Singles & Dating - 8 May 2007

clues he likes me...:
cames to my house at midnight just wanting to talk
came to my house around 11 just wanting to say hey
came to my house last night to chat for a little while
friends are telling me it's clues that he likes me
he im's me.
he texts me back, almost always now.
he tells me secrets only i know. at least he said that...

clues he doesn't like me:
he talks about other girls [maybe to make me jealous?]
he said i looks uncomfortable when i was talking to him last night [i hurt my knees really bad on friday and was squating to talk to him]
he doesn't invite me anywhere, but he comes over...

i'm also not sure if i like him. i used too. and i'm maybe
willing to give him a chance.

i just need to know ur opinion, does he like me?! [keep in mind he's extremely shy.]

2007-05-08 04:12:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend is going into the air force in a couple months, and we've been talking about "us" and our relationship, and he told me that he doesnt want a relationship with anyone right now, and he also wants me to basically just forget about him and move on. I dont know how to move on, i really love him, and i want to be with him, this is just so hard for me. I wish i could tell him "ok fine, we're over" but i cant, im not that strong, and a part of me just wants to hold on and try to make it work. what am i supposed to do??

2007-05-08 04:10:47 · 2 answers · asked by gibby411892003 1

I am confused, I know I shouldn't be but I am! I met my girl when I was 17 and have now been with her five years. We have been through so much together it would take hours to go into it, and she has always stuck by me even though I havent always been easy to live with. I love her to the end of the earth and I do still find her sexually attractive.

So WHY oh WHY do I consistently want to sleep with pretty much every woman I see? I mean it is getting crazy I just want to rip women apart sometimes, like my animal instinct is taking over! The drive to be with as many girls as possible is driving me crazy. I don’t want to be with anyone else, I certainly don’t want to be in a relationship with anyone else, but when I think of sleeping with someone else it drives me crazy with desire. The only thing that stops me (apart from the fact that I'm sure most of these girls would reject me anyway!) is the thought that I don’t want to be racked with guilt and ruin our relationship.

2007-05-08 04:10:17 · 52 answers · asked by Joe S 2

I would take my boyfriend Ty where ever he wanted to go... or he took me...

2007-05-08 04:08:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm going on a first date with a guy and I need to know what would look better on a first date: A mini skirt or capri shorts?

2007-05-08 04:04:18 · 9 answers · asked by Rachael 1

2007-05-08 04:04:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

he is going out with 1 of my friends and says he loves me and flirts alot and says he jus wants to be friends am i getting played?

2007-05-08 03:58:36 · 12 answers · asked by TwilightObsessed 1

My boyfriend, my cousin and I are planning to go to a trip this summer.
I asked him - - since he's my boyfriend, if he won't mind putting 1 night on his credit card on the hotel, since I dont have a credit card. He said sure no prob.

But I've noticed that he's been a little annoying, making sure that we'll pay him and stuff. I mean obviously we're not going to ripp him off, but he keeps talking about it.

I know he is on the cheap side, etc., but I mean, last year I paid for the full room and didn't ask for a cent for him, and now, he's acting like this? I mean, we'll been together for almost a year and a half, and he should trust me that we are obviously going to give him the money, but he seems to be reminding us a lot. It annoying.

I dont know, I fee like calling him and explaning to him that his attitude is making me feel bad and unsure.

2007-05-08 03:58:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok I’ll say a month or so ago me and my bf broke up and it was him that initiated it. After a while I come to the assumption that he did it for no reason at all. He said that it was academic and spiritual purposes, yet we still were seeing each other and doing all the things that broke us up in the first place. After being fed up with him, I cut him off, and every time he wanted to see me and to come over to my place, or me to his, I would always be busy and have something else to do; and would avoid him. He would not stop. After the last time he did it I told him to stop bothering me, and he was so hurt, but I only did it because I felt he was playing games with me and didn’t know what he wanted, and I got tired of feeling like that. A few weeks later I check on facebook and he is in another relationship with some other chick. I think he did it because he saw all these guys sending me messages and playing around with me getting married and in a relationship on facebook. Anywho I congratulate him on his new relationship and wish her and him the best of luck in the future and told him to treat her good. I guess he didn’t expect that. A few days later I am in the shower and he calls me telling me about their problems and how he cant be with her, because every time he was with her he was thinking of me, and that he told her he was still in love with me. I was like that was really messed up how he was playing games with that girl. He calls me over all the time to spend time with me, but is still in contact with this chick. He says its nothing but I don’t know what to think. Should I just leave this dude alone for good? Seems he doesn’t know what he wants in life?

2007-05-08 03:51:29 · 6 answers · asked by girliegirl 3

My boyfriend told me that he was going to come and see me after he got off of work. By 4 a.m. when he had not called and had not shown up, I began to worry. I started making phone calls and started driving around trying to find him. I found him at home asleep in his bed. At that point I was pissed, i wont lie I sent some nasty messages. Well the next day he got mad at me for calling so much because he had left his phone at work, like i was suppose to know that. And his roommate told him that I came by to check up on him, and I told him the truth. Anyhow, I am now being punished and ignored for caring. Mind you I have gotten many drunk night phone calls insluting me and disrescepting me, but when he says sorry I accept it and move on. I have said sorry but apparently that is not good enough. At what point do you decide to keep going and putting up with it or just give up? So confused....

2007-05-08 03:47:37 · 4 answers · asked by Kassi B 1

Met this guy at school this year, the two of us hung out alllll the time. Went from not knowing him at all to meeting up every day. He's an outgoing guy, yet acts reserved around me. We're both in our 20s. Now that school is over haven't really talked to him....in fact never really said bye....there was a definite connection, yet we both kind of avoided it...maybe because we had almost all the same classes. Where does that leave me???? I know ill see him next year, and as much as I want to move on....i can't.......

2007-05-08 03:43:00 · 11 answers · asked by ingasoline 1

2007-05-08 03:40:29 · 47 answers · asked by Umama N 1

when a guy finds out this wife or girlfriend is cheating on him. how come the guy always goes after the other guy and doesnt do anything to the girl. I have never laid a finger on a girl but i think i would if i found out my wife was cheating on me

2007-05-08 03:40:06 · 36 answers · asked by kingofhearts6464 1

I have always been on my own and had my own space and now he's always there. He never goes anywhere and if he does, it's not for long and I never get my own space ever. Why doesn't he want his own space? He's just happy to be with me every second. When I get home from work, I would just like a little down time, but I have to immediately cook dinner, after driving an hour home from work, and I can't ever just come home and get in my jammies and relax like I used to. I have to be a wife now and I don't know how to tell him I have other interests and some of them don't involve him, just me.

2007-05-08 03:39:56 · 12 answers · asked by Kastenfrosch 1

What kind of girls do you like? What do they look like?

2007-05-08 03:38:50 · 11 answers · asked by steph 2

My guy takes a really long time (30-45 min at least). He always takes care of me but he dosent always "finish". He will stop me from helping him (finish) is that normal? Mind you Im not complaining its just I dont feel like im doing my job..

2007-05-08 03:38:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi... i never thought this story will happen to me... i am married with a lovely husband and 4 years old daughter.. we are a happy family till i met this man 2 months ago.. at the start i didnt serious but now i feel like i am in love with him..i dont want to leave my family but also i dont want to hurt him aswell... what should i do?

2007-05-08 03:34:40 · 16 answers · asked by patitebrownie 1

for who they are and they will love me for who I am. Does it even exist, I thought I had it and then it got took away.

2007-05-08 03:27:29 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex is always blaming me for something. For once, I wish we could just get along. He got in trouble for accidentally starting a fire and he told me not to tell anyone. I didn't, but I heard his friend telling some people. So he comes up to me and tells me to f*** off cuz I have a big mouth. He always chooses me to blame 1st before he finds out what REALLY happened.
What should I do?

2007-05-08 03:24:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

k so theres this guy, and were not going out but we both like each other.he just doesnt want a relationship right now becuase hes so busy and he doesnt wanna neglect me...but then i went to this party and this guy was totally hitting on me and he was cute but nothing happened. then later when i told the first guy, he got all jealous and told me that i cant go over there anymore! it made me sooo mad cuz like hes the one who doesnt want a relationship. than when i told him, he said we can be faithful to each other and stuff without having a relationship..WTF?!? hes totally messing with me right? grr..what should i do? im eighteen hes nineteen, and he occasionally sleeps over at my house, so were really close. he wants all the characteristics of a relationship( faithfulness, sex, being together alot,etc) but he just wont freaking commit! what should i do

2007-05-08 03:23:44 · 20 answers · asked by Leesh 2

I have been going out with my boyfriend for over a year and i am moving away to uni in england in 4 months (i live in ireland). he has been annoyed with the way the relationship is going, and wants to change things. i don't feel the same way and really think it will make it harder for me to leave in september. what do i do? end it now or wait until september?

2007-05-08 03:19:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my bf have been dating for 1 1/2 years and we are soon to get married!! But every guy that i know that has gotten married completey changes! usually they start out really good guys (helping around the house, cooking, doesn't look at porn)
But then they change, they start to do absolutley nothing, and they constantly talk about other pretty women, and look at porn, etc.
My bf says that he won't do that and that I should trust him, he says that he hates the fact that he has to be judged by his sex, because he is not like most men and he promises to stay that way!
But it's not that I don't trust him, it's that I don't trust who he might become!

2007-05-08 03:19:05 · 11 answers · asked by Kristen C 1

is there anything that one says a man has lost hi virgintiy...or is it applicable to women...tell me

2007-05-08 03:18:24 · 16 answers · asked by frnds_4real 1

2007-05-08 03:15:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-08 03:15:34 · 7 answers · asked by pooswa 1

my man and i have been together for 1 month and 2 days. On our one month anniversary he asked me to marry him and for the first time i was speachless!!!! wat should i do?

2007-05-08 03:13:27 · 15 answers · asked by Katt 1

Did anyone pursue it?

2007-05-08 03:06:49 · 8 answers · asked by Svetlana 2

if you catch your man doin it with a blow up doll.........and he has a pic of micheal jackson stuck to it

2007-05-08 03:03:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-08 02:46:27 · 11 answers · asked by Ashley 1

word when they love a girl?

2007-05-08 02:41:14 · 8 answers · asked by Diaci 1