Other - Family & Relationships - 1 March 2007

He will not have sex with me anymore. It's been a year now. He says he loves me. He pulls away when I address the issue. What is going on. PLZ HELP.

2007-03-01 23:58:21 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ways of how you helped someone in their life? Detailed stories are optional yet a bonus.

2007-03-01 23:55:05 · 9 answers · asked by gotagetaweigh 4

Hi, we raised a child for 7 years that was a foster child in the state of Illinois. We moved and was not allowed to take her out of the state. It has been 20 years now with no contact and would like to make contact with her to tell her of happenings and share lives with each other. Does anyone know how I could find her since she was in Illinois foster care? Thank you ahead of time. I have searched her name on the net and cant find anything.

2007-03-01 23:55:05 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-03-01 23:39:38 · 27 answers · asked by gotagetaweigh 4

2007-03-01 23:32:16 · 8 answers · asked by prash_azmi 1

We've been together for a year, and both he and myself want them to know so that we can have a more public, open relationship, as I live in a small town... Please don't judge us because of our ages!

2007-03-01 23:24:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well I met my ex last weekend after he bombarded me with messages saying he was still in love with me after 5-6 yrs (We broke up as I was very young, he is 8 yrs older than me) anyway I am getting married in under 5 mths and am having doubts. I met my ex and one thing led to another, now both want an answer off me at the end of the weekend. I havent told my fiance about him just said I think we have drifted apart and need some space. We own a house together aswell which complicates things. My ex is based in my home town so I would move back there if I broke up with fiance. How do I choose I am mad about ex but not sure if I stilll love fiance as I was with my ex over the weekend. I am so confused. My ex said he doesnt want to lose me a second time, I thought he was just going though some phase after seeing me again wouldnt want to know but if anything his feelings seem to have got stronger. He is all I think about but maybe I am going through a phase. Think I need my fortune told here

2007-03-01 23:19:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-01 23:11:50 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

apart from telling directly to their guys.....wat r the means gals adopt to show that they r ready to get in2 bed politely ?
how to understand ?

2007-03-01 22:56:17 · 8 answers · asked by shabev 2

2007-03-01 22:50:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife of 33 years,has lost interest in our sex life.She was also,going down the path,of saying "I think you and I would get on better,if you got your own place. So I got my own place,a flat,which I doubled up as an office...but I was still keen to keep our relationship going so ended up going home every night..having a few drinks on the way home from work..with a few guys in a local club.I was doing 2 jobs a day, and finishing work at 11 pm at night..my wife would be in bed,asleep when I got home at10 pm..and thus,I was having no adult conversation, or as we say "chilling" before I went to bed ! She thought I was having affairs (I wasn't) . and then came her next solution..I don't want you coming home here if you have had a drink.
Together, with my wife sleeping on the edge of the bed for 2 years , and no sex..I began to get the idea,that I wasn't wanted...so I then started playing the field.I love her.I love sex! I had an affair with a nurse, who told everybody ! What should I do ?

2007-03-01 22:25:50 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

We came to live in Africa on a short contract 18 months ago. Six months later I had to go abroad for 2 months for a major life-saving op. While I was away he started an affair with a local girl who works in the market. He promised he would end it but never did. When I discovered she'd had an abortion and was pregnant again I asked him to leave. Haven't seen him since and am much more at peace, but he sees the boys several times a week. Turns out he's had quite a few affairs. I'm planning to move home with the boys, but once we go it'll be hard for them to see their Dad more than once or twice a year. I think he plans to stay long-term; he's scared he won't get work elsewhere. The school here is not very good and I need family and friends around who love me... But, guys, I need your advice, especially if you grew up with a long-distance Dad. Is this going to work out OK for my boys, or am I making a big mistake? I'd do anything rather than hurt them.

2007-03-01 22:12:47 · 4 answers · asked by clio 4

2007-03-01 22:08:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

We came to live in Africa on a short contract 18 months ago. Six months later I had to go abroad for 2 months for a major life-saving op. While I was away he started an affair with a local girl who works in the market. He promised he would end it but never did. When I discovered she'd had an abortion and was pregnant again I asked him to leave. Haven't seen him since and am much more at peace, but he sees the boys several times a week. Turns out he's had quite a few affairs. I'm planning to move home with the boys, but once we go it'll be hard for them to see their Dad more than once or twice a year. I think he plans to stay long-term; he's scared he won't get work elsewhere. The school here is not very good and I need family and friends around who love me... But, guys, I need your advice, especially if you grew up with a long-distance Dad. Is this going to work out OK for my boys, or am I making a big mistake? I'd do anything rather than hurt them.

2007-03-01 22:07:08 · 11 answers · asked by clio 4

Is it selfish from her to want to continue this relationship of over a yr. Just for the fact that she might not get in the school she wants?

2007-03-01 21:35:36 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't understand is it because of the girl? If it is, how is it abuse she is asking parents, and people older than her what she should do. She has enough brain to ask for help.

2007-03-01 21:26:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do people ever get over an abusive relationship , emotional and physical abuse ? Do u ever get over it ? I dont think its something that ever leaves u ...

2007-03-01 21:23:51 · 15 answers · asked by jizzumonkey 6

just curious.

2007-03-01 21:15:54 · 13 answers · asked by cutie 1

i know im the only one out all my friends who is a virgin. everyone keeps telling me that it will happen, i just don't think that boys will like it if i tell them im still a virgin.

2007-03-01 21:01:44 · 19 answers · asked by Kylie<3GD 1

Just who?

2007-03-01 20:27:49 · 15 answers · asked by oshokhameye 2

i wanna die early so i could rest in peace coz i have no faithful friends, my parents are olweiz arguing, my mother scolds me a lot and my siblings olweiz annoy me.. whys that? i didn't do anything wrong for them to treat me this way.. need a friend.. pls..=<

2007-03-01 19:48:15 · 12 answers · asked by -ayumi- 2

last time we did it, she even threatened to call the cops

2007-03-01 19:29:02 · 8 answers · asked by inktri74 i 1

the best: peace
the worst: war
so you..?

2007-03-01 19:22:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've asked so many questions on here but I love to hear others views. Me and my ex of 7 years broke up and he moved 2000 miles away..Well, he moved before we broke up..I know there isn't another woman. I am pregnant with his child and we are very young...22 & 23. We had our wedding planned before the baby. Dr. said I would never be able to have kids..my ex wanted one and I ended up getting pregnant. We wasn't trying because of what the Dr. told me. He was very excited while I was kind of depressed because I wanted to be married and have my degree. Now, I wish he comes back and I know alot of people thinks that is stupid. We had a pretty good relationship, His father walked out on him as a baby. He tells me he misses me and loves me but picks stupid fights..Does distance really make the heart grow fonder?? I told him last night we shouldn't talk until we clear our heads..Has this every happened to anyone? He says we "can't" work it out..but yet sends me mixed signals..

2007-03-01 19:19:56 · 1 answers · asked by angelsdeath420 2

2007-03-01 19:04:03 · 4 answers · asked by singmetosleep 1

2007-03-01 18:54:21 · 3 answers · asked by Rio 3

BARRY (i know ? will read this and i am sorry i didnt't want to hurt her)
I was only young when you did things to me that a dad (stepdad) should not do and i have waited years to say something to you but never had the courage even though you are miles away, I know that i was not your own flesh and blood but what gave you the right to do it to me you took away my childhood, i only contacted you again not because i love you but because i wanted you to say sorry but you never did, i have nothing to gain or lose by doing this so here goes , when you sneaked into my bedroom even knowing that i shared a room and asking me not to say anything to mum and when mum had a suspicion something was going on you told me i didnt have to say anything and i never did ( i was a youngster and didnt know it was wrong) it was your dirty secret , i grew up hating men because of you unlike our ? i didnt sleep around i didnt trust men but i met paul and told him after a while what happened to me

2007-03-01 18:42:46 · 34 answers · asked by margaret 2

I was always under the impression she's been with a larger than normal number a people but 30+ was still quite a shocker. Guys but mostly other girls she says. I don't even know what to think at this point. Looking for some advise outside the bubble.

2007-03-01 18:36:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend lies to me all the time about stupid things. An example could be what he ate for breakfast. He has done this since the beginning of our relationship (about a year and a half). He not only lies to me, but also his friend and family. What gets me is that I catch him in a lie and he still tries to pull it off. What is going on with that? Is there any type of therapy that he could go to, to fix it? Or does anyone have any idea of why he might do this?..thank you!

2007-03-01 18:28:23 · 18 answers · asked by Emily 1

My sister's friend is 16 years old and she has liver cancer and earlier this week her doctor diagnosed her with terminal cancer. And they say she doesnt have that much time left. And I wanted to take them out and do some fun stuff and hang out before anything happens to her. I need some ideas of things that we can do.

2007-03-01 17:59:28 · 12 answers · asked by enchanted_dreamer 2