When i started at my secondary school 2 years ago i found it hard to settle in. I was bullied and no one wanted to be my friend. I starved myself and it got so bad that my periods stopped. Not one of the people who were supposed to be my friends helped me. Well recently, I went out with this boy and it was brilliant. Until my best mate became involved. She flaunted herself around and he became attracted to her. I dumped him because he told me that he was never attracted to me. Then all his mates said to me that I was ugly,fat and unattractive compared to my best friend. She knew that these comments would upset me but she and him still came into my face and told me anyway. She is having counselling for something that is not even serious! I have helped her with so much, and repays me by ruining my relationship and making me feel so ugly and insecure. He keeps asking her out. I would like to ask, did i have an eating disorder and what can I do to help myself move on from this? Help me
2007-12-31 12:29:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh sweetheart don't fret! I feel your pain. Your friend is a b**** and you shouldn't talk to her anymore. Be the better person and ignore her. Don't listen to people when they call you fat and ugly because they don't know you and they don't know what a good friend you are to others. Stay away from that girl and that guy you dated. He is an a-hole too. What morons! See a therapist or get some help. Hope you feel better!
2007-12-31 12:34:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it will sound clique but you really need to get new friends and try your hardest to do that. You also need to goto a teacher and get the bullying stopped, you will feel a lot more better.
After that, stop feeling so insecure. Those analwanks are just trying to get you to feel this way for their own benefit. Just keep your shoulders straight and your head high and smirk at them as if to say "Look at them, OMG, disaster" and they will quit it, trust me.
Things will work out for you and you are probably quite nice looking, it is just that they fuking asswipes are making you eat or more/less through stress so don't stress out over them ok ?? =] !! Things will work out when you are a millionare and you drive by them in the streets and they are in cardboard boxes wanting some more change. Don't let them get to you =] !!
Best of Luck and Happy New Year !
EDIT : Orla is also correct, they are jealous of you.
2008-01-01 00:01:46 · answer #2 · answered by pop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How unfortunate for you .... what a pair of arseholes they are, honey, take comfort in the fact that those two bitches deserve each other.
Now, onto more important things - you. Your so-called friend is jealous of you. Clearly you have attributes that she would like but doesn't have, and doesn't ever want you to have the satisfaction of knowing this .... but now you do. She's probably really threatened by you in some way. To be honest, I think that you are way better off without her, and without that jerk of a boy who allowed himself to be fooled by her.
Yes, you probably did have an eating disorder of some kind, and it may rear its ugly head again, so it's time to get some kind of professional help for this, ask your GP.
2007-12-31 13:17:29 · answer #3 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u cant exactly call this so called friend a real friend if she did that to you.
Remember what people say and mean can be two very different things so don't show them that your feeling upset by all that and put on a brave face, not for anyone else but yourself.
Prove to them that what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger. Then they will soon stop because they wont be getting a reaction from you.
Hope that helped a little bit...?
And that boy sounds horrible anyway, you deserve someone better!!
2007-12-31 12:39:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are not very nice people if they treat you like that just forget them as they seem to deserve each other! You are worth better than the two of them put together! Happy new year sweetheart.
2007-12-31 12:35:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's a jerk and you should talk to an adult about this
2007-12-31 12:35:03 · answer #6 · answered by catico 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you stopped eating til your periods stopped, then yes you had / have an eating disorder.
for starters you can ditch your so called friends who seem to be makijng life harder for you. real mates dont steal each others blokes.
2007-12-31 12:34:58 · answer #7 · answered by L 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
get some new friends wat your friend did to you was horrible may be u should get couseling or at least talk to your family
2007-12-31 12:34:30 · answer #8 · answered by i<3music 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. My friend did the same thing but luckily in my case it wasn't too serious. You need to find new friends, someone who respects you.
2008-01-01 00:18:50 · answer #9 · answered by Alice . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of your best mate because she obviously isn't a mate find someone you can trust. thats all i can say on the matter,
Sorry if it doesn't help
2008-01-01 01:17:42 · answer #10 · answered by Robbie M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋