what would you say if your man ask's u to marry him?

Question

my man and i have been together for 1 month and 2 days. On our one month anniversary he asked me to marry him and for the first time i was speachless!!!! wat should i do?

Answer 1

I would say

"OMG - I'm gay?!"

But ... in your case, I am thinking you say that you are speechless because it seems such a short time since you have gotten together.

Perhaps you need some time and you might want to ask yourself (or ask him) what's up with the hurry? Maybe you'd like to marry him you think but it seems so rushed!

(It seems rushed to me)

Answer 2

You have only been together for a month and he asked you to marry him? If I were you I would date for a while longer and see where that goes. And when I was proposed to the first thing I said was "Are you sure this is what you want?" I guess I wasn't what he wanted because we split up. Give it time and you will know what to say when the question is asked again.

Answer 3

After only 1 month...wow....only you can answer that one. You know how you feel about him. I don't think you could possibly know everything about him though in that short space of time, but if you love him too, I would ask him what the rush is. Tell him you love him and want to marry him but it's just too soon and you need more time for you both to really get to know one another better. Good luck :)

Answer 4

wow... a month... thats soon. I thought my relationship moved fast. That is tough because no one really knows the situation between the 2 of you. I hate to say it... but follow your gut. Look ahead 5-10 years... can you picture yourself with him? Does it seem right? Or can you picture someone else? If you can't imagine being without him... then accept his proposal. No one says you have to get married immediately. Good luck to you!

Answer 5

i would say that being together for a month and 2 days isnt long enough... you guys just got together so your still learning about each other.. give it more time.. you never know, their may come a time where one of you finds out that you dont want to be with the other but then you find yourself stuck because you rushed into to soon... jsut give it more time to get to know each other and go from their.. you shouldnt rush into these kinds of things

Answer 6

Too soon!!! Give it at least a year...if he still wants to marry you and you want to spend the rest of your life with this man then do it! Mine said he wanted to marry me also early in our relationship. My answer to him was that I'm not ready yet, and when I am, I'll let him know. He told me he wants me to propose to him when I'm ready. If this guy really wants to marry you, he'll show you this same respect.

Answer 7

Say you have to think about it, that you like him very much, but that you have to know him better before you can make such a commitment. Promise an answer in three months.

Answer 8

if my husband did that, i would take him to the doctor because he had to have suffered from memory lost.

did he present a ring? tell him your concerns. if one month is not enough for you then let him know you need more time, you both need to get to know each other more. cause when your going in, there aint no coming out (easily)

Answer 9

I would tell him to wait a while....like 3yrs or so...because marriage ia a HUGE step to make hun!!!

Good Luck Mami!!!!

Answer 10

I personally would say "what took you so long" haha
You? I would wait. tell him it's too early for you to tell, but you would like to see where things go.
Best of luck!