2007-02-26 22:36:58 · 20 answers · asked by - 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's much more intense, your in each others pockets all the time. You'll probably argue over the stupidest little things at first like how often do you do the hoovering etc..... Once you have got used to each others little imperfections though it gets much easier.
I also think its a lot better if you move into a new house together as appose to 1 person moving into the other persons home. This way when you do have an argument nobody can say get out of MY house or something similar.
2007-02-26 22:45:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It has changed mine dramatically.
1.His disgusting habits. Putting trash in the trash can with no liner, leaving the toliet seat up, the way he does dishes, etc
2. HE HALF-ASSES EVERYTHING!! <----that really drives me banana sandwich!
There are A LOT of things that were new to me about him when we first moved in together. I had no idea that he was lazy or he can play 10 hours of video games and not even make the bed, but there are things about me that annoys him I bet.
But yes, our relationship has changed but I dont know if its for the good or the bad. I dont know if I can ever live with somebody like him.
The first few months were great! You can have sex whenever and whereever you want, you can walk around naked and dance, curse and yell, and smoke and drink...whatever its your house. Those were the fun times. Then after the first few months is when you start to see a different side...
But if your relationship is strong and understanding then you will be fine.
2007-02-27 07:16:18 · answer #2 · answered by 88776 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it changes a lot. You see all positives and negatives of the other person... but you learn to love him the way he is (he's always been) with time.
To make your living together works you have to avoid being together 24/7. You need to find a balance between the amount of time you stay with him and without him. Have your own hobbies and friends...
2007-02-27 09:04:44 · answer #3 · answered by didi1083 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You get to know each other a whole lot better! There's no disguising those horrid little habits and irritations. I'd strongly recommend living together before marriage to iron out the problems. I only have two friends who dived into marriage without a 'trial run' first and both of them divorced in less than two years.
2007-02-27 06:45:17 · answer #4 · answered by Away With The Fairies 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well the first few months are great,ur happy to have ur little home together and are busy decorating and furnishing it.When the dust settles it can start to turn,you get under each others feet and every little thing ur significant other does can irritate you especially on your bad week!but blame that one on hormones! It just depends on how much you and your partner want it,it is give and take, both have to put the effort it! Oh, but be prepared to pick up his skinky socks that have nearly grew legs and walked to the machine themselves! Oh the joys!!
2007-02-27 06:54:07 · answer #5 · answered by Mona-Me25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can make or brake a relationship being in each others company 24/7 can be hard you will both need to give each other space and time alone even if it just means 30min in the bedroom with a mag this is when you start to see each others flaws etc be strong and work threw it it will be worth it
2007-02-27 09:14:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When living together, whether as a couple, or as man and wife, you begin to irritate each other. Even the most happily married of couples who have been married over 25-50 years get this way. It is only human nature.
2007-02-27 06:42:29 · answer #7 · answered by WC 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It makes you notice the little things like leaving the cap off of the toothpaste and leaving the toilet seat up. You see this significant other in the morning when they are not made up. You may find that they do things that you don't like. You have to see each other when you wake up in the morning and sleep at night. You see each other ALL the time...
2007-02-27 07:58:40 · answer #8 · answered by loveangel22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol it does you have to adapt to his or her needs and wants and slowly but surely things just are not the same ya sit and watch the same thing on the tv and ya dont go out so much sooner or later you start bumping heads and it could end a good thing but if you both are willing to change a piece of your life then go for it good luck
2007-02-27 07:10:04 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it made us alot closer. and after 7 years together, 6 years living together and 8 months of marraige, i can definately say if you are meant to be together then living together can only build your relationship and make it stronger. x x
2007-02-27 06:41:54 · answer #10 · answered by truelylo 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋