Other - Family & Relationships - 26 February 2007

sometimes even twice or 3 times a day, usually starts the minute i get home from work ! he doesnt have anything to tell me and to be honest i hate using the phone for no reason, the sound of it ringing drives me mad!! i always know when its going to be him and it winds me up, another pointless 30 second conversation, i didnt really mind when he first started but 8 months down the line im going mad!! how can i tell him dont ring everyday when u have nothing to say, WITHOUT hurting his feelings, i just want peace and quiet, not a phone shrilling 3 times a night :-(

2007-02-26 23:45:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Ex of 4 years plus we have a child met a girl 2 weeks after we split and has now informed me that they are moving in together. It's only been 3 months I think it's to soon.What does every one else think?

2007-02-26 22:57:47 · 17 answers · asked by j25d11 1

my girlfiend of 2yrs and 8mnths broke wth me just a month ago. now she had already a boyfriend but we still see each other until now. we still do things what ordinary couples do. i respect her a lot that i dont want her to do that thing. i even decided not to see her but i still love her. what will i do? i will still see her or i'll make the move not to see her anymore. whats her purpose why she still wants us to see each other. does she still love me?

2007-02-26 22:49:30 · 14 answers · asked by john 1

2007-02-26 22:36:58 · 20 answers · asked by - 5

I dont know what to do right now. I love my boyfriend more than life itself, and i would love nothing more than to spend the rest of my life with him. But i keep hurting him. I really dont mean to. My parents have been married and divorced so many times. and my mom has hurt my dad way too much. and they really are better off without each other. My bf has asked me to marry him. But i dont understand why... I moved across country for him, and then i left him after about 2months. I really wish i hadnt. But i think my problem is that im terrified that im gonna do him like my mom did my dad. and he really doesnt deserve that. So i told him that maybe hes better off without me. ive never cheated on him or anything like that. But ive hurt him in other ways. and hes told me that. But hes begged me not to leave him. but he deserves to be with someone who isnt going to hurt him. He strongly believes that im the one for him, and i do to. Should i try it? or end it, so i dont leave him again...

2007-02-26 22:32:43 · 6 answers · asked by So Confused 1

Without doing anything illegal or immoral?

2007-02-26 22:29:48 · 3 answers · asked by victali 2

My wife feels bored at home. Some ideas which i can suggest her so that she becomes busy / engaged staying at home and can avoid being bored. Not necessary that she earns, just interesting activitiy will help.

2007-02-26 21:59:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-26 21:47:40 · 2 answers · asked by helen030166 1

i thoug i knoew.. but all i got from it was pain...

2007-02-26 21:41:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-26 21:35:53 · 12 answers · asked by SOJLO 3

i think my boyfriend have changed. before he can wait for me for until 10minutes,he's not mad. but now i think he only have waited for 1-2minutes he's mad at me. i always tell him that im sorry.

im not always late but sometimes its the environment that's keeping me late (i.e traffic) i told him to be more patient but he still insist that its his attitude and i can't change it.
but when im the one who's waiting eventhough he's 30mins late its ok for me. i understand him. i don't quarrel with him.

that's why everytime we are having little fights the reason is always me, cause even a single wrong move, he's mad.

2007-02-26 21:30:54 · 6 answers · asked by jhen 3

2007-02-26 21:22:07 · 11 answers · asked by SOJLO 3

2007-02-26 21:17:02 · 1 answers · asked by SunFlower 2

I didn't know the guy very well, but he and my partner went through a lot together. I'm being supportive in every way I can think - listening to him, helping organise the memorial, getting on with stuff around the house, reminding him he's loved - I just need some words of encouragement...

2007-02-26 21:14:12 · 8 answers · asked by Skidoo 7

boyfriend but he always lie to me, he never tell me the truth so I always insult him is not my fault,but i cant just help it, dat someone i love is liaring to me, he is really fed up of me he told me he is no longer interested. but the love i have 4 him is growing everyday and am ready to change for the better. but he dont want me anymore wat can i do to win his love? but will he stop liaring to me
am confuse wat can i do cos i love him so much. pls wat can i do to win his love back.

2007-02-26 21:12:45 · 5 answers · asked by Sammie T 1

We've been dating for years and now the time is here. He's in the process of buying my engagement ring, but he hasn't talked to me about converting. He has cracked jokes such as: I'm more Jewish than he is (bc I'm good w/$), and randomly he'll say "we'll have to talk to the rabbi about getting you converted."

Neither of us believe in God, but he has said that he'd like his kids to be raised in the Jewish culture (reconstructionist).

Does he just expect me to convert? Not expecting me to convert? Shouldn't he have addressed this issue before ring shopping?

2007-02-26 21:11:38 · 9 answers · asked by PlasticTrees 2

i have a bestfriend before,,she develops her feelings with me then she told me that she is wit inlove me, but i treat her as my really very good friend...i told her to find someone for her..but then less than a month she announce to me that she already find someone to love..when i heared that info, there is certain in me that hurts..we continue to be friend,talking nice things..sometimes about her gf, first im am listening to her..but days past, her time she usually spend to me was lessen and i feel hurt. i told her before that if she find gf, i ask her not to forget me, but i feel that because she already loves someone, i feel left alone. suddenly i realized that i love her, i told her and she said she waited it for so long...in short we became lovers even she already have one.. what to do now im beggining to feel so jealous on her gf, i know i dont have the right but i really love her, what to do now? she said she loves me more..she luk 4 gf coz i told her b4 and becoz she's hurt.

2007-02-26 20:53:47 · 5 answers · asked by i care about you! 1

2007-02-26 20:27:22 · 10 answers · asked by SOJLO 3

hi guys and girls, I'm just wondering if y'all could enable other members to send emails to ya.

It's just that there seem to be some really cool people on here, saying things that i really agree with, and then when I want to ask them something via email... It's kinda annoying not being able to...

hope u understand what i mean :)

2007-02-26 20:03:44 · 3 answers · asked by th3spy 2

I've had a bf. I love him so much. He loves me, too. But 3 weeks ago, I had a mistake and he was very angry. He haven't talked with me any more since that day. I'm sad and I just want to say with him that "I'm sorry". How can I say?

2007-02-26 19:44:29 · 8 answers · asked by kids 1

2007-02-26 19:42:54 · 8 answers · asked by ramappa j 2

today i was in a pizzaria after school and i was waititng for my friend and i was alone. i had just ordereda slice and two girls who dont like me very much were doing something. i turn and look at them and then one of then said something and i turned around and didnt say anything and she said something else. so i barely ate my pizza and i threw it out and left. while i was leaving the other was like,oh you better leave nd said something like "stupid white b----" like she didnt care if i heard. and then i started to cry when i was with my friend later. they dont even know me.
i dont now why. people dont usually get to me like this. what should i do.

2007-02-26 19:42:39 · 9 answers · asked by citygurl 4

2007-02-26 19:29:26 · 7 answers · asked by SOJLO 3

In a nutshell,. theres this guy whom i seemed to tak a liking too.I think what did it was the fact that he would always smile at me, and come up to me and ask how I was.He gave me his cell number, but when he called me, and he heard my voice , he hung up but he called back and he told me he would like to my FRIEND and that if I wanted to go to a movie or hang out to give him a call..so a month passes, and we workout together, and the whole time he's blushing and laughing, and he tells me"you make the cuttest litlle faces" and he's asking me "do I have a friend to work out with" and if not he would like to workout with me...so a week goes by...and we talk and I told him i enjoy his company and we should hang out.. he says that we could but in a few weeks because he has no money..so a few weeks go by...and no phone call, so I text message him, while he as at work to get coffee after he gets off.. he then tells me..he's at work, so we should get together next week...

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and so I straight up ask him If he's intrested..and he says we can meet up sometimes..BUT he can't say thats interested in hanging out as an ongoing thing"

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And then he asked me if I wanted to play basketball" and asked me if he could see my calves?LOL

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When he was late to workout together...for one he called his friend, and he told me he was running late, which isn;t like him, and then when he showed up, he aplogizes, and said that he had to drop somebody off..and he was really agaitated when he said it...but the key things is he said "somebody"

2007-02-26 19:10:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

everyday when i leave home, i think wat if i die today! or i keep thinking wat if my fiance dies...wats gona happen!
these thoughts are driving me crazy! plz help!

2007-02-26 18:54:30 · 32 answers · asked by ღ♥eyeღℓash♥ღ 4

2007-02-26 18:18:27 · 5 answers · asked by jaime 1

I m 25yrs working as a Software Project Faculty, A girl which comes to our project centre for doing her project. I had expressed my feelings after 2 weeks, with blabber like “never forgot you”. “I will sucide if you are not accept me” like this. But her answer is “I had already engaged with my cousin, he is for me”, and also said “I am doing my MBA now so please understand, I am not interested this type of matter, my parants are not accept you because you are a Muslim, I am a Brahmin”, I saw you only for my guide for my project. Till now I feeling lot and my heart always think about her, her name and her face is shown all the place where I go. So dos’t forgot her, so I am become an unconsious manner. In past few months, my confusion is she is whether try to ignore me or she is told the truth. Her feelings are giving more pain to me. . . and not yet forgot her .. .

2007-02-26 18:10:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

why do u guys stick up for ur mom and stay quiet when ur mom insults ur wife, but with other stuff u guys yell at mom for when it comes to wife ur mouth stays shut why? tell us the truth why do u men do this? what r u afraid of? whats the reason? just be honest plz this question should be better with the answers when a real man tells us the real answer or even if u know someone who does this u can also help and write be honest plzzzzz

2007-02-26 17:59:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive told him he cant say things like that but he thinks she should know. She isnt over weight. She isnt very sporty either. He tries to make her join in with physical activities that my other children are doing. But she preffers to read a book. She cries when he says it and im heartbroken. What can i say to him to make him stop. Ive told him that he might think its ok but Experts say its not.

2007-02-26 17:52:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've just started a 9-5 job & its just eating up my life! its so depressing & im too tired to do anythin else after! how do ppl have a life wrkin so much?! i feel like goin back to uni now!

2007-02-26 17:37:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous