Other - Family & Relationships - 28 February 2007

I've this cousin who has been through a lot in her life & mostly emotional pain and abuse. She has been through some painful relationships as well.She is good looking, kind, intelligent and a very caring person.She is self reliant and has always thought herself to be a very self confident woman but now somebody told her she might have some real self confidence problem. And when she looks back at her life she sincerely feels she definitely might've some major self confidence issue and probably it's just that she has never been aware of this until now & therefore she never acknowledge it either. now since I know everything about her & what she been through in life I feel it might be true. Now what should she do to restore her self confidence back??how should she pull the pieces of her life together?? I know she really needs help and some emotional boost which is crucial for all of us at som point in life and especially for her now as a woman.

I sincerely value your suggestions.Thanks

2007-02-28 19:24:25 · 6 answers · asked by SpiderQbeck 2

I've asked so many questions on here but I love to hear others views. Me and my ex of 7 years broke up and he moved 2000 miles away..Well, he moved before we broke up..I know there isn't another woman. I am pregnant with his child and we are very young...22 & 23. We had our wedding planned before the baby. Dr. said I would never be able to have kids..my ex wanted one and I ended up getting pregnant. We wasn't trying because of what the Dr. told me. He was very excited while I was kind of depressed because I wanted to be married and have my degree. Now, I wish he comes back and I know alot of people thinks that is stupid. We had a pretty good relationship, His father walked out on him as a baby. He tells me he misses me and loves me but picks stupid fights..Does distance really make the heart grow fonder?? I told him last night we shouldn't talk until we clear our heads..Has this every happened to anyone?

2007-02-28 19:20:37 · 3 answers · asked by angelsdeath420 2

You've secretly liked someone for a long time. A few days before you wanna tell her and commit yourself, you broke into one hell of an arguement. You got so pissed off you used provoking and vulgar words like **** and damn towards her. As after an arguement, there's always some silence between you guys for the next day.So, what happens next? (if ure the guy/girl) What will u do? Advice?

2007-02-28 19:04:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Am I the only one who feels extremely jealous when the guy I love dearly (and hate it when he even touches someone else, especially a girl)......... is stripped and his private parts seen/ touched by a medical professional/ nurse, especially when it is a female......? often such ********* touching is avoidable.

or other people go through this too but are ashamed to admit it?

Foreigners non Indians) are cool with it as both nudity and sex is common in their country.

I'm male, by the way.

2007-02-28 18:54:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I can not give much details except some people here in TX are afraid of them.

2007-02-28 18:50:31 · 5 answers · asked by catscraddle 1

If you read a book by someone you used to date (or went on one date with), and you think one of the characters whose 'name has been changed' resembles you and your time together dating...would you want a piece of the action? If the tale was not malicious intent and just a tonge-in-cheek story about the one or three dates you went on, all her opinion of the time spent together, would you still have an issue if the author did not contact you to inform you about the book? Would it make a difference if you knew about the book ahead of time? Would you sign a waiver before the book was published, even if you were not shown in the best light, but it was an accurate account of the events that unfolded?

2007-02-28 18:15:50 · 4 answers · asked by foreveryoung 1

2007-02-28 17:57:55 · 17 answers · asked by ms. happy 1

I tought motor driving to my daughter due to love and affection. I and she, both are working / earning. She never ask me: What do you want? What I can do for you? What is your choice in eating?
I want lassi. She: 'No'. I want food without onion. She likes onion. She: 'You will have to eat food cooked by me / by mother. You have to eat'. I can live without food. I am ready to eat outside.
If I am silent, all is OK, but if I express my desire / need / taste, all shout on me. All ladies beats me. Am I begger?
I am ready to eat food of their choice for 6 days but should not they cook food for me for choice at least 1 day in week. On that day, they can cook of their choice for them. I never say: You eat of my choice. Should I expect anything from children. Give and take in love. If I am silent can I show love for my family? If I speak, I am bad, mad. If I am silent, I am bad. I am bad in the eye of all. If I tolerate silently, all is good, all are glad. Can a sad person become glad?

2007-02-28 17:48:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-28 17:43:45 · 10 answers · asked by ilyn 2

I'm a 26-year-old virgin. I'm dealing with a lot of people around me who think there is something wrong with me for still being a virgin at my age. They tend to think there is something wrong with me for still having it and not wanting to give it up so easily--even my family thinks this. My reasons used to be largely religious but a few years ago I had to reconstruct my belief system after my family fell apart, I only learned how to masturbate two years ago, and I have very strong feelings about sharing my body with someone else before I am ready. My deeper problem is letting someone get close enough to me for me to eventually be ready, as I have a very limited trust of men right now. I'm convinced they are all alike and yet I can't do sex for the sake of sex....it is deeper to me than that. Honestly, am I so wrong for retaining my virginity, and not buckling under pressure from others, no matter their comments might hurt me? Am I right in sticking to my guns?

2007-02-28 17:25:30 · 4 answers · asked by zeoviolet 2

Once in awhile in a relationship, someone says something really immortal that you always remember long after you've parted ways. It can be, good, bad, gut-wrenching, romantic, whatever.

2007-02-28 17:23:34 · 64 answers · asked by Katrine 4

2007-02-28 17:20:04 · 15 answers · asked by Fr3shPr1nce 2

2007-02-28 17:18:19 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-28 17:18:10 · 6 answers · asked by cherry91choices 1

Im hoping there someone who have a kind heart to lend us a hand to help my family from fire vicitim because until now the goverment still doesn't dicide where the place we will live. We still dont have home,no light,no water, the dumping still not yet finish, im begging for the people who have a kind heart ,to listen and help us in financial so we can have a home to live for the 8 children whom is my bros and sis and my father doesn't have stable job for what happened. I currently live in philippines and it seems that the goverment here put the money on thier pocket,so we dont have choice but to wait thier promise that they will give us land because before we will live in sea side area.And now they dump it many sand but still not yet finish. my only concern is i just dont to wait until the time some of my family are sick because of no clean water and no light. Whoever have a heart you can ask me more ,you can contact me at aihaih_morrison@yahoo.com

2007-02-28 17:09:14 · 5 answers · asked by aihaih_morrison 1

that hes too busy with his work and his family. His family is very narrow minded so he cant talk with me on phone when he is at home. He is out of town most of the times for his work, he goes out for a month and comes back for say just 5-10 dasys. So it becomes very difficult for us to meet bcoz he has all his personal work to do as well in very short time. I am just tired of sacrificing for him. He keeps on asking me to understand his situation. I feel very lonely when hes not around. Can anyone suggest what I need to do??

2007-02-28 16:54:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Example;
I got a ticket for going 81 mph in a 65 zone. It was a slow day, I ussually go faster. Do I have to tell my spouse? Or... can I just pay it quietly and shut up?

Should I go ahead an run the extra copy through the shredder to prevent it being found later? Or...do I absolutely have to "fess up" to my partner about it?

In other words...Is honesty always and mandatorialy (is that even a word) the best policy?

2007-02-28 16:41:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My 15 year old is adopted by my husband. Her biological father gave up parental rights, can she change her last name and how does she doe this?

2007-02-28 16:39:18 · 7 answers · asked by raelynn_13 1

but not be sexually attracted to them? i think... i might be asexual (meaning im not really interested in sex) but... does that mean that i cant be in love with someone?

2007-02-28 16:36:33 · 5 answers · asked by harpielingo 2

why diod you delete my question?

2007-02-28 16:34:57 · 1 answers · asked by Metalup87 2

We were playing football in PE and I was making good plays but then ppl were like, "oh i through it to you, oh f***" and just be plain mean, so then i would be wide open in the end zone and wouldnt get the ball thrown to me, so i decided to just go to the weight room and not fight back. So then i leave and then people started cursing at me and calling me a ***. Did i do the right thing?

2007-02-28 16:25:45 · 5 answers · asked by siwwmilk 1

you dont have kids together either and they always bring up the past about what we should of done to keep them

2007-02-28 16:18:05 · 4 answers · asked by brian_taylor8874 1

Are they on some kind of meds ?

2007-02-28 16:16:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok recently i have been making out with my boyfriend :)
make outs happen with clothes on but he ejaculates when we’re making out, although he won’t tell me. Do you think that it is possible that the semen can go through my clothes? (my clothes are dress pants, thin) Is that possible? i mean i have thought about it, and said no to me but he puts his penis right where my gentials are to be, ontop of the clothes, then he puts pressure there and i've noticed the ejaculation there many times. Can it happen? [im just concerned because i heard that sperm can navigate]

2007-02-28 16:13:45 · 2 answers · asked by ninacoqueta0817 2

I am fighting for custody of my three children. I am having to work in two different courts because there are two fathers involved. I am currently getting screwed by the system. I need a lawyer BAD!! Legal Aid here is not taking any new cases. The lawyers here aren't taking pro bono cases unless Legal Aid assigns them.

I am now having to fight just to see my kids and no one will tell me why!

Does anyone know where I can find a lawyer who will represent me for free and can help me get my kids back?

2007-02-28 16:09:33 · 1 answers · asked by laraiyne 2

They say what doesn't kill you makes you stronger... I often feel like Love makes me weak. What are your thoughts?

2007-02-28 16:06:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother sleeps on the couch every night. He has his own room, a practically new bed, and he still sleeps on the couch a few feet from my parents room. We've asked him, and he never gives us a reason. My parents are frustrated with him.

2007-02-28 15:56:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-28 15:51:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok this may sound weird, but my lil sis knows about a website opening on march 1st, she wants to know what time it will open. oh yeah the website is based out of d.c. so she wants to know "when it will be march 1st so i can go on the website"
please help!!! she's driving me nuts with this question!!!

2007-02-28 15:41:09 · 5 answers · asked by marie(: 2

2007-02-28 15:40:36 · 15 answers · asked by janetw 2