I dated a woman who was s3xually abused by her oldest brother as a little girl. She also had a long series of abusive relationships. I was her friend for 20 yrs. and dated her for 14 mos. We never had s3x. It was a real struggle because she could be verbally & physically abusive. I really tried to be understanding and sensitive, but it never seemed to make it any better. She would accuse me of being s3xually inappropriate in conversations, etc..No other GF has ever said this about me. Anyway, she freaked out on me and told me that she was "cutting ties" with me--accusing me of saying s3xually inappropriate stuff OVER A YR. AGO! After 4 mos. of no contact, I wrote her and emailed her, but she has not responded. I was on the path of trying to heal from all of this, but I found out she told other women I know that I am a "Peeping Tom" and other totally crazy things that are not true and never happened...Again, we never had s3x...I've never been in a situation like this...This is crazy....
2007-07-05
03:17:59
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