Singles & Dating - 5 July 2007

ok today my ex boyfriend called me and asked me if i wanted to have sex with him.i told him no because im still hurt because of what he did.when we broke up he didint say it nice or nothing he just called and said "its over you damn rich *****!" and i dont no y he said that! so i asked him and he said hej ust didint wanna be wit me no more.and now he calls and ims me and says he still loves me and stuff and i dont no wat to do i dont want nothign to do with him n e more!! how do i tell him to leave me a lone?

2007-07-05 09:57:23 · 44 answers · asked by Chri$tineeeee. 2

2007-07-05 09:53:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok do you like want her to be a slut or a bad girl or a good girl..and what are some qualities you like to see?

2007-07-05 09:44:20 · 10 answers · asked by Preppy! 2

Well I have been talking to this guy for 2 weeks now and he really wants to meet me and I want to meet him. Should I be scared or should I stop worrying so much. We are bolth 21 and we bolth have 1 year old tottlers that are with us full time, so does that make him a good guy? Should I take the chance and go out on a night with him? There is a Hotel invoved and he nows I dont want to do anything, but is he going to do somthing that I dont want him to do or try anyways?

2007-07-05 09:42:46 · 13 answers · asked by Amy 1

There is this guy and his parents want us to be together. He is really shy, so his mom pulled him up off his seat cuz she wanted us to dance together. He was with a friend, so when we were dancing I looked over and saw his friend sitting all alone. I told the guy that I felt sorry for his friend, and he said "I don't". What does that mean? Does he like me?

2007-07-05 09:39:18 · 12 answers · asked by ~Lost N' Love~ 2

I'm female 24 yrs old and have a bf that is 30 ans we been together on and off for 2 years now. I wanted to go back to school and I expressed my feelings with my bf. He keeps talking to me about how will I get to school if we happen to break up. Even though we talked things over and over again. He thinks if I go back to school I won't have any money for paying it. I was planning on changing my work in the morning and when school is done I can get a job right away. I want to be a medical assistant and its a high demand job. I want to continue my education, but my bf keeps threating me by saying we are going to break up and I'm afraid to start school and not being able to finish due to my bf's own insecurities of himself. Talking has gotten me no where with him and he don't seem to give a rats butt about me.

2007-07-05 09:37:20 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sorry, this is going to be a long one, because I really need advice. First off, I’m fifteen. But PLEASE don’t give me crappy, you’re too young for this, answers. That’s not what I’m looking for, I’m not too young to love. Anyway.

I went out with this guy for over a year. We had a pretty great relationship. We didn’t see each SUPER often or anything, but I was happy with us, and I think he was too. He told me he loved me and that I meant the world to him and all that. I loved him, too. I didn’t mind the amount of time we spent together because, after all, we’re only in highschool. I figured, why rush things when I have a lot of time with this guy?

But in a moment of stupidity, I broke up with him three weeks ago. We talked about it a few days later, and I apologized and explained things. He understood and we got back together. We went three weeks without talking. That was very odd, even for us. But I didn’t mind, because we were in love, and, like I said, we had a lot of time.

On Sunday evening, he got on aim, so we talked. He was short with me, though, and didn’t say much. I sensed something was wrong, but he kept denying it. Finally I convinced him to tell me, and he took me by TOTAL surprise when he said that he wanted to break up. He said that all we ever were was friends, and he never really loved me. He had thought it was something, but it wasn’t. I was so upset. He apologized for breaking up on AIM, but said that he was leaving for NY that night and felt he had to tell me. But I’d had to convince him to tell me!

I know for a fact that there are only three people on aim that he talks to: me, my best friend, and one of his friends. So he really only gets on to talk to me. last night he was on for two hours. I was away the whole time, but I was there. He didn’t bother to im me, but he did stay on, and neither of the other two were on! He’s on again now, has been for an hour.

My questions: Why did he break up with me, and what’s going on now?! I find it somewhat hard to believe that after all the time we were together, he realized he never loved me. Advice needed badly!

2007-07-05 09:34:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Wondering. Plenty of guys look at mine, so does that necesserily mean they like me???

2007-07-05 09:31:36 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it ok to have sex with a friend? If so, how would i bring the situation up?

2007-07-05 09:31:09 · 24 answers · asked by USC Gamecock 2

Ok. I am a 16 year old girl who has dark blonde hair and is really tall. I am 2 or 3 inches over 6 feet!! And i have never had a boyfriend, never been kissed and never been asked out.

Am I too tall?
Do guys not like tall girls? Are they afraid of my height?
How tall are you guys and where can i find some tall and sweet guys?

HELP. what do you think?

2007-07-05 09:27:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently met this guy... he was one of my friend's X-boyfriend, but me and her aren't that close so i can date him. ive been talking to him on myspace, and he seems to be interested in me... but how the hell do i tell him i like him?

2007-07-05 09:18:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think I once read something about a girl selling her virginity on e-bay. Who would do that?

2007-07-05 09:17:41 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

is sooo cruel....THAT PERSON DOES NOT KNOW HOW THE OTHER ONE TOOK IT.... the nerve...the many nights of crying...of course SHE TOOK IT HARD, JUST NOT IN FRONT OF PEOPLE!!!...(thank God she broke up with him)..he was mean....what do you think of that???

2007-07-05 09:12:12 · 13 answers · asked by sweet 4

2007-07-05 09:10:41 · 16 answers · asked by kittygirlwhoilove 2

If you NEVER had a bf or gf in middle school and high school please answer my questions.

1.) Did you finally get a bf or gf and if you did how old were you?
2.) Did your bf or gf not want to be with you because you never had a relationship before? What did he/she say about that you not having a relationship before?
3.) On what date did your first bf or gf ask you how many relationships you had in the past? (Ex. first date, 2nd date, never...etc.)
4.) Does not dating in MS and HS affect your dating later on?
5.) Did any of your family make fun of you or call you lesbian/gay because you didn't date?
6.) If someone never talks about the opposite sex with their parents but they do with their friends, will their parents start to think they are lesbian/gay even though they aren't?

2007-07-05 09:07:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

here are the good things.
•he sys, i love you and means it
•we argue about who loves//cares//wants eachother more
•he kiss \es me and hugs me
•he leave me comments on myspace- here are some examples
g2g
love u so much!
i DONT! whant 2 lose u
u love me alot but i love u alot more
Wow!!
i like love u like crazy love u its not even funny, i just love u so muc
Awwwwww!
thanks for the mess.
But hunni i love u more
ur soo0o0 sweet!
Ilove u!
wit the deepest pation!

but the past week, he hasnt been calling me lately. and i feel like he doesnt care and that im not as important to him. he was sick most of last week, and its a holiday, and i think that might be the reason why hes not calling me. what do you think? and do you think hes a good boyfriend? why or why not?

he hasnt called me at all 2day. but he is at a friends house...
i talked 2 him for only 4 minutes yesterday, but he was busy as heck...

2007-07-05 09:07:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, the only way i can contact her is thru email.Ok here is the Story.I saw her during my freshmans orientation.She signed her name on my bingo chart we played as a group.So now i have my college email set up and i am able search students by thier names.So i have her email.I hope that it is her and no one else with the same name.Of course i can wait till school starts and meet her.But since there is a way to contact her now. . . i wanna use it. So what do i do? Shall i write a simple email. . .. like - Hey this is Shan.We met during orientation.I was the one wearing a shirt and tie, all dressed up.Yeah, my excuse is that i just got back from work.Anyways i just wanted say Hi ' to you and if you were curious how i got your email . . i just used the address book. . . .what do you think ??? As long as i don't sound weird or crazy . .and FYI . .she is Hot and i am a pretty good looking guy too ( not that i wanna sound cocky)

2007-07-05 09:02:28 · 11 answers · asked by The_man82 2

2007-07-05 09:02:10 · 6 answers · asked by Morgan Massacre 2

I'm afraid he'll just go get physical with another girl if I do confront him.

2007-07-05 08:52:36 · 19 answers · asked by ? 1

theres a guy i like, and he likes me, and when i see him , he keeps saying he wants to kiss me. The thing is, hes quite experienced, and I've never been kissed before (well not properly) and i have nooo idea how to!!! im scared he'll think im crap, cos i think he thinks i have experience. He tried to once and i go SO SO scared please help!!

2007-07-05 08:45:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

This was out on the boat, drinking on the 4th of July.

2007-07-05 08:44:10 · 39 answers · asked by Margaret C 1

is there ever a chance an ex will come back and want to try again after things have calmed down? even when they say they never want a relationship with you again? but they still want to be friends with you once you have pulled yourself together and come to terms with the break up?

2007-07-05 08:43:12 · 25 answers · asked by bluebell 1

I broke up with my 1st girlfriend about 1 year ago and I am finding it hard to find a girl what do I do.

2007-07-05 08:42:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know guys do it all the time but i was wwondering if girls do it at all and alot or w/e if they do.

2007-07-05 08:41:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ex of 2 years have been broken up for about 5 months now..since then i have been out with other guys and now i am dating a guy for a few months..my ex he just goes around drinking every day and night getting on random girls..we both just graduated high school and i leave for college in 2 days and he knows that..yet he Imed me yesterday out of the blue (havnt talked to him for months)& asks me if im excitd4school&when i tell him i leave in 2 days he acts all surprised like he didnt already kno.right b4 he imed me he put a love song in his info about always being there4som1.during the conversation he asked me who ive been hanging out w/&then asked me if i was 2gether w/ this guy(1 of his old friends) that i went2prom w/&i said yes.idk if this helps but hes on aderol&antidepressants and since the meds hes had a very apathetic outlook on life(which is y we broke up) i also believe he is a narcisisst.he also recently got cited 4 a dui.plz help me figure out whats going on w/ him?!?!

2007-07-05 08:37:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My best part, is when he looks at me with those eyes and doesnt have to say a word, and i already know, what he wants or needs......

2007-07-05 08:37:29 · 36 answers · asked by ~Blondie~ 2

yes i have monii but sumtimes i dnt lyk spendin it u knw n i wanna knw how u can get it wit out spending monii...

2007-07-05 08:35:09 · 34 answers · asked by davii&tigger_4eva 1

2007-07-05 08:34:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay so i have this ex boyfriend, we haven't been together for a few years now, but we dated for like almost 3 years, and we are still good friends.
The thing is that now he has a new girlfriend that he has been with i'd say about 2 years. But he still calls me a few times a month and says we should hang out, but what he means is lets hook up. Then we end up sleeping together.
I dont know what this means or whay he does this.
Can anyone help me??? or give me something???

2007-07-05 08:29:01 · 5 answers · asked by c00ynthia 3

Yesterday was my ex's b day I decided to tm him Happy bday b/c its easy to remember b/c of the holiday I thought we were on friendly terms but he didnt even acknowledge my tm and I am mad that I even did it! I thought we were adults and he could just say thank you, it was just Happy bday not "I want you" or anything more now I want to text him and say your welcome just b/c he is being an *** should I? I can promise you I will hear from him within the next couple months when he is havin downtime from dating b/c I know that is the only reason he did not respond is b/c he is seeing someone which I think is BS because just b/c you are seeing someone doesnt mean you have to be impolite I would have not done that to him. Should I tm him and say "your welcome"?

2007-07-05 08:27:26 · 32 answers · asked by *sexy mocha* 4