Family & Relationships - 31 December 2007

2007-12-31 13:12:56 · 6 answers · asked by Pee wee 1 in Friends

2007-12-31 13:11:57 · 12 answers · asked by jusmic80 2 in Family

I have a forum that a lot of people are members of. Recently two of my members decided to 'go out' over the internet. I don't know how exactly they planned to be boyfriend and girlfriend online, but whatever. Anyway, the boy began talking to one of the girl's friends. And he told her he didn't like the girl, and threatened to kill the girl's friend if she told anyone. Her friend told her anyway. And, now that she knew he was a dick, she broke up with him.
Then he got angry and started swearing and threatening to kill her and her friends. And threatened to kill himself if no one went out with him. Stupid hm?
But then things got nasty. There is a chatbox on my forum and he started spamming really bad. Like, swearing and threatening stuff. He is still threatening my friend and she's scared. I have his IP address and I was wondering if there was anything I could do to get him to stop emailing her and harassing people on my forum. (I blocked him on the forum but he can still use the chat.)

2007-12-31 13:11:52 · 1 answers · asked by Cami 2 in Friends

My wife is ill w/ a nueralogical disorder...has been for almost a decade. I moved her to my home, away from her parents, four years ago. She's always telling how wonderful it would be to be back home. That's OK, I've finally decided that it's time to sell the house and go back to be closer to her parents and siblings. The prognosis isn't good and I want her to be close to the family. BUT...when we talk about making plans for a move, she's all of a sudden hesitant. People, I don't know which way to go! Do I just do it because I think it's best, or let her decide? We're in our late thirties, and very much in love. Truth.

2007-12-31 13:11:33 · 4 answers · asked by Mac S 7 in Family

My wife asked me for a divorce because she found out that I was emailing old girlfriends. She called each of them and they told her nothing was going on and I said nothing inappropiate in the emails. My wife is pregnant and she still wants a divorce. I got angry with her, because I feel like she was never really my friend and I could not talk to her so I talked to friends. I recently found out that she cheated on me while we were dating, I did too, but now I think of her as a liar. Do you think she shoud divorce me over some emails? Is there more to it, I should have not tried to turn it around and make it her fault, but I feel like she is to blame for my actions. Why does she want to leave me? This sounds crazy I know but I want to be honest and I am running out of space. Help.

2007-12-31 13:07:42 · 52 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-31 13:07:41 · 16 answers · asked by meghannicole_11 2 in Singles & Dating

wedding dress pretty???
gimmie you opinon!!http://weddingsaffordable.com/wp-content/uploads/2006/10/T8107l.jpg

or this one?
http://www.goodorient.com/images/D/B138_main.jpg

2007-12-31 13:06:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i was 34 she was 18 when we met.
i am 46 she is 30 and we stil meet one week
she is studying what i finance
i am working what i like.
she is a girl who loves shoes and dresses
i am a nerd who needs time to be himself
is it worth to start living together ?
are we wasting our time ?

2007-12-31 13:04:19 · 1 answers · asked by gjmb1960 7 in Singles & Dating

i want to move but im a single mom..i want to start my life all over but in a bigger city..i come from a town of about 500 really really small..not to many opportunities here...should i c if my parents would look over my kids untill i get settled on my feet or drag them along with me...

2007-12-31 13:00:07 · 6 answers · asked by susan c 1 in Family

We are togather for 2 years. Her coworker asked her to go out in my few weeks absence. I never knew him before. That guy has more things to offer than i can to my girlfriend. When i came back my girlfriend said she can't love me anymore. She need some time, space, one true thing she said.....her feeling for me started going away since she started feeling for this other guy. But she knows that she can't be with this guy as he is not from the same religion, same culture and for too much age distance. A week later she discused with him that we have a bad time going on and he told her on that second, "Can we be more than friend from now?"
Guys try to take chance when fights going on within a couple. Guy should not do something so that it raise a superior complexity on a girl and that girl lose feeling for her boyfriend. Can i meet/email and tell that guy (for my mental satisfaction and teaching) he was not supposed to do that, coz he won't support it in his mom, sister, girlfriend's case.

2007-12-31 12:59:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-31 12:58:18 · 8 answers · asked by ngltina 1 in Singles & Dating

He cannot control his temper. He yells and screams ,that's how he answers questions. He tells me I have brain damage.

2007-12-31 12:57:58 · 26 answers · asked by T 1 in Family

I'm not going to spend so much time pleasing my husband who treats me like I'm invisible. What kinds of things can I do to be a little more selfish, yet not wasteful of time and resources or that becomes overtly time consuming?

Don't say "take a bath" because that's not even selfish...that's self-care. A cup of hot tea is also not selfish, it's a beverage, humans need hydration.

2007-12-31 12:57:52 · 13 answers · asked by Xanadu 5 in Marriage & Divorce

is it very easy to loose weight when on your period if u eat right and exercise??? like if u eat vegtables,and fruits and other healthy foods is it very easy to loose weight??

2007-12-31 12:57:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

kiss me when the ball drops?

2007-12-31 12:57:32 · 6 answers · asked by Sarah 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We're both juniors. I'm the popular 3 sport varsity athlete jock who's going to play college ball. She's the unpopular "loser/nerd" who loves romantic stuff, love movies, and other stuff like that. I have feelings for her, but I'm not friends with any of her friends because we just in opposite sides of the spectrum. I like never talk to her but I want to. I asked my boy about this and he was like wtf you thinking kid she's a loser and I got pissed at him. If I date her I know I'll get made fun of so much and stuff but I want to because she's so cute and she's the nicest person I've ever known. No I am not a creep or nothing but like I check her facebook page and stuff I don't know why. **** what should I do?

2007-12-31 12:57:20 · 8 answers · asked by Girl You Got Me 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 16. some days i feel super confident about my looks to the point of where i feel like im giving off cocky vibes and stuff. i don't know. it just depends on my surroundings and what type of people im around. then at school there are so many pretty girls i don't feel that same way. and guys at my school don't really like me i don't think. only like 1 guy. i see more guys check me out when i have the confident vibe (at least i think so).

so my question is... can a guy tell if a girl is feeling confident about her looks and is it a turn on or turn off?? just curious.

2007-12-31 12:55:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-31 12:55:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do wives like to receive erotic/suggestive letters from their spouses? If so, what are some tips for writing it. Suggestive words, subtle euphemisms, things like that (nothing that would get this question banned.)

2007-12-31 12:53:50 · 5 answers · asked by davy c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my frend were girls(13) and we tied up my frends little brother (11) and we gave him a girly makeover by putting makeup on him and tieing his hair in pigtails and bows, put high heels on him, and put him in a pink and yellow flower dress! we were having so much fun then we locked him out dressed like a girl lol. he hates it when we show people the pics of his makeover! have you ever done this to a boy?

2007-12-31 12:53:36 · 8 answers · asked by Abby T 2 in Friends

Divorce will be final this year, for 20 yrs I have been known by this last name. Should I keep it or go back to maiden name?

2007-12-31 12:52:22 · 12 answers · asked by luvsmusiz 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my bestfriend briana has been fighting with her bestfriend mellissa . Of course im on brianas side cause i was never that good of friends with mellissa. The reason their fighting is because of this girl nicole who is supposedly taking mellissa away from briana so briana starts yellling at nicole and mellisa gets mad at briana. Mellissa starts picking a a fight with me and im just lik w.e.. mellissa starts calling me fat and ugly which umm im not and so i tell briana, briana doesnt even care cause it turned out dat dey made upp. And wen dey are together they always leave me out. So i get jealous and ask if i can sleepover brianas house briana said her mom sed no but later i find out dat mellissa is over there. So i tell briana dat we are no longer friends anymore i call up nicole and we become friends again and are planning to beat her uppp. Bri was texting me all nite calling me names but now i miss her ALOOTT.. what should i do to get her backk??

2007-12-31 12:51:30 · 9 answers · asked by Lynzii :] 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been together for 8 years just got married! Married for 6 months. The 8 years we dated I didn't get to know his side of the family( because we never visted his family). We got married met his family and WOW his family is white trash, small town(1000 people) and eat meat and potatoes every night. I am a world traveler and from New york city and I am a very fit person. What was I thinking.... Now that I am in it for the long run.... and not happy with what I am seeing///// he is a total different person ( his morals changed, less motivated and lazy and is getting fat)all his family can talk about is who walked down the street from rail road tracks and how much they saved at the grocery store.

Am I complaining too much? It's sort of suprise to me because when we dated for the first 8 years he was living life with me... we travelled, eat healthy/ exercised,socialized and had same goals and intrests.
Are we too different too last together? Any advice would be great!!!

2007-12-31 12:50:43 · 22 answers · asked by Sara 1 in Marriage & Divorce

...your split w/ your husband only 5 days ago because he's abusive. I plan on give him another chance only AFTER the proper psychological treatment. Would I be completely unreasonable or wrong to go out and have a good time even I know I won't be and have no desire to cheat?

2007-12-31 12:50:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I started seeing a guy 7 years ago who was in the army. He and i fell in w/ one another and the only reason we didn't make a commitment w/ one another was because he was getting deported overseas. He's seen so many marriages and breakups between couples who's been deported and he didn't want that to happen w/ us. Well, just recently he and i came into contact w/ one another while out. He's now retired from the army and he said he's been looking for me. The thing is, im married now. After spending some time alone with this guy i realized that im still so in love w/ him and he still feels the same for me. Don't get me wrong. I love my husband. But im IN love w/ this guy. What should i do??? Im so confused about things.

2007-12-31 12:49:01 · 20 answers · asked by brwn_id_grl_4u 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my parents really don't like the music I listen too though I won't give it up.they say I will go to the dark side, whatever that is. two music groups that I listen to are MCR and FOB I love them so much but my parents don't especially teenagers is there any way I can get them to give me a chance at explaining? my mom likes fall out boy's song the take over the breaks over would it be easier to talk to her first though right now we're not on good terms?

2007-12-31 12:47:11 · 11 answers · asked by ♥ my lady of sorrows ♥ 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I wouldnt say thats very skinny,iv seen some girls who are so skinny,am a size 8 but i never been on a diet...i got a bit hurt today,this lady i know,cousins family member said..oh u have lost weight alot,or have i not seen u alot,its just that u looked better wen u had more weight on....hmm but iv alwasy been a size 8? i think ppl see my arms and thats why they think that....but my butt is fine,its there,not to big lol....am kindof feeling bit unhappy cos alot of ppl saying am to slim,am 20 and a size 8...but i do wear 6 aswell,depending on the clothes....my bf has not got a problem with my weight,but likes it wen i eat,i know he loves my body so doesnt say anything! its just family saying it.

i also have no problem eating as i can eat alot some times,chocolate especially hehe.

ok so i have not got big boobs but am not worried about them as they get bit bigger wen its that time of the month lol sorry to much info....

2007-12-31 12:45:57 · 18 answers · asked by london-fem 3 in Singles & Dating

I really want to run away from home because:
1) I am immature
2) I am incapable and naïve
3) I do not get good marks in school
4) I make my parents upset and disappointed
5) They are disappointed in me and I cannot turn back to correct the mistakes I’ve made
6) I’m pretty stupid and I cannot handle life.
7) I am a burden to my parents.

I do not care if I survive. I think I will make my parents happy if I do this. Tell me a place I could run to.

2007-12-31 12:45:18 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

The only way marriage will become very popular again is to do away with the outdated forever vow and introduce something more appropriate for our time. Yes you read correctly. I believe the time for term marriages is here and now. The idea of forever is scary and un-appealing to many single guys and women. The biggest reason for our high divorce rate over (50%) is the vow of forever. The idea of forever is old fashioned and should be updated to fit the modern times. Consider how things have changed: no more stay at home Moms (over 85% work), many households now have both spouses working. Who cooks and clean is no more well defined. Love making after the first year is without passion because the pursuit of dollars takes a toll on perception of reality. To prevent and avoid the high divorce rate marriages should have time limits.

1. 2 years Term—A two year marriage will be a good way to determine if you really want to stay with your partner longer. This marriage will have no division of any thing; you get to keep what you entered the union with. In fact it should be clearly stated that the marriage will expire in two years. No lawyers, no bitterness and imagine how much couples would save.

2. 5years Term--- The five years term is the next best step for couples that have gone through 2 years term and still have the desire to be together. This commitment will help tighten up the bond and keep the relationship fresh and full of passion.

3. 10years Term--- This is the term for couples planning to have kids. Any guy that signs for this will be well aware of the commitment involved. Child support payments agreements should be built into this term to keep the courts and lawyers at bay.

4. 25years--- This is for true and known love. No couple should be allowed to sign up for this term unless one of the first three applies.


Progression in commitment is what makes sense and will make the institution of marriage popular again. I know some females might frown on term marriages but when you consider the present alternatives; term marriage is the way to go. What do you think? http://say-what-ever-you-think.com

2007-12-31 12:45:06 · 11 answers · asked by Ray R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It seems that another year has come and gone! I have made a lot of Great Friends in Yahoo,Pogo,My Space,etc...
I wish you all, A ROCKIN NEW YEAR!!!!
And for those of you I have given my email address to for those I haven't...SVS!!! Just add @ yahoo.com..

Next thing! Stay safe and don't name it after me! Love you Guys and Gals,You have made Yahoo answers a awesome place to visit!!!

Peace Out!!!!! D3K aka>Brian

AND, Moooooooooooooooooooooooooo!! Yes I will and You do the same!!! XOXo

2007-12-31 12:44:46 · 4 answers · asked by dokken3kiss 2 in Friends