Other - Family & Relationships - 28 February 2007

I'm 19, and I've been dating my girlfriend for almost 3 years now. She's 18 and has been living in USA for almost her entire life, but I came here last year, and I knew her before I came, and we had a long distance internet relationship going on. The main reason I came here was for her. We are really happy with each other and we love each other like crazy, and we plan to get married after I graduate. However, her mom is obsessed with her getting married to a doctor. I'm majoring in Economics, and my girlfriend's majoring in Pharmacy. Her mom was okay with me in the beginning. However, recently she has been telling her to stop talking to me because according to her, my girlfriend can't decide who she'll marry, and it doesn't matter if she's happy or not, it's her mother's decision, and the guy has to be a doctor. Her mom never even saw me and doesn't know anything about me, and I'm sure if she got to know me and my family and my background, she will like me. But for now, what'd i do?

2007-02-28 05:36:31 · 5 answers · asked by BaSsMassttaaa 2

2007-02-28 05:31:38 · 8 answers · asked by susan_112147 1

are skinny but they eat the same as me...

Do you think the lager is to blame????

2007-02-28 05:29:35 · 12 answers · asked by londonletch 2

..i've been the woman cheated on and the "other women". What happened when you were in those situations?
I was invited to sunday dinner by his wife to give the fella a shock of his life! didn't go obviously. and before you go judging - it wasn't a s-e-x thing

2007-02-28 05:25:08 · 6 answers · asked by raptureinkisses 2

We have been together for over 2 years we do not live together as I have teeneagers at home and he has already raised his. We want to be together but I am tired of making all the decisions and being a single parent, but if we move in together i know that it will ruin what we have as my son who is 16 would cause hell for us, I want to be happy and we are happy when we are together, but I want to be engaged why will he not ask me? What do I need to do to make him see this is what I want? HELP

2007-02-28 05:16:32 · 1 answers · asked by INVOLVED/CONFUSED 1

ok, i am trying to say the right terms to explain my coworker. Ok, she always likes to get free stuff around here whenever she can. Like one lady and I make coffee everyday, and we both bring in sugar and the coffee and all the materials. but she "Susy" always use to come in and take coffee and always ask for sugar. whenever we tell her that ther'es sugar on sale, she siad she dont' need none. so as soon as we started charging a buck a month for kitchen supplies and started askng to contribure towards the coffee fund, she suddenly stopped coming. she's been broke for a while now cause she purchased soemthing we told her not to(out of her budget). so everytime we are giong to buy somethign to eat, she's always borrowing $$, she even asked one of my coworkers for rent $! she never pays any0ne back. is not fair to see her buying herself all this things liek clothes and boots, when she owes so many people $

2007-02-28 05:10:59 · 3 answers · asked by A_Latina 3

2007-02-28 05:01:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

And if so, why?

2007-02-28 04:50:38 · 13 answers · asked by dirkjohn69 4

2007-02-28 04:49:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

The word fatal means causing ruin or destruction.. So what really is fatal attraction?

2007-02-28 04:48:06 · 3 answers · asked by julia1975 4

The father of my children moved in with me almost 6months ago "unemployed" an still not working. He takes the kids to & from school. At first he used to do things around the house and he enjoyed cooking 4 us and it was really nice!! Lasted a couple months now rarely cooks,ect .I know and am willing to accept he is not a tidy person but I feel he does'nt work so he should put in the effort. He plays an online game everyday and at night and is "addictied" I love him so much and i have not doubt he loves me, he assures me everyday?? I have told him several times that i need him to go find at least a part time job to pay for utilities and food. (he likes his beer!) I don't want to be his mom and nag.He used to make 50k a year and is inteligent & also a loving dad. How can i stand up for myself within reason? I really want to work this out!

From a mans point of view what do you think he may be experiencing.

From a women point "am i blind"?

What time limit should i give & goals?

2007-02-28 04:46:42 · 9 answers · asked by Flaca 1

do i just give it to him because i love him but we are a young couple

2007-02-28 04:42:02 · 20 answers · asked by onealprincess 1

I've always wanted to go to a big college, but i love my boyfriend and i want to be with him for the rest of my life!

2007-02-28 04:40:05 · 14 answers · asked by niki_barham_08 1

ok im about 17 and have gone through soo much crap in my life its not even funny! I used to cut and had stoped last year after i had finaly told my family. But the other day i just couldnt take it anymore soo i cut. I want to tell my mom but i no she will just yell at me!
My mother boyfriend runs her life and all us kids as well. I hate him soo much and want to to just go away! He is about 20 years older then my mom and b/c he has money thinks he can just tell us what to do. My mom is just "soo in love" with him that she doent care about us kids! Yesterday i came home from a long day at school and just wanted to sleep but he started yelling at me about somthing i didnt clean right and my mom just sat there and didnt say anything. I cant do it anymore and dont no what to do. He doent do anything around the house and neather does my mom. Its all me and my 2 brother.... plz help and plz dont be mean about my cutting.. you really dont no the whole story! THANKS

2007-02-28 04:24:57 · 10 answers · asked by Im addicted to the memory of him 3

we've been together going on 10 months now i think, but lately he doesn't pay much attention to me anymore. he has warned me in the past that sometimes he gets so wrapped up into himself and his thoughts that he can be a little neglectful. i know this, but sometimes it hurts when he doesn't return my calls or text msgs, and if he does, it something short and one-worded, or the phone call lasts all of 2 minutes before he says he'll call me back in a few (which he never does, i always have to call him back). and he does this off and on a lot, he'll be very attentive and calls me throughout the day one week, but the next week, i hardly hear from him and i start to get worried when i don't. i don't think he means to be neglectful, seeing as that he "warned" me about this early on in our relationship, but sometimes i get hurt when i don't hear from him, it makes me feel like he doesn't have time for me. what can i do to help him be less "neglectful"?

2007-02-28 04:22:19 · 6 answers · asked by Nacho Chacho 7

he play ps3 (and sometimes pc) 3 or 4 hour after he return home from work,everyday.he is 43 y old!he ended the hardest adventure games like resident evil 4 from ps2 or silent hill series in 2 or 3 days!he love video games more thn hes family dont u think its so funny and weird?

2007-02-28 04:18:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently graduated from a business course, and the teacher said her discription of me was that I was the classroom guru, and that she has one in every class. I stay to myself, in my own little space all the time, and it seems that the more I do that, the more popular I become, and the more attention I get, especially from women.

2007-02-28 04:08:40 · 3 answers · asked by JMM 2

2007-02-28 04:04:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

How to make peace with my past? We broke up, i pursued military training and now have full on career i was seeking. she moved on to my then roomate. it all came out like a soap opera the day before me going off to defend the country, yada yada. anyways, they're still together, i have great people and work in my life. but it still bothers me. i guess time heals all wounds and etc, and moving on is the natural progress, and i wanna be happy for them, but deep down i still feel betrayed. any ideas how to make peace with it?

2007-02-28 03:52:17 · 7 answers · asked by steveo 1

This is someone i went with many years ago and lately can not get them off my mind for some reason.It is not a romantic kind of thought it is more like are they ok. I have not thought about this person in a long time and all of a sudden they are on my mind constantly.

2007-02-28 03:50:29 · 9 answers · asked by curious 5

Although I don't expect anything from someone, if they promise me something or say they are going to get me a christmas or birthday present and then they don't, well I can't help but be a little let down. I also hate it when I meet a guy who is always offering to help and saying, "if you need anything, call me" and then they never seem to be able to help. It's more like "oh, i'm sorry you have to walk home in the dark, I'd wish I could help, but, but, but....
I don't make a lot of promises my self but when I do , I make sure I keep them but it seems like alot of people don't. It just seems like these people who are offering help are always out of town or busy when you call on them.

2007-02-28 03:48:28 · 5 answers · asked by hothumid 2

Can anyone tell me the name of a good site to get back my bank charges that doesnt charge alot for there help! Thanks

2007-02-28 03:48:23 · 3 answers · asked by Mariette 2

2007-02-28 03:42:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-28 03:31:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to find some cool names to call my love. Thanks!

2007-02-28 03:08:49 · 15 answers · asked by jsssika 2

ok, i'm more of a sexually orientated person than my boyfriend is.

for the past 3 weeks we havent had sex...and with this, i feel he loves me much more, and has an easier tiem expressing it...

the sex we HAVE had is BRILLLIIIAANNTT so even though initially i was missing it, we go out everyday talk on the phone 2-3x a day and i just feel genuinely closer to him.

He said to me that i dont know how much i mean to him...what does that mean?
I was always under the impression that a man needs sex to love, but maybe i was totally wrong and its the opposite?

ps. hes from a christian background and told me he doesnt need sex as much as i seem to...

2007-02-28 03:07:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Iam a 29 year old gentleman.My dad,a pastor revealed 2 prophecies for my marraige.1)the gal must be the only child 2)her parents shall visit my home.I met a gal before 7 months and fell in love with her only hoping she must be the one accrding to the prophecy.I met her parents and was abt to take her to my parents.But her parents were divorced years before and inspite of me and her praying for them to re-unite,they havent got back togther.though she is the only daughter,the 2nd prophecy aint getting fulfilled thru this gal.The issue now being ive slept wit her once.Now if i marry her i shall walk against God's will for my life.Ive told her enuf and she is not co-operative for a mutual split.Im getting pissed up with her cos she does nothing but accuses me for have slept with her.She also doesnt fit the bill of My-kinda-gal..now i cant even think of marrying her,how do i get out of this situation?

2007-02-28 03:06:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have already done the whole place little notes that have saying around the house when we first dated. No I need some ideas on other things to try. He still have the notes that I make for him (mini cards about 1inch by 1 and half) He say that was the best thing any one has ever done for him he found them for a couple weeks. so give me some ideas. Thanks!

2007-02-28 03:01:02 · 3 answers · asked by Toni V 3

2007-02-28 02:59:30 · 29 answers · asked by ~♥~mama-to-be~♥~ 4

What would you tell them?

2007-02-28 02:57:46 · 3 answers · asked by First L 3