Other - Family & Relationships - 1 March 2007

the baby was born he shut down emotionally on me and wouldn't talk to me about anything.he wasn't helping me with the baby.. and basically for the past 9 months I have been a single mother. He only would see the baby maybe 2 times a month. He was having financial problems but I didn't know it because he would not tell me. I would ask him why would he not show me any affection, no hugs or send money, and I assumed he was cheating, he got really angry and said some mean things to me. He told me to do what ever so I met and started talking to another guy. It didn't last long..I still loved my baby father.But he was still so cold hearted, I stopped loving him. he has decided to tell me after so many months why he bacame so cold towards me, and I told him about the other guy. All is forgiven but those months took a hard toll on me and I no longer love him now. He proposed and I said no but he still wants to be w/ me. I luv him cause he is the baby dad, but not enough to be w/ him.Now what?

2007-03-01 08:11:59 · 9 answers · asked by Shalie 1

If so, was it moving or stalled?

2007-03-01 07:47:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I get just so fed up with my realtionship and how it is right now..... what is keeping us together? Why havent I givin up yet? I just dont get it..... Anyone have ideas?
p.s. we have been livin together for 2 years if that helps at all...

2007-03-01 07:46:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

What would you do if you were in debt with your mom $288 with your cell phone and you had to pay her back before you got your cell back? I'm in 11th Grade High School and have no job until May because of school being a higher priority. I have money in my bank accounts but I want to save that for emergency times, should I take out the money from my bank and pay off my mom or....what? Help! The phone is very important to me- because my Grandma always needs to be in touch with me and my family does as well, my family depends on my help and I need my phone for them to get in touch with me. Please help!

2007-03-01 07:40:48 · 4 answers · asked by Jen 1

I got raped many years ago and thought I was pg...and my mom said I was going to have an adborshion I dont for myself belive in them no matter what....babies are a gift from God no matter what ..If you get pg and dont want the baby there are women who cannt have kids so what so I belive in? Is it right or wrong?

2007-03-01 07:24:28 · 5 answers · asked by flyangel1118 1

Can you please help me? Ok, here's the story:

Yesterday, I got my report card. Everytime we get our report card, we have to get it signed and turned in the next day...i finally made the A B C honor roll, so I showed my report card to the girl, so she marked on it, where it said "B-", she put A, then on my Language Arts, she put C+. I erased the A, but i forgot to erase that-so you know what happens-the teacher I turned my report card into told my L.A teacher, then she wrote a note in my agenda telling my parents, and it said that I changed my L.A grade from a C- to a C+...i didn't get to tell her, because I was too scared+ sad, then on top of that, my MATH TEACHER WROTE A NOTE!!! During the end part of her class, she gave us an assignment. With like 20 mins left. Then when she told us to start, she told me to go to my L.A teacher to get a note...that took like 10 mins, and I found out she sent me over there because she was writing the note that I changed my grade! Plz wait 4 next pt

2007-03-01 07:15:46 · 8 answers · asked by ♥ Jazzy™♥ 1

My girlfriend finished with me on Sunday. On Monday,she said that we needed space apart,& for me not to contact her for 2 weeks (she said 2 give me time 'to get over her', and she said, maybe we can be friends, if 'she' wanted to? The thing is I still like her, and am kind of in a 'either she wants me back' mood, or 'i want nothing from her again'.... Any ideas? Should I leave it after 2 weeks, and see if she contacts me? Or contact her around 3 weeks, asking how she is? I still love her, we went out nearly 18 months!

2007-03-01 07:06:56 · 7 answers · asked by Rejhaven 1

My wife and I are in our late 30's with 2 kids and we both work. Problems is, we hardly find the time for sex. We are either surrounded by kids or too tired at 1030pm when the kids are in bed. I find myself looking at others which I suspect is due to me being so damn horny all the time. What to do? No wiseass answers or I'll cuff you upside your head. Thanks!

2007-03-01 07:00:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really care about him but I want things to go back to just friends but I can't afford to get fired. This should have never went this far. There is one more catch we are both married. Please help me!!!

2007-03-01 06:59:18 · 27 answers · asked by HELP ME!!! 2

2007-03-01 06:55:23 · 7 answers · asked by Manolo L 1

She is doing this for her 40th Birthday, and as I took a Golf Trip last year with my best friend for my 40th. Her departure date just happens to be on our Anniversary, and i am feeling sad about this. any advise?

2007-03-01 06:49:51 · 15 answers · asked by DJ Easy Bing 2

I had been in an abusive gay relationship for over 20 years, from physical, to emotional to sexual abuse. It’s now been 5 year and have seemed to have recovered somewhat, however I am still in a legal battle with my x for the last 4 years to get my fair share of our estate.

I feel I am entitled ½ estate. My lawyer has told me this and based on what I have read I am entitled to ½.

In fact the judge had ruled in my favor only to reverse after my x claimed false facts making me out to be a non-contributing partner in the relationship.

My x has used every legal maneuver to stall or distort the facts as to try to recover move then 75% of the estate.

He now claims after 4 years in to the case that I had never contributed my half to the mortgage. I can prove I did contribute and in fact I contributed more then half and can prove thru checks and bank statement.

He also claims contributed a substantial investment in the home. This be true, however he did quitclaim me on the deed and gifted my half the property.

I have tried everything legally as to not play the abuse card, however now I feel I need to tell it all. I had suppressed this part of our relationship, partly out of embarrassment and mostly to spare my family and his family the public humiliation.

Not sure what to do, I keep going back a forth, should I just give in and let him have what he wants and move on with my life. But part of me thinks that if I do I’ll be letting him abuse me again and again.

2007-03-01 06:45:05 · 5 answers · asked by Mark B 1

Hi!! Well for the past couple months my mom has been going out lately which she never used to do, then she got her own cell phone and I was like cool. I was happy that she was having fun for once. I wasn't suspicious at all until I would hear her talk on the phone with men, and she'd call them baby or say "I wish I could say more" or she'd say "You too baby" . But that was just part of it. I didn't think much of it. There's so many other clues.... I can't even list them all
like.. today she had a day off of work. Then she tells me "Um sweetie I have to go to work today cuz they need me and Mary isn't there and blah blah blah..." so about 2 hours later I call her work and ask for her, and they tell me she isn't there...she makes very ellaborate lies up
Another thing is, I think I've met the guy she's "hanging out" with. She tells me to never tell my dad about him. Hmmmm
Anyways, please don't tell me that this is none of my business because I'm worried about my Mom and my family. Thnx

2007-03-01 06:42:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Problems/arguments are always going to occur in a relationship; it's inevitable.

The point is to work and rise above to make the relationship stronger and more meaningful.

Why do you think people give up so easily?

2007-03-01 06:32:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-01 06:29:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband and i were going to bed last night and after i layed down he made me get up so he could push the bed closer to the wall.when i ask him why hey replied"i dont want to get
taken and eaten by the crevice monster.how many crazy husbands,children, wives, fathers,uncles and aunts plus who ever else believes in a crevice monster?=)

2007-03-01 06:26:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-01 06:21:48 · 16 answers · asked by brown eyes 2

How did that work out? Did you find that the longer you were friends, the stronger the relationship?

2007-03-01 06:19:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is Worse? You walking in on your parents having sex, or your parents walking in on you having sex.

2007-03-01 06:15:36 · 3 answers · asked by wonderfullyhuman_99 3

This is the second or third time i've had this dream where my boyfriend cheats on me with two diffrent girls. Anyone know what that interpretes?

2007-03-01 06:14:54 · 13 answers · asked by answergiver 2

2007-03-01 06:02:19 · 10 answers · asked by binary sunset 3

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2007-03-01 06:00:21 · 5 answers · asked by deleanu m 1

... What do you think of people who do it?

Would you do it? Or are you a watcher?
Or do you just think its plain stupid?

2007-03-01 05:57:27 · 14 answers · asked by night 3

Me and my bf do it on a regular basis, in the middle of sex sex or just randomly. Are we over sexed? Do we have a problem or just enjoy being naughty/dirty????

2007-03-01 05:56:42 · 1 answers · asked by Fairy Dust :*:*: 2

2007-03-01 05:46:12 · 2 answers · asked by sexy m 1

I have this older woman (than me by 20 years) that has tried, not so slyly, pick up on my boyfriend. He is a on the board of a chamber and she is a member. He has been oblivious to it until she went too far and was "left" by her friend at a function and asked him to give her a ride. At this point I pointed out she was trying to pick him up and to be careful. Now I am going to a function with him and I know she will be there, I’m sure we will get introduced, and I loath to shake her hand, or be nice, but I have to be polite. How would you handle this situation?

2007-03-01 05:40:03 · 27 answers · asked by mudd_grip 4

my parents wont let me get emancipated, but i cant take much more. do i have to have their approval?

2007-03-01 05:35:32 · 14 answers · asked by ~ever lasting~ 1

I have a friend who has been broken up with her boyfriend for about 4-5 months now. She has met a new guy and they all hang out together.They choose to become friends and she thought that was the end of it.He wants to date her again but he has a girlfriend who lives with him and he asks her behind his girlfriends back for them to get back together. She has been in a relationship with him for about 4 years and she never wants to go back to him. He keeps calling her and bothering her but she has a new boyfriend who treats her way better than he ever did. She wants to know how does she left him down easy and distance her self. He thinks she is being mean and hurtful. This is causing problems between her and his girlfriend because she thinks that might do something together. she doesn't want to be mean but she has no other options. Also he has a problem with her visting. he seems to think she has to visit him for weeks at a time. If she says no he will make a big deal and cuss her out.

2007-03-01 05:32:59 · 5 answers · asked by harry225kat 1

monday during a meeting at work a coworker and i agreed to trade shifts,she is not only my coworker but also she is my stepsons sister, she will work for me on sunday and i was going to work for her on friday,well seeing as though she has sundays off i thought it was a good trade because on fridays she has to work 16 hr shift so i figured that to give her the chance to only have to work 8 hrs on friday it would be fair well she turns around and calls our manager and complains that she will only have one day off if she works for me on sunday,so she makes the agreement without talkin to me first that i will work for her om thursday which puts me workin a 16 hr shift my shift plus hers is this fair

2007-03-01 05:29:02 · 9 answers · asked by slyshaunamichelle 2

2007-03-01 05:27:46 · 6 answers · asked by salima_guriya 1