Okay so i have this ex boyfriend, we haven't been together for a few years now, but we dated for like almost 3 years, and we are still good friends.
The thing is that now he has a new girlfriend that he has been with i'd say about 2 years. But he still calls me a few times a month and says we should hang out, but what he means is lets hook up. Then we end up sleeping together.
I dont know what this means or whay he does this.
Can anyone help me??? or give me something???
2007-07-05 08:29:01 · 5 answers · asked by c00ynthia 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is using you for fun .... a change from his girlfriend .... and by you implying on him and going further and hooking up and eventually sleeping ..... he thinks you are ok with it ..... he is not looking to you as if he wants you back ..... he wants sex with someone else apart from his gf and he knows he can get it off you!
I would advice you to stop meeting him and talk less on phone too ..... unless that is you want the same as he does!!
hope this helps!
2007-07-05 08:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by Chigzy D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just useing you as an "extra" sex tool, he does still care for you but is with another woman, and so by keeping you around he is using you...and you who keeps sleeping with him are just digging your own grave you are the only one who is going to end up really hurt by the end of this....My advice tell him to back off you and if he still wants to be freinds then that is ok but NOTHING else because that's cheating on his current gf...
I hope you make the right choice
-Moose
2007-07-05 15:35:09 · answer #2 · answered by Moose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he will do his new girlfriend like that then he will do you like that.....Move on.....
I/He would respect you more if you didnt sleep with him because you also know its wrong and you still do it when he has a girlfriend. Your in the wrong as much as he is.
2007-07-05 15:36:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's keeping you as a booty call. If that's all you want to be then go for it, cause I know he ain't tripping. He gets as much as he wants with no attachments.
2007-07-05 15:35:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What exactly is your question? He either likes you or likes to sleep with you, or both.
2007-07-05 15:33:42 · answer #5 · answered by hottotrot1_usa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋