We are togather for 2 years. Her coworker asked her to go out in my few weeks absence. I never knew him before. That guy has more things to offer than i can to my girlfriend. When i came back my girlfriend said she can't love me anymore. She need some time, space, one true thing she said.....her feeling for me started going away since she started feeling for this other guy. But she knows that she can't be with this guy as he is not from the same religion, same culture and for too much age distance. A week later she discused with him that we have a bad time going on and he told her on that second, "Can we be more than friend from now?"
Guys try to take chance when fights going on within a couple. Guy should not do something so that it raise a superior complexity on a girl and that girl lose feeling for her boyfriend. Can i meet/email and tell that guy (for my mental satisfaction and teaching) he was not supposed to do that, coz he won't support it in his mom, sister, girlfriend's case.
2007-12-31 12:59:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your contacting him about it would only make things much worse. Your girl has started having feelings for someone else, and she has made her choice between the two of you, period.
I would advise you to let her go and find someone else.
2007-12-31 13:03:50 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you want to, but your problem isn't with him, it's with your lady because he's not doing anything she's not letting him do. Did you notice any signs of you two drifting apart (or was she apparently unhappy) before this guy came along?
If you appear to resist, you'll just drive her closer to him, but if you can, see if she'll talk to you so you can determine exactly why this happened. I am sorry this happened to you. Happy New Year, and good luck.
2007-12-31 13:11:28 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all is fair in love and war. you two are not married so you both can do what you please. it sounds like it's time to move on. why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? you can't force someone to love you. you'll meet someone who will want you for you. good luck.
2007-12-31 13:05:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cry your eyes out and get over it. Don't be with a person that doesn't want to be with you.
I would though scare her new boyfriend, especially if he knew she had a boyfriend.
2007-12-31 13:04:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋