today i was in a pizzaria after school and i was waititng for my friend and i was alone. i had just ordereda slice and two girls who dont like me very much were doing something. i turn and look at them and then one of then said something and i turned around and didnt say anything and she said something else. so i barely ate my pizza and i threw it out and left. while i was leaving the other was like,oh you better leave nd said something like "stupid white b----" like she didnt care if i heard. and then i started to cry when i was with my friend later. they dont even know me.
i dont now why. people dont usually get to me like this. what should i do.
2007-02-26 19:42:39 · 9 answers · asked by citygurl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hon - remember , there is all kinds of everything . . .
so , they said something like " stupid white b**** . .
this is a racist remark and why let someone elses ignorance
bother you ?
you know who you are , certainly not a stupid B**** /
dont go to their level , dont even pay attention to such crap
and hon never let anyone take over your feelings enough to break you up to tears - throw away your pizza ?
such people like them dont deserve a single thought
they are a poor excuse to society - ignorant and total morons
you cannot let such trash bother your life - concentrate on the good people around you and avoid ignorance - trust me theres a lot of ignorant people out there - sad isn ' t it ?
cheer up , hang aroung the type of people like yourself
YOU DESREVE THAT
2007-02-26 20:01:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know what hun, don't even worry about those girls don't fret about them at all. There are always going to be nasty people in the world who only want to see others with their feelings hurt. It makes them feel better to see someone else down. The best way to deal with situations like that is to think about what's deep inside of you. Think about who you are or what you like to do or the things that make you different. Just ignore them because I gaurantee someone will hurt them worse then they hurt you. Don't walk around looking for revenge. Just be you, be happy and stay in the company of your best friends and your family. I know what you had to go through because I've been through it quite a few times in my life. It makes me sad when I hear about it happening to other people. I know it's a not good feeling at all. So if those girls or anyone else does that again just take care of your business and think about something else. Get on your cell phone or dig through your purse for a distraction. Keep up a face that says either you don't care what they're saying or you're not even listening. People feel stupid when they're trying to make fun of someone and they find out that the person didn't even hear them.
I hope this helps.
2007-02-27 04:13:21 · answer #2 · answered by yournewgaurdiangel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Arrogant people will tend to say alot of things that make them look ignorant. You were being the better person by ignoring them.
They seen that they weren't getting to you so they took it to the next level by calling you something that they knew would get to you. Just keep your head up and know that you are the better person.
Boy I miss the days when I was a kid and we use to say "sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me"
2007-02-27 03:53:00 · answer #3 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ignore these people and act like u r not worried what the r saying to u and what happening around u.do not feel bad of any thing and don't even c them.and one more thing control Ur anger.if the see u r not reacting any thing they will stop by them self.
2007-02-27 03:55:11 · answer #4 · answered by boxer 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
People who bully are lacking substance in their life, be it self esteem, control, love, humility, etc. By them bullying you, they get you upset and that allows them one more day to have a sense of false-control.
They want to get a reaction out of you; they want to make you upset. The one who angers you or upsets you, controls you. Don't let them be the ones to control you. It sucks, believe me it sucks, but karma will make its rounds soon enough!
2007-02-27 03:59:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well don't take it too hard. There are some nasty people around so ignore their comments. Life is such!
2007-02-27 03:48:47 · answer #6 · answered by happy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nevermind them, Honey. They're just daft uneducated people not worthy of your tears. Possibly ex-cons.
Cheer up! (^ - ^)/
2007-02-27 03:48:04 · answer #7 · answered by sk|TTLes™ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Next time you finish your pizza, and enjoy it. Don't let people bully you around.
2007-02-27 03:47:14 · answer #8 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go to pizzerias which your close friends pop in ,not the ones you hate.
2007-02-27 03:48:52 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋