So today's New Years Eve, and all I wanted to do was hang out with my friends at a new years eve party. The person's house I'm going to is a friend of mine. Her parents are making everybody's mom/dad call to make sure that they are allowed to come. What so wrong here. I don't understand what the big deal is, it's not going to be a keger, just come friends. I know this sounds like a cliche, but all my friend's parents let them go. I can't wait till I go to college, then I can finally do whatever I please.
I'm 17, a responsible teen, I get good grades in all AP (advanced placemen) classes, I go out and come home at a reasonable time. why don't they trust me?
2007-12-31 14:51:30 · 12 answers · asked by dottybow 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It's not a drinking party. As I mentioned b4, the girl's mother is making everybody's parents call her to make sure their kids can come. The parents are going to be two houses down from the party, and they are going to be checking in on them every hour or so
2007-12-31 14:58:36 · update #1
So, this comment is to MAJOR TOM. NO I don't think my parents are ruining my entire life. I chose that title to get answers (it's called strategy). And don't you ever talk to me like you know who I am. I know full well how much my parents work for me. My dad is a doctor and spends every day, all day, even holidays working. I make sure that everything at home is taken care of, I make sure that his life at home easier than the sick people he sees all day at work. SO DON'T PUNISH ME for wanting to have some fun with my friends.
2007-12-31 15:23:46 · update #2
Because they know exactly what can happen in that time between the hours the parents arent there. Checking on kids for a minute every hour is not responsible parenting.
I fail to see how missing this party will ruin your life. Im picturing you on your death bed at age 90 complaining how your parents ruined your life because they didnt let you go to this party. Your entire life hinged on this one party and because you didnt go the rest of your life became a shambles.
You claim to be responsible but your thinking is really messed up.
Instead of thinking how they ruin your life why not dwell on the fact they gave you life and how your dad goes to work and slaves away so you can eat and have a roof over your head, how they cook for you, and take care of you. You have no clue what the real world is about.
2007-12-31 15:09:57 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2016-11-27 02:25:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, they dont trust you. not because you have given them reason to, so it sounds; i was avery good kid; i have never ever given my parents a reason to not trust me, but my mom refused to. i grew up very scared of my parents, especially my mom; she rarely let me go anywhere, even if a parent was going to be there. i had a very lonely childhood /adolescence because of her. the only thing i can come up with is that she had to always have control of me because i was the only thing she could fully control and dominate. i dont know if its that way for you or ont, but i truelly beleive that parents abuse the power that they have over their kids because its the one thing in their lives that they can do that with. even when i finally moved out, they still tried to play games with me. i havent talked to them in 2 yrs. even though it hurts, its been the best thing for me. if you can openly talk to them, than do so. if you cant, save all you can so you can move out. they have the abillity to make your life hell because they can.
2007-12-31 15:20:50 · answer #3 · answered by SMS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your parents have some trust issues that aren't going to get settled tonight. the three of you should spend some serious time discussing trust in the way your lead your life.
2007-12-31 15:19:50 · answer #4 · answered by bardmere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's that they don't trust YOU....they probably don't trust all of the others. Especially if the parents aren't physically be in the house during the entire party.
You sound like an intelligent, responsible person and your parents just care about what happens to you and they want to make sure you are safe.
It's really hard to be a parent because when your children are born.....they don't come with an instruction manual so you have to do the best you can and go by your gut feelings. Sometimes that means saying no to something that sounds harmless to you. They mean well.
2007-12-31 15:03:20 · answer #5 · answered by lacrosselover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure why your parents made this decision. Do they always keep you from going to parties? You didn't say.
I'm sorry you're having a rough time.
Your life isn't ruined... before you know it, you will be 50 years old..... believe me, i know.
2007-12-31 15:01:18 · answer #6 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
College is great. Come and go as i please with whoever I please. You never know freedom until you go off to school. That said, your parents are evil. It sounds like a legit gathering you're going to.
2007-12-31 15:00:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
there not trying to ruin your life, there just trying to protect you because they don't want you to get hurt. parents always want there kids too be better than they were, or exactly as they were when they were kids. nothing less. yes there being a little over protective, but its only cause they care, your lifwe is not ruined by the way, you just happened to come to a n inconvinence in your plans. also, they probably want to see you home on new years for some unkown reason. whatever it is, just enjoy your new years, and try to forgive them.
2007-12-31 14:59:55 · answer #8 · answered by lillian w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're probably just worried something is going to go down. I had some similar problems like that before, and i always wondered what was wrong. But yeah, they're looking at the negatives. Maybe u should try to convince them and really talk to them about it. Kinda hard because they're your parents but if you really want to go i think it's best
2007-12-31 14:56:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they were your age before and they know better than you.
You'll understand when you have children, if you're lucky enough to live that long....which it sounds like you ARE because you have parents who care.
2007-12-31 14:54:35 · answer #10 · answered by Nic W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋