I have betrayed my lover. Her sluttty sister has worked her charms on me. She would always flirt with me and my lover knew what her sister was liek so laughed it off. I saw her flirt like this with many people so I didn't get a big head as she did it to a certain extent with women too.
I felt hurt last month and decided to flirt back like bigtime. within a week of texting we were at my house alone for 2 hours. I put on some MTV and made her a drink. It wasn't long before she was trying to tickle me on the sofa and then molesting me as part of a game. But it has all backfired.
She is sick. She forces me to be naked in front of her while she keeps her clothes on for about 10 minutes. She is nice to me verbally but she has a tendancy to push me and it really hurts when she puts her nails into my chest or arm. Anyway I cant put up with this situation anymore - it is killing me.
I am happy to continue but I feel that I am being hurt by her games too much. I am confused - help?
2007-07-05 03:11:51 · 28 answers · asked by Joe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-07-05 03:23:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First things first. I get the strong impression you are laboring under a few distorted thoughts. The idea that all people tell the truth all the time, or somehow it hurts you. People lie. This is a sad fact. I do not know what you've had shoved into your head in a therapy, but I would recommend you read up on distorted thought patterns. If we hold certain beliefs, we will interpret our interactions with others in an incorrect way, usually, thinking it is somehow a judgment against us somehow. Before every thought there comes a feeling, and these feelings can be the lies we tell ourselves. Cognitive therapy, the looking at distorted thought patterns, is the ONLY "therapy" I have ever seen with any validity. This is because it makes one look at the truth. Having said that, I would then direct your attention to The Bible, where it states that man shall live by every word that comes from the mouth of God. No lie is of the truth, and God is the source of all truth.
2016-05-18 22:20:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait wait wait... you are upset on how your lover's "slutty sister" is treating you? The sister is playing games with you, and i bet the other sister (your lover) is going to know all about this display of authority sexually, because people like the "slutty sister" only do things like that to feel some sort of sick power. I would get out of that situation. Leave the lover, because you cheated and she deserves better. And leave the slutty sister, because she sounds a bit crazy.
2007-07-05 03:17:04 · answer #3 · answered by ms. hardcore 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know you have something better to do than to sit on your backside and make up these fantasies. I told you earlier today that you are a sick man, and you need counsling. So get up from your computer, and go to the nearest therapist. They fees based on pay, so not having money is no excuse. Get up, Go to therapy, don't talk to any more woman.
Rat bast - ard
2007-07-05 03:18:09 · answer #4 · answered by Sandra B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So you betrayed your lover by sleeping with her slutty sister? Or by having her over for a couple of hours? I guess it doesn't matter because you feel that you did. The sister's behavior is not your responsibility, and you ought not to be the one to fix anything about her. You need to step away for a day from both, gather your thoughts and make a decision on what you need to say to your lover AND you need to sit her down away and in private and say to her how damaging/insulting her sister's behavior is for you personally and for your relationship with her. Tell her that you cannot bear to be the object of her and her sister's affections and if possible, she needs to resolve how best to stop her sister from victimizing you.
If unfortunately you find that neither of them are taking you seriously regarding your fears and the continued games, then I suggest that painful as it may be, you need to distance yourself from both of them. You deserve to be treated with respect.
2007-07-05 03:20:46 · answer #5 · answered by Maya's Angel 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First off, to answer your question...YES, you ARE confused. Why would you even bring your flirtateous slutty g/f's sister over at your house?! You basically got what you asked for. And dont try this innocent "she made me take off my cloths" excuse, you knew what that chick was about from the beginning. You should have just f'd her dumb @SS.
2007-07-05 03:18:27 · answer #6 · answered by EmpreSS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
more fool you for being so weak...stop messing about behind your partners back and tell the slutty sister to get lost.....if you cared about your partner then you would not have done it...so i hope you can live with the guilt...and i hope that your partner finds out coz between the 2 of you (slutty sister) you are both worthless....no woman can make a man have sex...so that means you really do like it....get a life....stop being deceitful and get rid of the skank
2007-07-05 03:24:39 · answer #7 · answered by Dazzlebox 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is the man here? Sounds like you have no control over yourself. She is the boss. Women can't usually force that one a man..so you might want to get out of the sauce.
2007-07-05 03:15:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
UH, well, maybe you should let her castrate you? Sounds like you're two-timing and that's not cool. Drop 'em both and start over with a NICE girl. But be nice back.
2007-07-05 03:16:11 · answer #9 · answered by zaynpevy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to grow some balls and tell her to f off. She's just playing with you like a toy for her amusement.
2007-07-05 03:15:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
dude, that's sick man. ordinarily i'd say that's sexual abuse, but if you LIKE it then you have no right to be on here. just grow some nuts and push her back, is the best i can give you.
2007-07-05 03:17:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋