Family & Relationships - 31 December 2007

I moved here about 3 years ago and the friend I've had the longest, my "best" friend, the only one I still have...I don't want to be her friend anymore. She doesn't need me, she has other people now, and a "boyfriend."

She hasn't done anything really wrong to make me feel this way, we've just been growing apart at rapid speeds..I can't help but want the worst for her, but at the same time I don't because I love her.. we used to (and still might) have so much in common, but our personalities clash like hell. Externally when we're together, we look like great friends..we talk in unison, have the same sense of humor (though it's changed now) and just seem to...work...

I feel guilty..
I guess one of the reasons I still want to be her friend is because I don't have any other friends, to be quite honest, nobody likes me...

but she sickens me sometimes, she doesn't deserve what I do..even though she does...matter of opinion, really...

I can't deal with her.
what should I do? Please help..

2007-12-31 15:38:03 · 7 answers · asked by Untitled Sabrina Project 4 in Friends

2007-12-31 15:33:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Soon we will be moving into a new house a few suburbs away from our old one. Im really upset about it because i feel so attatched to it since i've grown up in it and i cant imagine other people living in it. My mum and dad say we are moving for more room but yet i still seem to be upset about it. I dont think they understand how i feel and when i've told them they just tell me its not my choice. Iits gotten me into alot of fights too.

So is it normal to be upset? Is it not as bad as i think? Is there anything i can do to feel better? Should i be helping out as much i can? Has anyone felt the same way i do?

2007-12-31 15:31:06 · 5 answers · asked by Super Sprite 3 in Family

What's the best way to approach a girl without appearing desperate or like a stalker?, because I rarely approach girls, like almost never because I'm afraid I might give this negative impression, I turn 20 in like a week and a half and I've never had a girlfriend or dated, which I feel embarassed and depressed, so I want to fix this problem really bad. Also when is the right time to ask for a girls phone number?, because I don't wanna ask right away because that would show that I'm desperate. Also where are good places to meet girls?, because I have a hard time meeting them in community college because everyone is spread apart, like everyone has different schedules and stuff, etc. Anyway, just how do I approach girls in a nice, normal, civilized way?, like how almost every male out there is able to do.

2007-12-31 15:29:48 · 9 answers · asked by introvertedguy06 6 in Singles & Dating

okay the person my bro is dating and me got in a fight and i can't stand her and he asked me what i thought of her but i said she's okay becuse i don't want 2 hurt his fellings so yeah and now i fell bad that i told him she's alright becuse i lied 2 him

2007-12-31 15:22:29 · 8 answers · asked by SCORPIO 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband is dead and it's new years eve i have nothing to do but be with my online friends today an advice?
(even the vibrator won't help me out 2nite)

2007-12-31 15:14:10 · 5 answers · asked by what the f 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so basically i thin kim totally in lvoe with this guy i mean i keep thinking about him, i get butterflies, i laugh when i think of him, and i even am tongue tied!!!!!!!!!!! (never hppened before)
1. do you think im in love?
2. i already told him i liked him but do you think i should make the next move? he said it was cool i liked him

2007-12-31 15:12:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so my sister ask me to go over to her house later on tomight, and i was stupid enough to say yes, but i really don't wanna go. any good excuse to say to her, so i won't go. and i need a really good excuse. thanks.

2007-12-31 15:11:36 · 5 answers · asked by ChrisCross 2 in Family

I have secretly been meeting my biological adult son for months now. He is very stressed as his adoptive mother is by nature a very cold, bitter, angry person and has tantrums when he even mentions anything about me, I've not pushed the issue , and been very supportive to him and don't say anything negative about his adoptive mother but it's killing me to see him stressed, what else can I do? I'm so afraid we are going to get caught and I'm sure there will be a scene.

2007-12-31 15:08:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-31 15:04:13 · 6 answers · asked by Daisy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, I grew up in Al and moved to KY earlier this year. I met and married the man of my dreams while I was there. Shortly after we were married we came back to AL for a couple weeks visit. Then I agreed to stay for a month and that was five months ago. Now my mother and little sister (the only reason I stayed) is moving to KY. I really want to go but my husband wants to stay here in AL. How can I make myself want to stay in AL when I hate it? I know I should be happy here where my husband has decided for us to live. But after this weekend my mother, little sister and my older sister who is the people I am closest to will all be in KY which is where I have always wanted to live. How cant I accept that I need to be in AL?

2007-12-31 15:02:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

in looks and personality

2007-12-31 15:01:51 · 7 answers · asked by pickles11119 3 in Singles & Dating

Even if one of them is either in a committed relationship or is married? Have you successfully fought off temptation yourself?

2007-12-31 15:00:00 · 5 answers · asked by tinman 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My mom won;t let me have a cell phone any advice on how I can convense her i am responsible and in need to have one!

2007-12-31 14:59:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-31 14:58:53 · 19 answers · asked by sinfullydeliciousvixen 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-31 14:58:02 · 14 answers · asked by lisa s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

God this blows!

2007-12-31 14:53:35 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So today's New Years Eve, and all I wanted to do was hang out with my friends at a new years eve party. The person's house I'm going to is a friend of mine. Her parents are making everybody's mom/dad call to make sure that they are allowed to come. What so wrong here. I don't understand what the big deal is, it's not going to be a keger, just come friends. I know this sounds like a cliche, but all my friend's parents let them go. I can't wait till I go to college, then I can finally do whatever I please.

I'm 17, a responsible teen, I get good grades in all AP (advanced placemen) classes, I go out and come home at a reasonable time. why don't they trust me?

2007-12-31 14:51:30 · 12 answers · asked by dottybow 2 in Family

Hello there;

First off, I just want to say that this is very awkward for me. I just can't figure out if I am straight or not. I have always really liked girls, but have never had a girlfriend (I'm 15). Recently, however, I have started having slight fantasies about men, although the whole idea of sleeping with a man kind of creeps me out. I have also realized that I find certain men attractive (Brad Pitt, etc.) I am not sure, however, if I admire the way they look, or if I just down right think they are hot. I care about my looks, does this affect it at all? Anyways, this is not a joke, please answer!

Thanks in advance.

2007-12-31 14:50:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

while my man wanted me 2 spend da nite with him at his older brothers house and i had ask my mom and she was like no and he was going 2 bring me back home 2 morrow afternoon cause on wednesday he hads 2 return back 2 work. then he had came over here 4 a little while and me and him are moving in with each other on february 20, 2008 so that we can do what we wanted 2 do, and then she was like he might get pregant and then she was like yall might as well just wait till ya move in with each other and i had told him i was like i will be glad when we moved in with each other im am 23 yrs old and she is treating me like im am 5 or 6 yrs old and how many days are left and till febrauary 20 o8.

2007-12-31 14:49:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

guys honest would you do a woman well so called woman in her home if she was married . with kids and a husband always asking you to like that cheap trash in w.va who was in her .40.s it was her always asking me and my friend to well we did i did her in her home and honest it was sicking. streach marks .sicking but at that time i was just.19. and she was alway asking for me to do it well i did and in her home where she wanted to do it would you fellows honestly. do it just for a joke that she was no more than a tramp fellows we both did her there but that.s what trash like her is good for nothing but a cheap lay

2007-12-31 14:48:54 · 8 answers · asked by matthew v 3 in Weddings

my girl friend is mad about something but won't tell me what it is i'm worried it might be something i did but i don't remember doing anything bad to her...should i keep asking her or give her her space?

2007-12-31 14:47:39 · 8 answers · asked by C-O-Dee 1 in Singles & Dating

My mom is being a wich she said we would do stuff but she lied
and i am so bored what can I do beacause i am about to go to sleep : o

2007-12-31 14:45:45 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I havent
but i have tried many times
shame on me

2007-12-31 14:44:07 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was dating this guy for 6 days, he breaks up with me because he is having family problems and such and that we wont see each other over the christmas break, because we live in two different towns. well we did keep in touch every day, and he keeps telling me how much he misses me and how much he want to see me. and i also write or talk back to him, saying i miss, u 2 and that i also want to see u 2. now he tells me that he wants to go back out with me. and i really really like alot... what should i do...

2007-12-31 14:42:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For the last three months, my family has been rather mean and thoughtless - nasty on my birthday, rude all the way to Christmas, and not including me in their plans. Now, on New Year's Eve, they assume that I am going to spend time with them, when there were no plans made. So I encouraged the shocked duo to go with my parents to a friend's home for a games party - and I am breathing a sigh of relief. It feels good to know that someone (namely me) cares for me - I've been putting myself last, and not liking what I've been seeing and hearing. Should I care that no plans were made, or that they assumed and never included me in any plans - especially after their recent treatment?

2007-12-31 14:42:15 · 13 answers · asked by roadrunner 5 in Family

I have posted questions sorta pertaining to this same subject b4. I am 23 years old and havent lived with parents for years. They are seperated and my 11 year old brother gets flung from parent to parent. Neither one of them really does their part as a parent and I know they can... they did a good job with me and my sister. Anyway I feel the need to step up and teach him stuff, I know its not my responsibility but my parents are more concerned with getting their rocks off so to spea k. The problem is when I keep him for days on end he wont mind me and how I am going to get him to when no one else trys to make him mind. This is so hard for me! I wish they would step up but since they wont what should i do

2007-12-31 14:41:25 · 15 answers · asked by charityislove 3 in Family

we have been together for almost 5 years and he just propose to me we were thinking about marrying in 2010.

2007-12-31 14:41:16 · 18 answers · asked by Future Ms.Sterbach 2 in Weddings

you see we were dating for 11 months, and out of no where he breaks up with me, then today he asked me to comeback, so i said yes, and an hour later, he breaks uo with me...now he says he just wants to be friends....should i say yes. i still love him, but he keeps hurting me...but i don't know what to do

2007-12-31 14:41:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For guys: Consider two equally attractive girls. One is really smart and a little funny. The other one is really funny and a little smart. Which one would you prefer.

For girls: Same question but Consider two equally attractive guys.

2007-12-31 14:39:50 · 13 answers · asked by Inamra 2 in Marriage & Divorce