I've asked so many questions on here but I love to hear others views. Me and my ex of 7 years broke up and he moved 2000 miles away..Well, he moved before we broke up..I know there isn't another woman. I am pregnant with his child and we are very young...22 & 23. We had our wedding planned before the baby. Dr. said I would never be able to have kids..my ex wanted one and I ended up getting pregnant. We wasn't trying because of what the Dr. told me. He was very excited while I was kind of depressed because I wanted to be married and have my degree. Now, I wish he comes back and I know alot of people thinks that is stupid. We had a pretty good relationship, His father walked out on him as a baby. He tells me he misses me and loves me but picks stupid fights..Does distance really make the heart grow fonder?? I told him last night we shouldn't talk until we clear our heads..Has this every happened to anyone?
2007-02-28 19:20:37 · 3 answers · asked by angelsdeath420 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We was planning on moving there before we broke up..We already had our wedding mostly planned. I don't know if he is scared. I tell him how I feel but he is closing up to me. He agreed tonight that We shouldn't talk for a bit because he feels like it would be good for "us"...which I agree.
2007-02-28 19:23:53 · update #1
We was getting married and THEN we broke up or rather he broke up with me..Sorry I confused you.
2007-02-28 19:33:19 · update #2
my my my what a dilemma if you Love him and know what right don't talk to him for a little wile maybe he left because it was all to much for him.
take little steps and start again but slowly, if you truly Love him and he feels the same for you then both of you deserve no one but each other.
I don't entirely know how you feel but distance does make the heart grow fonder if you Love the person because you miss them.
maybe wait a bit before getting married.
1. don't talk to him for a little wile until both of you are clear minded.
2. arrange a visit so you can see each other again and see what happens, if any old sparks fly or if you don't click (I am sure you will click =]).
3. then go from there do what you think is right and what he thinks is right =].
I wish you both and the little one ALL the best =].
p.s. LOVE NEVER GIVES UP, don't stop trying unless you KNOW you have to.
2007-02-28 19:48:03 · answer #1 · answered by *B.S.S.F.P* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Distance does not make the heart grow fonder. It makes for a cold bed and short conversations.
Maybe his guilt makes him angry and it comes out as fights with you? If you talk to him, tell him you love him and want to be with him. Clearing heads never works out. Always I hear that someone says this and then in a few months they are never speaking again.
If you want this, make it happen. It will not just happen on it's own. Tell him, we made this baby and I want to know are you here for us? This thing, separating, it sets a bad example for the future. In the future if you are married, will you separate every time you don't agree? No. Work it out. Talk. Figure out if you are to be together and then figure out How you will make it so you are together.
If it does not happen when you try, then it is not meant to be. But you must at least try if it is what you want.
I hope the very best for you and your family.
2007-03-01 03:41:44 · answer #2 · answered by Theresa A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait, first you say you've broken up then you are getting married then...WHAT THE PHUCK? First you have to make up your minds whether you actually HAVE a relationship or not.
2007-03-01 03:25:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋