I am 25 and recently started dating a guy I dated in HS (he was my first sweetheart at 15). I have traveled twice in the last month up to see him (we live about 3 hrs apart). Both weekends have been fantastic - lots of flirting, laughing, fun & more.
I am not used to dating, as in the past I've had mostly serious long-term relationships. For the first 3 weeks he called every day, lots of sweet text messages & the like. But since my last visit he seems a little more closed off. Harder to get ahold of, not as responsive (but keep in mind he did just have a serious family tragedy occur).
I want him to know I'm thinking of him and miss him. But where do I draw the line between flirting and acting clingy? He was calling/texting me every day, if I do the same is it acceptable or am I being pushy?
Also, when/how is it a good time to address our status? Will it scare him away if I ask if we are exclusive?
2007-07-05
05:15:45
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