i have a bestfriend before,,she develops her feelings with me then she told me that she is wit inlove me, but i treat her as my really very good friend...i told her to find someone for her..but then less than a month she announce to me that she already find someone to love..when i heared that info, there is certain in me that hurts..we continue to be friend,talking nice things..sometimes about her gf, first im am listening to her..but days past, her time she usually spend to me was lessen and i feel hurt. i told her before that if she find gf, i ask her not to forget me, but i feel that because she already loves someone, i feel left alone. suddenly i realized that i love her, i told her and she said she waited it for so long...in short we became lovers even she already have one.. what to do now im beggining to feel so jealous on her gf, i know i dont have the right but i really love her, what to do now? she said she loves me more..she luk 4 gf coz i told her b4 and becoz she's hurt.
2007-02-26 20:53:47 · 5 answers · asked by i care about you! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If she really loves you, she will leave the girl she is with now.
If she stays with her girlfriend and continues to sleep with you, let her go and find someone new because her definition of love is pretty weak.
2007-03-05 07:49:27 · answer #1 · answered by why 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say if you are a lesbian too. Are you a guy or a girl? Hard to tell with lesbians.
Anyway, let her go. And realize that the gay life is one long cycle of 'screwing' around and having hook-ups. Biologically, it can't be more than that.
If you are a guy, think about what you want out of life. Then look for a woman who is appropriate to share that dream.
If you are a girl, well, there's going to be a lot of this in your life because you're a lesbian. Relax and play the game. It will just go on and on.
2007-03-05 08:54:43 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dude no offense but if she found a girl while still with u or wateva... u obviously dont work for her, she plays for the other team.. i mean cmon if she had gone with another guy id understand but she found a girl and looks like shes into her.. so how bout u leave em alone...... n live ur life and let her live hers as well..... u can stay friends but i think it'll be silly of u to think shes comin back to u anytime soon !n if u really do love her ud want her to be happy rite so why dont u jus ask her wat it is she wants and who as well... and respect her decision if its not in ur favor and yeah while ur at it get a few english lessons as well.. maybe thats another turn off for her too !
2007-03-07 04:00:21 · answer #3 · answered by I V X 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
avoid them and find other girl
2007-02-27 05:06:37 · answer #4 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let he go....
2007-03-05 15:21:08 · answer #5 · answered by *G* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋