its bad enough that the sport encourages the pointless burning of fossil fuels for the trivial pursuit of momentary entertainment.

2007-07-05 19:08:39 · 6 answers · asked by somber_pieces 6

In my experience i have found that some of the most succesful relationships are based on lies and deciet... since thats where most of them end up anyways, it's a logical place to start"

2007-07-05 19:07:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

So its been 3 1/2 years, we had a great relationship but we were young, she was 19, i was 21, so it didnt last, this is the only girl i "loved" , we tried to live together, of course it didnt work. So i decided once i got over her I was moving because it is in my best interest, and I have to beautiful and sunny phoenix, where a young handsome successful lad like myself has lots of fun and I like being single. I thought ive been over her for years, but I still think about her, in all different ways, even sexually still, wierd i know. I even sent her out here once after a couple years and it didnt do anything for me, but for some reason i still think about her, I think the cure for this is that I need to stop fooling around and try the girlfriend thing out for a while. my mind is just playin games with me, maybe establish a new relationship to get passed thinking about her, anybody agree?? or do you think its the opposite, maybe i still love her?? maybe i just miss how comfortable it was

2007-07-05 19:04:48 · 16 answers · asked by Will H 2

2007-07-05 18:59:39 · 10 answers · asked by kinshuk g 1

we're going to make out next week ,, how do i make out?

2007-07-05 18:57:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do i attract men that are much older than me, and don't attract men near my age?

2007-07-05 18:51:51 · 4 answers · asked by A.P. 1

Went out with a male colleague for dinner 7mo. ago. He practically inhaled his food. I felt offended. He's treating me on my birthday. Taking me out to dinner. I don't want him to have a repeat performance this time. I text him," let's do our best not to inhale our food. Looking forward to your company and dinner with you." This time, I really did not want to beat around the bush. He's Russian and I find him direct to the point. Probably something to do with their culture. Some people find him rude but I think that's the way he is. Now, if I tell you what I told him, how would you react. Straight shooters out there tell me your reaction..

2007-07-05 18:50:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was like wondering how I can improve myself on love relationships... and I decided to ask...

2007-07-05 18:48:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so I'm a little older (early 30's) and I have a child. Where are some good places to meet some more mature men and what are some good ways to "break the ice" with them. I have been in 2 very long term relationships so I haven't really dated since high school and feel totally out of practice. I don't want to hang out in clubs/bars (those were my college days and I'm not into that anymore). I already go to church but I haven't had much luck there yet either so I'm looking for some great suggestions.
Guys would really like your opinions on what I should do.

2007-07-05 18:47:20 · 4 answers · asked by jenny s 2

theres this really cute guy, but he likes this other girl.
im just trying to figure out what she has that I don't.
i find that often, guys aren't that attracted to me, and I dont know why. I'm nice, I smile, and I try to talk to them, but I don't know what else to do so that I can attract a cute guy!
I need MAJOR help.

2007-07-05 18:44:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i don't know whether to text message this girl i like. shes on holidays with her family..
If i do what should i write????

2007-07-05 18:44:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i ask this because i'm tired of seeing female friends and family members who pick poorly when it comes to relationships

2007-07-05 18:39:58 · 39 answers · asked by franky7982 1

if you were in a relationship with someone (your first love) and you loved them but now they kind of annoy you and you dont really care as much (but when you broke up with them you feel like your heart is breaking even tho you thought you didnt love them) is there love there or is that just normal break up feelings

2007-07-05 18:33:27 · 4 answers · asked by somethin bout baby girl 2

2007-07-05 18:26:27 · 1 answers · asked by jh 1

i have always prefered latina women because of their all-around beauty, but have never dated one. if it is true about what i hear about being in bed, it's a big bonus. latinas esta mucho bonitas =D

2007-07-05 18:22:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 17 and im in the middle of jobs, my girlfriend pays for almost everything but i hate being a "free loader". im looking for a job and its only been a 2 weeks. she loves spending the money on us but i hate it id rather her save it for her car. how do i tell her to stop spending her money on us with out sounding like im trying to say tht i should tell her how to spend her money, shes very touchy about this stuff and i dont know wht to do. help?

2007-07-05 18:12:28 · 12 answers · asked by kelly D 1

I'm dating this guy that i'm really not attraced to as far as physical attraction, but I really do like him alot. My problem is I can't stay in the mood. The only time I feel all hot and ready is when I know he is about to perform oral sex, after that I'm not turn on any more. What can I do to sray in the mood?

2007-07-05 18:04:30 · 10 answers · asked by juicyjuice 2

2007-07-05 18:01:45 · 20 answers · asked by KING 6

i like this guy..he`s courting me now for 3 months already and i think im falling for him too..but the main problem is he`s only 17 and im 22...5 years gap!!! do you think it will work?

2007-07-05 17:59:22 · 8 answers · asked by kagome in blue 3

Alright, for the past 4 times that I've asked girls out, they weren't interested, we decided to stay friends, and it either worked or it didn't (because there was a one sided attraction and I had to cut off the friendship, even though it was very good it just didn't work)

I'm 19, male. I'm sick of this nonsense. I'm never going to agree to be "friends" with a girl who rejects going out and that's the lesson I had to learn the hard way.

I'm simply going to stop caring about rejections and move on. Instead of working on girls, I'm just going to focus on myself - working out, education (full time univ student), etc... that's it. If there's one person I truly love (besides my family) right now it's just myself. I'm sick and tired of trying to get into a relationship.

Am I doing the right thing?

2007-07-05 17:52:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-05 17:50:31 · 11 answers · asked by j-lyn 1

I went out with a man on a date the same day i meant him,I meant him early in the day round 1pm went out with him round 7pm so while we were out he mentiond he needed a leg rub I said I dont think so he said there was no motive ("SEX")he was injured during his ballgame.Okay now we are up on our 4TH day of knowing each other & he wanted to go out & he asks can he leave for work from my house cuzz he has to work @6am. I said why the hell dont you first let me get to know you& then let ME invite you. He said no motive there either. I said I have known u 4 days dont impose like that!!! He claims it is the same as if me & agf go out & she brings a gf and for some reason she may need 2 stay i wouldnt tell her no. I asked him what is it with you tryin 2 get in my house & leg rubs & all. He says he isnt trin 2 get anywhere they were just questions & you dont know unless u ask. what do you think of the whole thing????

2007-07-05 17:50:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy is very obsessive, possessive and supposedly in love with me. I have been ignoring him for a week and he won't stop. My mom advised me to ignore him because he would eventually stop but he hasn't. She also said that if broke things off to him verbally that his actions may be extreme.

Any thoughts?

PLEASE!

2007-07-05 17:47:36 · 11 answers · asked by juicybluesky 2

I am a beautiful girl when it comes to looks, but I have very erratic behavior and I am too needy, Emotionally, I am like a 3 year old. Will any guys want to be in a relationship with me?

2007-07-05 17:37:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous