I really care about him but I want things to go back to just friends but I can't afford to get fired. This should have never went this far. There is one more catch we are both married. Please help me!!!
2007-03-01 06:59:18 · 27 answers · asked by HELP ME!!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Especially since you are both still married, you should end it right away. Things like this I have heard can become a disaster. If you keep going, someone will find out, and someone always winds up hurt. Do you honestly think he would fire you for not sleeping with him? If so, then tell him you think you are on the verge of getting caught and we need to stop this. You know, you are not the only one who could get fired for this, just remember that his behavior is insubortinate also.
2007-03-01 07:07:22 · answer #1 · answered by mlock123 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, never have a relationship with someone from work. An old saying states this: "never cut your meat where you make your bread". Of course, if he should happen to fire you, then you've got the defense of sexual harrasment....should you decide to go that route. So, quit the relationship immediately, before your spouses find out. These sort of things have a way of getting noticed. Best of luck to you.
2007-03-01 07:04:31 · answer #2 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless he's a complete asshole, it should be possible to go back a step without being fired.
Tell him you're feeling a lot of guilt about the affair..you're afraid of getting caught and ruining your marriage/his marriage/your job/his job. That you want to do the right thing, and the right thing is to do right by your marriage and not cheat on your husband. Be sure you tell him you enjoy his company and hope this doesn't affect your friendship.
Hope it goes well...
2007-03-01 07:06:46 · answer #3 · answered by Nasubi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow did you really stink it up. There is no going back now. Good job on ruining 4 peoples lives (not including all the kids involved). You made your bed now lay in it. You knew it was wrong to start with. You really don't have much of a choice but to leave your job. WAY TO GO!!!
Adultry = 1, Monogomy = 0
2007-03-01 07:04:37 · answer #4 · answered by behr28 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Things will never be the same, I think you should look for a new job.Not to be ugly but why didn't you consider your spouse and how that was a betrayal your marriage before you did it. Hope your boss agrees with you on ending it otherwise you may have trouble.
2007-03-01 07:09:01 · answer #5 · answered by lovablegal77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow....that sucks... um if i were you i would tak emy vacation if your up for any and look for another job, if you dont plan on telling your husband then when he asks you why you want another job just tell him you want a change and you are seeing yourself getting stressed out at work or, you want a job with better advancement opportunities.... whle on vacation, find another job and tell them that your current employer does not know you are seeking employment outside their company and would they please be very discrete upon calling them. Once you find another job then you can break it to your boss that you feel it has gone too far and in order to end it you feel it is necessary to work elswhere, if he is profesional at all, he should understand. good luck and at your next job, try to keep it strictly business so as not to run into this problem again. Good luck hun.
2007-03-01 07:07:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi!! i'm in Nebraska!! in any case! i think of this is great you prefer to try this, being a huge sister myself, i be responsive to what this is opt for to opt for to lead the newborn. I say you're taking her out for her popular nutrition or ice cream and function a communique. tell her that yeah, what she became into doing became into undesirable yet you do no longer think of she's a terrible individual. tell her that no count what absolutely everyone is going to love her in simple terms the comparable. additionally, provide her a self self assurance enhance. the reason she's sending those p.c.. is via the fact she feels like the sole way she would be in a position to get a guy is by utilising exhibiting off. comparable with intercourse. Take her to get her hair performed and prepare her the thank you to be a woman. tell her that enjoying complicated to get is in simple terms as helpful. i like the activity concept. I have been given a activity at 15 and that i matured rapid. It became into great to be waiting to do what i needed with my funds. i'm advantageous she needs a vehicle while she turns sixteen, so this is a great thank you to maintain up. little ones team and church are stable too. this way she would be in a position to make acquaintances on a similar time as she'd down there. As for punishment get her a tracfone. The pay as you go telephone will help with accountability! while she gets her activity she would be in a position to be determining to purchase it so I doubt she'll opt for to apply it that plenty. and make certain you examine the telephone too. She did something undesirable and nonetheless merits a punishment, so her privateness rights have been taken away. i could block facebook, myspace, skype, objective, all of that form of stuff on your laptop. and make certain you're checking the historic past. possibly positioned her in etiquette training to coach her manners and the thank you to understand her mom and herself. undergo in strategies, tell her you adore her and that if she works complicated at turning out to be a extra suited individual, existence at homestead will grow to be plenty extra basic. :)
2016-10-02 05:02:52 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sucks for you, you shouldn't have slept with him in the first place!!! Things will never be the same!..... And both of you are married!!!! Wow i wouldn't like to be in your shoes. Find another job
2007-03-01 07:05:25 · answer #8 · answered by armygirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find a new job! mistake number 1: you guys did the deed while you both are married....to DIFFERENT people mistake number 2: he's your boss!
2007-03-01 07:03:02 · answer #9 · answered by Laura 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have opened a can of worms here. Tell him the truth ,but be prepared for him to retaliate. It may come down to it being a life lesson for you.
2007-03-01 07:03:03 · answer #10 · answered by mopjky 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋