do i just give it to him because i love him but we are a young couple
2007-02-28 04:42:02 · 20 answers · asked by onealprincess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you wait untill the time is right for you, dont let him pressure you into it, if he loved you then he shouldnt mind waiting untill you are ready you feelings have to be considered in this too not just his.....
2007-03-02 13:00:41 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you’re not ready then yes no. If he doesn’t understand be willing to let him go.
When you’re ready you'll know and only you, not your friends telling you or the guy.
Listen to yourself on this one. Are you on the pill? Dose he have Condoms? These are a big part of having sex at a young age, hell at any age now days.
Take your time you have your whole life ahead of you, don’t miss it up for a one-time 10-minute ride the cost you 18 years of your life. (You end up with child before your time)
Good luck and stay cool. Keep smiling
2007-02-28 04:58:32 · answer #2 · answered by choiceav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you give it away, then what is left. Who wants to buy the cow, when you can get the milk for free. All young, and older guys think with the head in their shorts. He will tell you, if you love me you will let me. What a crock. If he loved you, he wouldn't expect you to spread for him, especially when it was the first kiss??? Whats up with that. I say make him wait, like a smart girls would do.
2007-02-28 04:49:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are way to young tothink about this. This is something you will remember for the rest of your life. Is this something you want to remember. If you just kissed sounds lke he is just a hound dog looking for more. Most young men are. There are many consequenses to early sex. Pregnancy,Sexually transmitted diseases, HIV. There is documentated proof that the girls have a serious problem with depression later. Is it wourth it. If you are asking the question the answer is no.
2007-02-28 04:48:56 · answer #4 · answered by sweet sue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am still waiting for the right time with my 2 and a 1/2 year relationship. You shouldn't do it just because you love him. If he loves you, he will happily wait until his last day on earth for you. I would wait until I get married-it will be more loving and special. P.S. If you are not married, you are not ready to make love. I know alot of adults that regret making love before they married the love of their life. And keep this in mind. . .guys will do ANYTHING to have sexual relationships-so make them wait until YOU are ready. You will be alot happier if you do.
2007-02-28 05:45:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself if YOU are ready for sex (I'm assuming that's what the **** stands for).
If you have to ask, you're probably not, but this is a decision that only you can make for yourself. Don't give it to him just because he asks for it or he wants it... do it when/how you are BOTH ready.
You should be prepared to talk about birth control, condoms, STDs, and pregnancy before you take this next step. If you're not mature enough to talk openly about these concerns, and deal with them maturely, then you're not ready.
2007-02-28 05:11:29 · answer #6 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense but you sound young...way to young to accept the consequences sex can and will bring. I say if he wants more, he wants too much and you can find some else.
2007-02-28 04:47:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to back off b/c he is moving waay too fast. Especially since you don't know if you want to do it or not, that is a clear sign of you not being ready yet.
2007-02-28 04:46:47 · answer #8 · answered by Kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you have to be ready to give him that. Tell him that you need to be more respected than that. And if he can't handle that, then walk away.
2007-02-28 04:46:13 · answer #9 · answered by ht_butterfly27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By asking this question, I know that you are not ready. Don't give it to him.
2007-02-28 04:46:36 · answer #10 · answered by CL R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋