Singles & Dating - 3 July 2007

I've Kinda p***ed my boyfriend off,nothing really bad but i know he's not happy with me..
I know guy's can buy their girlfriends flowers or chocolate's to make it up to them...but what are girls suppose to do??

2007-07-03 23:40:37 · 16 answers · asked by baby_lou_smile 2

I know age shouldn't affect my feelings for her, but 10 years on me really makes me nervous. I'm 22. I guess I feel like I should act more mature or be more intellectual around her now. I totally thought she was my age too. Now I'm creating all this performance pressure for myself because I don't know how to act around her anymore. Should I go for it and ask her out? Or is 10 years too big a difference at this point in my life? I felt so confident before I found out her age, but now I feel really inexperienced compared to her! I'm not just talking about dating, but overall life experience.

2007-07-03 23:34:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-03 23:30:16 · 7 answers · asked by XXX 1

There's this girl I know and I've liked her now for quite a few months. I want to tell her how I feel but there's a slight difference. She's Filipino and I want to learn how to say it, and then say it to her in Tagalog.

Is this a good idea or the worst idea in the history of mankind?

2007-07-03 23:26:28 · 11 answers · asked by Rick G 4

This is more of a guy question.
And I want to understand, because I think the reason so many women feel that porn hurts their relationship and feelings is because they feel as though we are being compared to those other girls.
Also theres the issue in my relationship, that I didnt have the problem with until I was pregnant, felt unattractive, and thought I was being replaced with all of these beautiful girls to statisfy my fiance.

So honestly, besides the fact that guys just want to "get off", what is the obsession with porn?
And if you already have someone who you love, and gives you it all, why do you feel the need to look at others, does it mean you wish you could be with them? Or do you compare?

2007-07-03 23:25:32 · 5 answers · asked by PAYlURTACK* 2

For guys, what's the difference between a lover and a wife? How do guys see a girl as just a lover and how does guys treat a girl if he's going to be his wife?

2007-07-03 23:10:39 · 4 answers · asked by . 1

Is this proof that two people love each other?

2007-07-03 22:56:37 · 23 answers · asked by . 1

Ok i admit i am overweight...but i am working on it, but i hear all these girls sayting they arent shallow. Well first, I would always treat a gril as if they were a godess. I never treat a girl with disrespect. I do have alot of friends that are girls but they are never attracted to me. I am good listener, and if my friend that is a girl has a problem i will listen and try to make her feel bettter, but why wont they like me i dont understand. I would be really nice to them but all they will see me as is a friend

2007-07-03 22:55:44 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I went on a date with a guy. He told me he got divorced two years ago. He doesnt wear any jewelry, only a ring on his right hand, on his little finger, does this mean something?

2007-07-03 22:55:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-03 22:49:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my girlfriend have been dating 2 years, and are now engaged. when we first started dating i met her through a mutual friend and one of the first things she told me was that she wasn't one of those controlling women and would never take my friends away from me. so probably once a week me and my friends would hang out. after awhile she started getting mad and said well it's just i don't like you drinking. so i said ok i'll stop drinking. (mind you i'm not an excessive drinker anyway). then it turned to well i just don't like your friends, so after awhile i started hanging out with my other group of friends. then it turned to well thats our time, and i work night shift 7 to 7 so on my nights i have to work she goes out with her friends. and we've gotten in the argument severel times about my friends and it never ends pretty and she says she can hang out with her friends cause i'm at work and it's not our time. but i said listen my life consists of work, sleep

2007-07-03 21:52:25 · 1 answers · asked by Atlas 4

I do believe that being a woman you do not have to worry much about being alone. if you look around, most lonely people, some who even live their entire lives alone and never know love, intimacy of friendship are men. Society also judges women much less harshly. It is not always a choice for men to be alone. Most women have so many friends that they "chose" to be alone. Such is a priveledge of being a woman it seems I guess. I am an artist and I have worked very hard in my life. Yet, I am alone and have been alone as long as I can remember. What hurts is being dejected , rejected and looked over because of some of the most superficial things. What I hold in my mind is seen as worthless, such is the reality of being a man who does not fit the mold. I sit and watch people. I see women involved with men who are abusive but they would still chose a abusive worthless man over a man with ambitions and passion. It seems that $$$ is all that matters

2007-07-03 21:18:20 · 15 answers · asked by Misunderstood 2

2007-07-03 20:43:19 · 9 answers · asked by wilson n 1

2007-07-03 20:35:58 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

We started living as BF/GF but now we split. We share the same appartment and we love each other but he doesn't want to commit. Last night we end up having sex and now I'm really confused. We broke up just a few days ago and i'm not still used to the idea that i'm not longer his GF. I really love him but he was honest with me " I love you but I'm not ready for a long term relationship. I don't want to make you lose your time coz i think i will never be ready"
I just want to believe that things can work and he will change his mind one day. I know i'm still too young to think like this is the only man i want to share my life with. He's older than me 15 years and he was married once but was over ten years ago. Should I stay with him and be patient or should i move on

2007-07-03 20:34:31 · 14 answers · asked by chococat 1

Recently this guy (I'm 18 btw) who is 27 just asked me out while at work and I TOTALLY taken by it! He is really handsome, a complete dream guy! But I really cant get my head around it and he asked me in front of my friends who i also work with so bit embaressing! Apparently he has liked me for a while and only now had the nerve to ask me. It was a totally out of the blue scene but I think he must have noticed me gorping at him! Anyway he really is handsome and wants us to date. He lives far away and hopes I can live with him in future. Thing is... I really cant believe it and feel quite outclassed he is better educated, better looking, etc... etc... I mean I just was really gob smaked I asked him to repeat 3 times and just stared at him for 20 seconds when he asked the first time! I'm really just a common girl. OMG!! How do i handle this dream offer?

HELP!!!

2007-07-03 20:21:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

i went out with this guy and he dumped me cuz he was going to move to grand junction and it turns out that he used me while i was dating him and lied to me about so much crap and now he is planing to use one of my freinds and by the way he was never going to move he just said that as an exscuse to go out and sleep with another girl witch i caught him doing and i dont understand why guys like to use me and iam not even a hoe or a slut .. and i never slept with him by the way i dont role like that he just used me emotionaly ...... dont you think that is messed up .....

2007-07-03 19:59:56 · 8 answers · asked by Rose M 1

Say you were told by a guy you liked and were dating that the only thing he hated more than anything was a whining, irritating nag, could you stop yourself from becoming that person to save the relationship? How would you remind yourself if it's part of your nature???

2007-07-03 19:54:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive never had a GF but this freind of mine says its so over-rated, that she called him too much and stuff

I can't stand it when people talk like that!

I would give anything to have a Girl, Why cant people just be happy with who there with!!! Why cant they just be happy that hey, someone actually cares about you that they want to talk to you, he said that someone is trying to make him go out with another girl, my other freind chimes in "oh that sucks" I about snapped "NO THAT IS THE EXACT OPPOSIT OF SUCK!!!' no one would ever set me up with a girl!!! Ive never been on the other side of love, I see guys who have perfectly great girls who like them and they dont even care, girls I would die for and they just see it as annoying!!!!

AM I THE ONLY SANE OR ONLY CRAZY GUY ON THE PLANET!!!!!

PS. Where can I find those "crazy-Stalker" girls I hear guys whining about, because Id love it for a girl to care about me that much, mabye they wouldent be so insane if you atleast gave them a chance

2007-07-03 19:53:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i need someone to talk to, about anything, will you talk to me. please. i am on yahoo messenger at why_wont_you_love_me.

2007-07-03 19:43:47 · 6 answers · asked by Chelsea B 1

I told a guy I was in love with him and got all weird..I mean he got all quiet and like 007 and I have to figure out what he says..I mean WTF. He is not an american so he is shy but its so annoying I really want to hit on his head and tell him WTF! lol! But he does care about me because he never gets angry at me no matter what I do. He is in the army so he doesn't have much time, ITS NOT THE US ARMY SO NO FIGHTING JUST BOOT CAMP ALL GUYS MUST SERVE 18 MONTHS OVER HERE, We are both here and I know him 5 years. When I see him should I smack him lol! Man he sucks!~

2007-07-03 19:33:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

basicly narrowing it down 2 gurls ur around or see somewhat often

2007-07-03 19:32:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really like this guy. who i know also likes me.
But we are both too shy.
His friends said he would ask me out tomorrow.

Beausce we are shy what's some easy we can talk to each other and have a better realtionship.

*** and i know he iss going to ask me out lol.

2007-07-03 19:25:28 · 8 answers · asked by izzhee 2

2007-07-03 19:17:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

this is what someone told me:

my dad told some guy across the
street to turn down his crappy music .

he got mad and tried to stab my dad.

i shot the guy protecting my stupid dad
because i care for him.
i don't know why, i just did it.
and they let me go because
lucky for me, my step sister who
i used to hate was recording her
dumb friends and saw what happened.
it made me realize that i don't really care
much for my dad, but i still love him
and that my step sister, even though
i have treated her like crap, she still backed me
up.

The person that gave me this said he feels terrible about killing another human being and basically that it will haunt him forever.

Also, he doesn't know what to do because it made him
realize his family meant a lot more to him than he thought.

What advice should I give him? I don't know what to say.

2007-07-03 19:13:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

What are some difficulties (for people who've done this) you've experienced? I'm 23, and I'm talking 10+ years older. Any advice?

2007-07-03 18:51:36 · 7 answers · asked by Cail 2

I've been seeing this woman for only a few months. I find her very attractive. She works at a local nightclub as a waitress. She says she's into Asian men and has date previous dates and boyfriends with them. It seems I match her type of guy. She also tells me that I look so sexy when I smile at her.

Whenever I see her, we talk very briefly, sometimes I buy her a drink, and we give each other a friendly hug whenever I step into the club and say goodbye. I stop by every once in awhile just to meet with her. She always tells me she misses me when I haven't seen her within a week or two.

Recently, she gave me her # so we can talk whenever we're not busy. However, I'm not sure if she gave me her # to talk casually or to make plans to see each other again. I'm kind of confused about this situation.

From what I observed, a question comes to me. Is she really interested in me? Is this a sign of a crush?

Well, which one is bad?
1. dating a cocktail waitress
2. dating a stripper

2007-07-03 18:49:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've got three different number from girls at different clubs. Do these girls still see me as a customer or are they interested in dating? I am different from the other guys in the club because I treat them like human beings and not hot meat. I would like some insight from people who have experience.

Please try to keep this serious, no stupid remarks about how I shouldn't date them, because I don't care.

I just want to know how to approach the situtaion.

thank you.

2007-07-03 18:47:37 · 18 answers · asked by law school kid 1

2007-07-03 18:38:48 · 6 answers · asked by amethyst0683 1

i have a bf and he is in the USA and i'm in the Phil.we have a constant communication for 11 months but on the 12th month it suddenly became not that constant anymore i asked him several times why he doesnt call me that much but he just answered me that he's busy,tired or have a migraine..but i just dont get it...and i got a feeling that his ex-gf also in the USA has been trying to get him back.wat made me feel hurt was when i checked my friendster account and found out that his ex-gf viewed me and saw her picture with my bf's niece and it seems it was taken recently...plesae help.. what will i do??? ilove him so much but im hurt as well.....

2007-07-03 18:32:26 · 8 answers · asked by roxy 1