Family & Relationships - 31 December 2007

everyone calls him pinguin!!
so i though of giving him this pinguin but at the same time its really hard looking for a present for him cause a really sweet guy & we have just have 3 weeks going out & i haven't seen him since 1 week ago so i didnt see him on chrismax so i really want to know if its a good precent....
plizz help!!

2007-12-31 12:43:02 · 19 answers · asked by meli 1 in Singles & Dating

Does this guy like me?
ok he has a girlfriend. He is my ex. by the way. but im not gonna date him if he has a gf. but he was talkin to my frined adn he was like
him: yea me and bailey talk alot now in 7th hour.
Her: awe thats cute, do u think shes pretty.
him: yea. O i didnt say that i didnt say that etc. {he said that cuz hes got a gf.}
her: o awe well she is gorgeous
him: yea i no =]
her: soo do u like her?
him: idk
Him: i always look up at that spot were we first kissed in the gym bleachers.
her: omg thats soo cute.
him: idk these last few days i havve felt so diffrent about her.
her: o really?
him:yea
her: well she likes u dont tell her i told u. {cuz she didnt want things to be weird and plus i dont want his gf finding out}




well does he like me? if he does then wouldnt he brake up with his gf? idk help me please and keep in mind im only in the age range between 11-14HELP ME PPL HELP ME!! =]


o by the way his gf is

2007-12-31 12:42:50 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-31 12:39:44 · 10 answers · asked by pooh 1 in Singles & Dating

If you were at the shopping center and you had two seperate items and you knew they were priced separately but when the clerk picked them up they were together and she just rang up one item, would you bring it to her attention that she has made a mistake? If so , why? If not , why not?

2007-12-31 12:36:19 · 15 answers · asked by Maddie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

As much as I love kids and I am more than willing to help them especially when they need serious advice. But I am tired of these 13 year old who so much want serious relationships and always asking"DOES HE LIKE ME OR DOES SHE LIKE ME". Am I the only one who is getting annoyed with it?

2007-12-31 12:30:08 · 7 answers · asked by conny 6 in Singles & Dating

i am in 8th grade (i am using my cuz yahoo) i realy like this boy that is in 9th what should i do! if a tell hem hes friends will be cunfusd at what i say and i i tell hem and make shor hes friends do nto her he will prob. pass out (he likes me)! what should i do? hwo do i tell hem i am intrested with out sayign what i felt????? i woudl not like he to get taken?

2007-12-31 12:29:54 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My cousins husband has been abusing me sexually since I was 11 and I really want to embarass him in public...we are having dinner tomorrow at his house and I want to know how to give him a ***** without touching him?

2007-12-31 12:29:43 · 10 answers · asked by Obsessive Barbie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

When i started at my secondary school 2 years ago i found it hard to settle in. I was bullied and no one wanted to be my friend. I starved myself and it got so bad that my periods stopped. Not one of the people who were supposed to be my friends helped me. Well recently, I went out with this boy and it was brilliant. Until my best mate became involved. She flaunted herself around and he became attracted to her. I dumped him because he told me that he was never attracted to me. Then all his mates said to me that I was ugly,fat and unattractive compared to my best friend. She knew that these comments would upset me but she and him still came into my face and told me anyway. She is having counselling for something that is not even serious! I have helped her with so much, and repays me by ruining my relationship and making me feel so ugly and insecure. He keeps asking her out. I would like to ask, did i have an eating disorder and what can I do to help myself move on from this? Help me

2007-12-31 12:29:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

So a strait guy and a strait girl...is it possible for them to have a friendship without wanting each other or desiring each other?

I recently took a look at my past and current friendships and I find that if we are both single, its really easy for me to kind of desire them or vice versa. *I'm talking about close friendships too, hanging out, talking a lot, etc.

I mean I know the majority of people don't act on it or anything.

Also in regards to their relationship status, does that change things?

2007-12-31 12:27:08 · 15 answers · asked by b-rad 3 in Friends

i've had this rule since i've been with my husband-no hanging out with the opposite sex one on one.if a third person is there it is fine. my husband thinks it is silly. he says he trusts me but i don't want to put the IDEA in ANYONE's head that i could be cheating on him. Well, my husband is out of town tonight with his band and i am stuck at the house by myself (i had to work) a fellow employee and good friend has nothing to do either and offered to hang out......i told my husband and he thinks it is completely fine. i trust myself and trust my friend and wouldn't do anything to hurt my husband BUT i don't want to put thoughts "subconciously" in his head....so what to do???

2007-12-31 12:23:20 · 18 answers · asked by Toni H 2 in Marriage & Divorce

After finding out that my X girlfriend was pregnant I told her good luck and never looked back. I have paid child support but I have not been in my daughters life. She is five now and I got sober and talked with her mother. She really wants me to get involved and I want to know what the best way to ease into her life would be.
I also have a three year old boy that I do take care of. Due to my meddling mother they have met and know each other. Perhaps that will help with the transition.
Please help if you have any advice.

2007-12-31 12:22:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance is in Morocco his sister lives in Paris I never met her before now she wants to come to spend a week with me in Toronto the problem that I don't have extra rooms for them , What can I do ?

2007-12-31 12:22:13 · 6 answers · asked by sim sim 6 in Family

me and this guy I’ve dating for about a month were eating some cheese puffs while we were watching a movie and after he was done he was looking for a napkin to clean his fingers and i took his fingers and started to clean them myself with my mouth. after a minute of me doing this he gave me this disgusted look and pushed me away.
and i was like what the hell is your problem
and he said what i was doing was very unhygienic, and nasty
and i said that if he was a normal person he would have did it his self, and my bad for trying to
help him out
he said sorry that his mother taught him manners, and that i go around sucking strangers fingers.
and i said well sorry for flirting with him i didn't know he was an uptight a**hole
Then i kicked him out.
Even though I know I’m probably not going to see him again, I just want to know if what I did was weird, or wrong.

2007-12-31 12:21:59 · 22 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-31 12:14:42 · 26 answers · asked by allie b 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i a bored and dint know what to do and i wanna message anyone

2007-12-31 12:12:55 · 5 answers · asked by Rocker 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 6 months just confessed to me that he was still with his ex-girlfriend when we met, and continued to date her after me and him started dating.
He said that he didn't expect us to really get serious, so he didn't feel the need to tell me at first. he said that only after he started having deep feelings for me, that he really wanted to be honest and tell me about this other relationship, so that we can get off to a fresh start, and build a more solid relationship.
I was heart broken for a few days, but I eventually forgave him, because he told me that he would no longer see the other lady.
for some reason I feel kinda stupid for letting him off the hook so easy...do you think I should believe him that he will be honest from now on ? should I believe that the other relationship is over ? I dont know the lady, so it would be impossible for me to know...should I trust him ?

2007-12-31 12:10:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

why are you on the computer instead of out partying?

My kids are setting off fireworks and I didn't have a date unless you count the cat.

What's your reason?

2007-12-31 12:09:56 · 23 answers · asked by ♥STREAKER♥©℗† 7 in Singles & Dating

Thanks

2007-12-31 12:09:39 · 15 answers · asked by mudpie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

well my mom ignores me and so now 6 years after i lived with my grandma and grandpa she sends a christmas present. i feel somthing is going on

HELP ME!

signed,
stressed

2007-12-31 12:07:15 · 4 answers · asked by Ash 1 in Friends

And you realized you had better let it go?

2007-12-31 12:06:31 · 6 answers · asked by Digital Age 6 in Singles & Dating

Is it bad luck or something?

2007-12-31 12:04:50 · 25 answers · asked by baebeecakes 3 in Weddings

2007-12-31 12:02:49 · 57 answers · asked by stale mate 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband probably probably thinks i am crazy because i pratically begged him back 2 weeks ago. After we started sleeping together again he says we can be friends with benifits we will be the best divorced people. I hate this for our 2 yr old and my 7 yr old and of course want him to come home and don't want a divorce but at the same time i want to show him i'm fine without him. I have called alot this week for him to see his daughter plus i miss him but i want to show him even though i would take him back i want to show him i'm fine without him. I think not calling won't be enough because in his proud(hispanic male) mind he will think i not calling but miss him. I need to do something drastic so he will believe i don't care anymore but i don't want to compromise my values or integrity. He is a successful person and i think he sees me as week and crazy by somethings i have done lately and in order to respect me i have to stop and turn the tables any ideas??

2007-12-31 12:02:47 · 34 answers · asked by poo~poo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we got married in the year feb 2007, but we live seprate from the month of march. our marriage is not actually consumated.
wether we can get divorce by mutual consent as i shall have to come india and otherthing is that my husband has go US in this month. thats why we want to take divorce in january 2008. Is it possible?

2007-12-31 11:56:16 · 4 answers · asked by anu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was in Puket on the beach at Kamala Bay when the 2004 tsunami struck, just wondering if there was anyone else involved that I could talk to or anyone who knows people involved?

2007-12-31 11:53:47 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughter is 20 years old and Tonight, I do not want her driving past 8:00 P.M. because it's new years eve. She was supposed to be going bowling with her friends and I asked her friend who is 21 to drive her and her friends to the bowling alley. She was very upset with me. She had planned to have her friend's stay at our house but got angry with me and decided to stay at a girlfriend's house instead. She wants to drive to the girlfriend's house but I do not feel comfortable with her driving there at 10:00 P.M. after they go bowling. I asked her friend again to drive her to the girlfriend's house and I told my daughter I would pick her up the next morning. She is VERY angry with me.

Am I being a bit overprotective??

2007-12-31 11:53:23 · 11 answers · asked by Nnay 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been married to my husband for 6 years, with him for 10. After we got married he became very abusive. Before we married he was verbal abusive and that should have been a warning. He's physical daily. He'll even beat me infront of our 2 young children. He doesn't hit them but he shows them it's ok to hit me. It's a new year and I'm planning on leaving but I think it's impossible. I signed a prenup because he's a very successful business man. We have a lot of money but he made it all. I married when I was 18, my highest level of education is high school. I have no job and no education because he wanted me to stay home to raise our children. Now when I think about it, I think it's because he didn't want me to account to nothing. I don't have access to the money, he gives me a weekly allowance but it's mostly for groceries and things for the kids. I have managed to save a couple thousand over the months. I have no family here in New York. Can anyone help me?

2007-12-31 11:51:44 · 14 answers · asked by HOLLYWOOD 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My hubby and I are stuck at home with our 17 month old daughter because she has pink eye and we don't want the other kids in the family to get the same thing. Does anyone have any fun ideas while we are at home for new years eve. This is the first time either one of us didn't go to a party for the holiday. I am pregnant, so it's not like I can get drunk. My hubby is already drinking his beer!

2007-12-31 11:50:51 · 1 answers · asked by breisingermela 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together since we were 15/16 and now we are 23/24. We've been living together like a married couple and I feel it's time to make it legal. He does not see a logical reason to get married. I can't seem to come up with one. We don't need to be married in order to know that we love each other, and we get along great. We budget our money, do fun things, have friends, work, share housework and other duties...the only thing missing is kids. I think we both want to adopt later on when we are more financially stable instead of having our own, if any kids at all. We are totally fine with just spending the rest of our lives with each other. I just want it in writing and he's resisting. Can anyone give me valid, logical reasons to get married? Any help is greatly appreciated.

2007-12-31 11:47:58 · 16 answers · asked by Abby 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we're twins (13 years old) and he lost a volleyball bet to me on who can have a better serving percentage. what can i do to make him feel like a real girl volleyball player?

were both the same size and he actually kinda looks like a girl.

2007-12-31 11:47:36 · 10 answers · asked by Dani 1 in Singles & Dating