well my mom ignores me and so now 6 years after i lived with my grandma and grandpa she sends a christmas present. i feel somthing is going on
HELP ME!
signed,
stressed
2007-12-31 12:07:15 · 4 answers · asked by Ash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i take it you still live with your grandparents. and for the first time in 6 years your mom has sent you a gift. i would take it as a good sign, but try not to get your hopes up too much. because you could be disappointed if you expect too much from her. she may be trying to change and become a better person, but it takes time. so be patient with her, be positive and loving. but at the same time keep a healthy boundary so as not to get hurt again.
2007-12-31 12:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send it back. Ignoring you for 6 years? That's pathetic! She doesn't deserve to treat you like that!
2007-12-31 20:21:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go.
You mom ignored you for six years.
The guy next door's mom belittled everything he did, from school to work, until he had no self esteem left.
The girl down the block has been beaten every week when mom gets drunk.
Across the alley the kid's mom leaves him alone while she goes out partying.
In short, Everybody has a mom or a dad or another relative that has traumatized them to one extent or another.
The trick most of us never learn is how to forgive them for it.
2007-12-31 20:15:53 · answer #3 · answered by chocolahoma 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to be a snot---but how old are you and how are you doing when it comes to school/college?
Where is you Dad?
I agree, with you I smell a rat. Let her expose her intentions...she will.
Happy New Year---
2007-12-31 20:12:37 · answer #4 · answered by allie b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋