He cannot control his temper. He yells and screams ,that's how he answers questions. He tells me I have brain damage.
2007-12-31 12:57:58 · 26 answers · asked by T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Wow he sounds like a real gem. Yes by all means stay with Mr. Wonderful. After all isnt this what relationships are for? To have someone drag you down? Yeah stay with him.
2007-12-31 13:06:18 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, maybe there is more to the story than you share...but still NO. It's not right for him to say these things, however is he provoked into these frenzies? Do you ***** at him for buying a fountain drink? Do you ***** at him for asking for mustard at a Burger King drive-up window when he gets his food? Do you ***** at him for sending his 3 children a picture of himself...that he also sent you? Did you get FURIOUSLY MAD at him for wanting to share one last night with his Dog before having it put down the next morning? Do you constantly try to Control his every move and get Angry at him for doing anything HIS way? Does he say these things 'answering q's' or in his Defense or in retaliation to YOUR actions? Did your Family insult him 1st? NO, it's not right for him to say those things to you, but has he quit? It's obvious there's much more to this story. Both of you need Professional help...if Love is still there the very least...get it (help) TOGETHER!!! Find out where the REAL problem is and address it...work together and FIX it!!!
If not, then look forward to a future without each other.
2007-12-31 20:14:33 · answer #2 · answered by Troy W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will never change and with time he will become worse. He invokes mental abuse on you big time. He is a bully. I was at the same situation. I just got completely mad at him, screamed at him for 1 hour, put him down and his moronic family, got completely sarcastic and mean about all his faults, his body and told him that he should be in a loony house because his brain is malformed. Well, I do not suggest that you have to do it like me...I just got fed up.. The final thing-I LEFT HIM. YOU ARE SUFFERING EMOTIONALLY. Life is hard enough....Leave him.
2008-01-01 14:40:49 · answer #3 · answered by Lina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really have to ask this question, he must be correct about the brain damage.
2007-12-31 13:45:55 · answer #4 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hell no, you should not stay with a guy that cusses you, calls you bad names and puts down your parents. He will never be able to control his temper. He will never stop yelling and screaming. And he is right...you are brain damaged...since you don't have no better sense than to put up with his crap. Most women would have already kicked his a$$ to the curb. What in the sam hill is wrong with you? Wake up, don't let this person control you. You don't deserve to be treated like do-do! You know you can better....just do it...Leave him and find yourself a decent guy, one that will love and respect you. . .
2007-12-31 13:14:55 · answer #5 · answered by lucylocket7258 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be a big, huge NO! Get out while you can.
2007-12-31 13:05:38 · answer #6 · answered by PurpleMoon22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he has probably told everyone how crazy you are so use that to your advantage - beat his a** with something and leave.
2007-12-31 13:04:38 · answer #7 · answered by 3DDD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
naa u deserve better than that, but if u really love and care about him and want him to be a better person, suggest that he take anger management classes.. or leave him and make him realise how important you are to him.. good luck!
2007-12-31 13:02:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run!
2007-12-31 13:02:05 · answer #9 · answered by karma2277 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm no way
you dont want to stay with a guy who is constantly putting you down
he is definietely sounding like an ****** and not worth your time
i would dump him
2007-12-31 13:01:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋