me and this guy I’ve dating for about a month were eating some cheese puffs while we were watching a movie and after he was done he was looking for a napkin to clean his fingers and i took his fingers and started to clean them myself with my mouth. after a minute of me doing this he gave me this disgusted look and pushed me away.
and i was like what the hell is your problem
and he said what i was doing was very unhygienic, and nasty
and i said that if he was a normal person he would have did it his self, and my bad for trying to
help him out
he said sorry that his mother taught him manners, and that i go around sucking strangers fingers.
and i said well sorry for flirting with him i didn't know he was an uptight a**hole
Then i kicked him out.
Even though I know I’m probably not going to see him again, I just want to know if what I did was weird, or wrong.
2007-12-31 12:21:59 · 22 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No I think that was sweet of you.....
2007-12-31 12:26:19 · answer #1 · answered by Confused 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
cheese puffs..i dont think i would suck that off my husbands fingers, maybe cake mix or frosting but not cheese puffs. he did seem like a jerk though.
2007-12-31 12:51:03 · answer #2 · answered by mahdiya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh yeah you are either weird or very hungry. When most people think of flirting, sucking the cheese off someone elses finger probably isn't gonna come to their mind.
Next time just offer him a Napkin or point him in the direction of a bathroom.
Do you know where his hands had been? Ewwwwww
GET A DAMN WET WIPE
2007-12-31 12:47:42 · answer #3 · answered by YungDeity AKA TWO Cents 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he was disguisted by your actions because he is the nasty one. He maybe a booger picker when no one is looking, or maybe even picks things grosser than his nose. You NORMAL flirting gesture took on a different meaning to him cause his manners are just a front,,,but not really something he really believes in.
2007-12-31 12:44:44 · answer #4 · answered by ckgene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, it would have been a BIG turn on.
2007-12-31 12:35:28 · answer #5 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't like it if my bf did it to me, i suppose it depends on how much you know each other and how far the relationship has gone.
2007-12-31 12:32:32 · answer #6 · answered by melanie_lanc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think hes the wierd one! what man doesnt get turned on by having his fingers sucked?!
2007-12-31 12:29:00 · answer #7 · answered by spaghetti 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Nah, it wasn't wrong or weird. It is good to find out these things about people early. Even if you hadn't done that, it would have just been something else that triggered that, like a sensual French kiss.
So, it was good to find it out early.
2007-12-31 12:27:27 · answer #8 · answered by "Speedy" 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i would have thought that this would be a turn-on for him.....
he sounds like the uptight ****** that you pegged him for.
2007-12-31 12:27:21 · answer #9 · answered by BarbieGurl 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
How funny because if you would have sucked something else, I doubt that he would have complained. Unless he is gay...well, even then probably no complaints. Yeah he is an uptight idiot!
2007-12-31 12:26:59 · answer #10 · answered by Peachfish Whiskerbiscuit 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
personally, I find it gross too...
2007-12-31 12:25:23 · answer #11 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋