Singles & Dating - 8 May 2007

Im a 19 year old student and i have always fancied much older men. The oldest man i have been with is 37 and have experimented with older than that as well as come close emotionally. dont know what it is about them and there is no reason for this, many people have said it was something to do with a father figure As i never met my father until i was 10 and have only met him 3 times to this day.
It isnt money or better sex so i was wondering whether anyone was in the same situation and whether i should look for a way to stop this feelings and concentrate on men my own age or at least not any older than 15 years older.
Im not interested in whether people dont like it or think it is sick!
the thought of being with someone my age or few years older is wierd.. its like they are really young... even though not much difference in our age.also the size of there body... its like a teenager or something. i like the big.. mans body if u know wot i mean? The oldest i have fancied is 54!

2007-05-08 23:54:32 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently my best friends boyfriend introduced me to a friend of his. We hit it off talking until the wee hours of the morning. He gave may every indication that he was interested, and i also made him aware that i felt the the same. Here's the problem we met up last night since i had nothing to do, well everything was well until i suggested we catch a movie in his hometown. He said he didn't want to be seen with me there becuase some of his friends have started rumors about him and he doesn't want any started about me. He said we could go anywhere else to see a movie , but never there. I asked him if he was married which of course he denied. After our so called date ended he took me to an empty parking lot to hug me and give me a kiss. When i called him later to tell him goodnight he didn't answer, and the second time i called his phone was off. I suspect he's married, but i am just so confused. Any input in this situation would be helpful Thanks.

2007-05-08 23:44:58 · 4 answers · asked by ladetuspesadillas 1

And when did that stereotype start?

2007-05-08 23:14:14 · 7 answers · asked by Pyro 3

I started texing and talking to a guy who's picture and profile was online on a 'friends' website. I thought he was cute and we swapped numbers and I had a really good feeling about him and we had a lot of fun talking to eachother. Then we met up on monday, and am ashamed to say that I didnt like his looks. He didnt look anything like his pictures but he was still the same sweet and funny guy i'd started to get to know. I've since told him because i wanted to be honest, that he's not quite my type but I would like to carry on being friends. Being the nice guy he is, he told me he's happy with that. But I've been feeling pretty crap after that and I dont know wheter I did the right thing. I dont think am after someone whos incredibly gorgeous, but someone who i at least find attractive to being in a relationship with. I just feel really awful about this cos i thought he could be the one for me. Should I try again with him?? or leave be...??

2007-05-08 22:55:51 · 20 answers · asked by Abs-Ashl3y 1

2007-05-08 22:47:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with my girlfriend for 18 months, but just before christmas, after she'd been in france for a month, and I was feeling very low, I cheated on her with a man. I've regretted it ever since, but I feel I have to tell her. It has not happened again and it meant nothing to me. How do I tell her?.... What do you think my chances are that we'll stay together?

2007-05-08 22:46:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-08 22:32:34 · 18 answers · asked by aaaa b 1

i kinda just met this girl, yeah i can admit i like her, i dont know if she likes me back, maybe but she may just wanna be friends...i talk to her every so often, we both dance in the same complex...our main method of communication is e-mails, probably because i don't have her for any classes, or most of the time were not even in the school at the same time ...whenever i see her i would say hi and bye nothing much and she would do the same.(shes a much better dancer then me)
so i broke the ice by telling her that i was at one of her performances and that she performed awesome...she said thank you, and said she had noticed me in the audience.
Well anyways we've been writing to one another, and i always compliment her on whatever i can mainly her dancing skills...i know its good to let her know that what she practices for is really paying off and whatnot, but Am coming on too strong?
should i stop complimenting her so much?

2007-05-08 22:31:36 · 12 answers · asked by ChR!S 2

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2007-05-08 22:28:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I’m just wondering if there are any guys left who don’t look at every female as a sex object but instead at women individually and what they like about her. I know not every guy is a pervert obviously but are there still guys that are waiting to find one girl they love and want that image of her only? I'm personally waiting till I'm married to have sex and I only want the image of my husband in my mind but I'm curious to know if any guys have this same mentality also. It’s just a question that’s on my mind and I’m curious about what everyone else thinks and yes I’m serious so be nice if you don’t mind :)

2007-05-08 21:38:51 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

In the relationship, if the girl tells the guy that she does not want him hanging out with any girl that he was previously interested in, the guy listens and doesn't do it, yet when you tell her the same thing about a guy that she used to be interested in it's ok for her to hangout with him because they're "just friends"? She says that she doesn't see him in "that way" any more, and everytime you bring it up about how it bothers you she's gotta get defensive about it because it's ok for her to hangout with ex-interests, but not the other way around. I don't get it.

2007-05-08 21:37:18 · 5 answers · asked by ridefast85 1

i'd like to listen men's opinion.... :)

2007-05-08 21:33:38 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why is it that when I was single the guys were extremely far and few between? Now that I have a boyfriend (whom I care about very deeply I might add), dudes seem to be so much more interested in me and will pursue with all there might! Its strange how things work hey, just wanted to know if you guyz and gals feel me on this one?

2007-05-08 21:27:41 · 10 answers · asked by Expecting ... ? 6

He's my ex-fiance.. And I can't seem to let it go. If I don't call him I won't talk to him, but when I do call him (about every few weeks) he says he's glad to hear from me. he came here this weekend for my g-mothers funeral and we slept together (2x) and he was being overly affectionate... But then he says he likes another girl that he's been seeing.....But THEN he makes sure to point out that she's not his girlfriend..........????? I thought he still loved me but should I just let go and call it quits???\


Btw...when he was here this weekend he "accidentally" left his razor here. And he calls and leaves a voicemail about a cheap a** razor. I offered to give it to his friend to pass on to him because I'm better off not seeing him too much. He said to keep it at my house because it will be safer there..lol wtf??? Why in the hell would you call about a stupid razor.

We split on really bad terms but every time I talk to him I get the feeling he's hesitant to get off the phone...Help!

2007-05-08 20:57:56 · 7 answers · asked by Nikki S 4

I am a 24 year old pediatrician. I have naturally blonde hair, and blue eyes. I am 5'3" and 108lbs. I own, and operate my own private medical practice, and own numberous homes through-out the U.S. which I have worked for, and bought by my self. I have never been married, and don't have any kids. However I would like to get married with in the next 4 years. But it seems that no guys even want to date me. I am sweet, kind, compassionate, sucessful, fun loving, sassy at times, and I love to laugh and I smile all the time. I have the BEST family and friends in the universe too.

2007-05-08 20:42:30 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-08 20:42:10 · 24 answers · asked by blacky 1

was dating this guy.. for more than 6 months.. i didn't know that he had a GF of 5 years.. i was the OTHER GIRL.. and i didn't even know about it.. he used me.. emotionally.. financially.. sexually.. u name it.. he was all take.. to make things worst, he keeps bragging about his exploits.. god!! i'm so frustrated.. so bitter.. i want to get back at him.. make him feel the pain..

i'm thinking of letting the girl know.. so that they'll break up or something.. i'm not really sure thou.. it's just that i'm so mad.. cuz i know that i didn't deserve to be treated like that..

can anyone help me out?

2007-05-08 20:41:54 · 25 answers · asked by KaTaRiNaDaL 1

Pepole are judge with out them knowing you. do they think they know every thing? Take a hrad kook at yourself, then you can see who you realy are! Re:Broken Heart.

2007-05-08 20:37:02 · 17 answers · asked by It' all good 1

My friend introduced me to this male last week. He took me to dinner and a movie. When he brought me back to my apartment, he asked if he could come up.. (come up?! for what?!) I told him that I had to work the next day and made up some excuses. Last night he asked to come over (watch movies). I said yes. When the movie was over, I sat there and he said "go ahead to bed". (HUH?) He asked if he could stay over - (take a nap before he drove home) - I gave him a blanket to sleep on the couch.

But... why is it, that I wake up to him trying to take my shorts off????? I was furious. I told him to get his sh** and get the f*** out! I gave him the benefit of the doubt. Why do men do this? Are all men like this? How can I trust men, when things like this happen?

2007-05-08 20:24:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just wondering if anyone out there would know how to meet the right man. I honestly don't get out much, I have only one child but have no support as far as someone single (all my friends are married or dating) to go out with or someone to mind my child. I'm not desperate, but would love some attention, I wouldn't want to just leave my son with anyone either. I have fear of spending time with a complete stranger, does anyone have any suggestions for me???

2007-05-08 20:22:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm having trouble like most guys did, to propose my feelings to a girl. The problem is I think she is way outta my league. But I gotta try.. or I'll never find out about her feeling and I want to make sure that I'm worthy for her. Can you Guys give me some suggestion, tactics or advices? Anything would be appreciated. Preferable answers from girls.

2007-05-08 19:58:02 · 20 answers · asked by Jan Lie 1

well i like him. and my friend told him, and all he said was shes cute. now he wants to talk to me because i never have talk to him. so iam trying to talk to him too, but dont now how to sart the conversation at school.. help!!!!

2007-05-08 18:51:15 · 5 answers · asked by SCARLETT 1

im not sure if i am or not. we been talking a lot the past few months. he sometimes doesnt write for a couple weeks but always says its cuase he is busy and hes sorry. anyways , the last time we had plasn to hang out but i didnt get a call so about 2 days later iwrote him cussing him out and also insulted his size.. its been 3 1/2 weeks and still have not heard anything. i said a buncha mean stuff, then after apoglize like a week later. am i being ignored?

2007-05-08 18:49:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i understand to pay for my share and i think it's fair but i just feel like he could treat me sometimes (he has treated me in past but less than 10 times and we've been together for a year. we go eat out often) or buy me something... i am not from this country,so i wanted to know if it's normal for couples in this country and i'm just been old fashion and over reacting or he's just been cheap...

2007-05-08 18:38:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex cheated on me for the third time and I recently broke it off. His ex best friend and I have been talking through myspace and he wants to take me out this weekend. His ex best friend really likes me and he makes me feel so much better when I'm sad. Should I do this? Why should I care about how my ex feels when he obviously didn't care about me when he cheated. Is this a good idea?

2007-05-08 18:38:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I've been seeing this guy for about a month. He had his arm around me, but I felt that he suddenly let go. He later told me that he saw the girl that he used to like for a year but never got the chance to go out with. I am so upset! What does this mean? I feel like he was ashamed to be with me.

2007-05-08 18:29:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do you prefer .... i know its random ..... jw

2007-05-08 18:17:43 · 39 answers · asked by victoria s 1

2007-05-08 18:16:50 · 16 answers · asked by victoria s 1

he is an extreme jealous person. He deleted all of the guys numbers from my phone. Doesnt want me to talk to any GUYs anymore, even my guy friends. He hates me going on facebook and myspace, he wants me to delete them and i cant go on aim anymore because of him. I love him dearly and i dont know what to do!!!!

2007-05-08 18:16:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this guy that is really nice and flirtatious online, but everyday, when I see him at school, we act like we don't know each other. I've heard that next year, at the beginning of the school year he's going to ask me out, but I don't want to date a guy I can't even talk to in person. What do I do?

2007-05-08 18:14:05 · 10 answers · asked by shanabanana922 2