I asked him if he would mind if my teacher goes swimming with me and he won't answer me. He is in the military over here doing his boot camp.We are both in Asia and he is a mute. He knows I am in love with him. I have a private teacher to teach me the language because I am bored at home. The teacher is a guy and I told my BF because I tell him everything and I love him very much but he is shy and won't say anything and I asked him to tell me if it bothers him and he won't answer me. I am so angry! So I told him I was a little angry. Am I wrong? I know he cares but WTF a mute!
2007-07-05 03:18:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I want to tell him he sucks again if he knows that means!
2007-07-05 03:19:45 · update #1
He is not an American
2007-07-05 03:20:02 · update #2
I didn't invite the teacher wants to go
2007-07-05 03:22:59 · update #3
not really a mute but acts like one!
2007-07-05 03:24:52 · update #4
He is not a mute but he never answers me so I call him that
2007-07-05 03:28:42 · update #5
I don't understand. You are taking language lessons from this guy. How does that get us to swimming? Would you guys be going to a public pool or are you planning on going to his house or something? I think you should grow up and respect teacher/student boundaries.
2007-07-05 03:22:47 · answer #1 · answered by leaptad 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you SUCK!!!!! Would you want your b/f going swimming with another woman???? He might now want to tell you that it bothers him cause he is afraid of your reaction. You keep calling him a mute. Is he really a mute? Or are you just saying that because he is being mute by not answering you. You come off like a b****. If I was him I would just let you go and be done with your @$$.
2007-07-05 03:25:45 · answer #2 · answered by Krissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't be angry at him. Do you love him? And does he love you? If yes, then explain to him with love and patience that you would like to learn for his sake from this teacher. Ditch the teacher if he makes any moves on you, if not, then take lessons from the teacher and keep being your normal self. If your BF continues to be silent in response to your questions, ask him if anything's the matter. Mute or not, he needs to learn that he can trust you. In time, your BF will let you know how he feels, if he values your relationship as much as you do.
2007-07-05 03:24:03 · answer #3 · answered by Maya's Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you or they know -- but whatever it is (long-standing grievances, buried hurts, minor irritations that are building into major problems because you or they aren't saying something that needs to be said), you'll feel a lot lighter once you stop carrying it around with you everywhere you go. Let it go. You'll be happier in the long run, and this attitude will give you more energy for the things that truly matter to you. Your happy disposition will lead you to an opportunity to increase goodwill throughout your life
2007-07-05 03:23:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should be concerned not angry when your crying. Tell him that his anger upsets you and it's a natural reaction to being yelled at, also maybe suggest to get it in check because it's not acceptable.
2016-05-18 22:22:47 · answer #5 · answered by zenaida 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's mute he's not going to be able to say anything. This is a joke, right?
2007-07-05 03:23:50 · answer #6 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid you lost me. All I can say is that if you have feelings for this teacher, don't even put yourself in that type of situation. Leave.
2007-07-05 03:22:33 · answer #7 · answered by girninjadog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was you in thie same situation reversed how would you feel??? Think about it!! And be open minded about this 1!
2007-07-05 03:27:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't be mad at him for being himself. Maybe you two aren't right for each other.
2007-07-05 03:21:27 · answer #9 · answered by SmileyFace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what? obviously he cares.....wow that was a hard one.
2007-07-05 03:22:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋