Problems/arguments are always going to occur in a relationship; it's inevitable.
The point is to work and rise above to make the relationship stronger and more meaningful.
Why do you think people give up so easily?
2007-03-01 06:32:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I personally went to the depths of hell trying to hold on to my marriage. I offered her the blood that flows through my veins, if she wanted it. So, why do I give up so easily now??? I REFUSE to go through that again. It's NOT worth it to me. It's not worth the pain........
2007-03-01 06:43:39 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
People mainly give up not because there are problems, but because they do not want the relationship any longer. And if that is the case, the thing to do is to end it. End it fast, like ripping off a bandage.
The only time it isn't best to end it clean, is if there are children to be considered, or if there is a marriage and an attempt can be made to work through it.
2007-03-01 07:40:01 · answer #2 · answered by danashelchan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People want to stand outside the fire. They are so scared of getting burned, they hold back, and fold at the first sign of every day not being a holiday and every meal a feast. Reverting to "machine mode" to keep an emotional distance. But by using this safety button, they miss out on the "good stuff", that which comes with seeing a relationship through the trying times.
2007-03-01 06:52:28 · answer #3 · answered by shannon d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think people give up much too easily in relationships.
I think the reason is because we've been taught that it's all about "me." If you argue with me, you're wrong. If you don't kiss my butt, you're wrong. If you don't do exactly what I want everytime I want, you're wrong. Nobody can see anymore that it's not all about me.
Marriage and relationships have to be about "us." And sometimes what's good for "us" isn't what feels all warm and fuzzy for "me."
If you're winning every fight (or determined to) then you're losing at your relationship. And if you just took offense to what I said, it's a good chance you are.
2007-03-01 06:40:27 · answer #4 · answered by penhead72 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
because there sceard and thats the only thing they think they can do. is give up on the relationship <> i mean the first disagreement you have try to talk it over lisen to different piont of views and see what you out come is <> and if it gets really intense have sex you'll get over or under it ~!~Lol~!~
2007-03-01 06:41:55 · answer #5 · answered by ReSa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They believe the realationship is over before it really begins.
2007-03-01 06:36:54 · answer #6 · answered by lexiss91 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duh! Because it is easy enough to do.
2007-03-01 07:25:13 · answer #7 · answered by wyattj23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋