I get just so fed up with my realtionship and how it is right now..... what is keeping us together? Why havent I givin up yet? I just dont get it..... Anyone have ideas?
p.s. we have been livin together for 2 years if that helps at all...
2007-03-01 07:46:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like you just want to hear 'get rid of him.' What I want to know is what's the problem(s). It takes two to tango and even if this relationship sinks u may find yourself repeating the same mistakes, both your own, and his. Email if like helloterrydale@yahoo.ca
2007-03-01 07:51:49 · answer #1 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because you are living together. I was living with a fella for 3 years and the last 6-8 months sucked! I wanted out but figured I would keep trying because we had so much wrapped up in living together. You just need to grit your teeth and get out of the relationship on good terms with one another. It makes dealing with all the hassle of moving out a lot easier if you are friendly with one another.
2007-03-01 15:55:03 · answer #2 · answered by Go Bears! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same situation...I think that the reason I stay in my relationship is for many reasons and here mine are: it is comfortable, you like the person on one hand and then on the other you don't but you think things will change and they do for awhile and you are back to the same problems, it is a routine to be with someone and it is hard to break...I could go on and on about it. I guess the real question here is to ask yourself if you could be happy forever with this person and if not move on no matter how hard it is...remember there was life b4 this person and there will be life after...good luck! I am ready to move on:)
2007-03-08 21:58:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
was in a situation like this.
whats keeping you together is the well known relationship OF convinience.
think of all the things youll have to do if u end it, move out/in, bills alone, lonely nights etc - Dont put it off.
i was over my ex and when he decided to leave - i think i even shed a tear or two - but thank goodness because I am happy now - new relationship etc.
get rid of him - lifes too short, if he isnt making you happy, then whats the good of him???
2007-03-08 11:02:59 · answer #4 · answered by ilovecokeacole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are comfortable, he is like an old shoe. You don't want to start the lets get to know each other. What's the point of being at a dead end. To move foward is to move on.
2007-03-09 15:44:46 · answer #5 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went thru this feeling last week...what i did was sit him down and tell him everything that i was feeling..sad, mad, unappreciated and like i was taking a backseat to everything else in his life. After all that he got everything off his chest and he is helping me out around the house and listening to how i'm feeling and taking into account my opinion about things. If you are feeling neglected or something it might make you feel like how your feeling. Just talk to him, don't think about what he'll say, or if he'll be mad if you say them just openly talk to each other. It will probably help you find your answer.
Good luck! hope everything works out!
2007-03-01 15:54:17 · answer #6 · answered by all4him 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Afraid of being alone. Moving out .Can't afford 2 live alone.What will everyone say.The list is long when you have had enough than you will leave.Just my thought. Best of luck.
2007-03-01 15:52:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love him? If you love him, don't give up on him, unless-
Is he mean to you? If he is mean to you, you don't need him.
Is he a loser? If he drinks or does drugs, don't expect him to change for you. It will NEVER happen.
Do you have kids? If so, think about what is best for them.
In fact...think about whats best for you.
2007-03-01 15:57:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you give it up on a regular basis?
2007-03-01 15:50:40 · answer #9 · answered by huckleberrydaddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it's because your scared or you really do love him...Everyone has a problem from now and then in their relationships....no one is perfect..
2007-03-09 12:39:55 · answer #10 · answered by Danielle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋