Other - Family & Relationships - 26 February 2007

I explained to her that I'd forgot to put my contact lenses in and i'd just gone to the wrong washing line. She said she's going to the police. How can I stop her? Do you think that if i bought her a box of quality streets that it would stop her?

2007-02-26 03:16:45 · 9 answers · asked by victor 1

Every day my cousin constantly calls me. Twelve times every day! It's very annoying! We dont do anything or even talk. Its just silent hour. Then if I have to go somewhere, she gets all sad and says, "oh okay, but it kinda hurts me" It hurts me too, but I really do have to go. Then she thinks im lying and calls me 2 minutes later! I love her a lot, but this has really got to stop. Anything I can do to break it to her? And please no negative things.

2007-02-26 03:13:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hilton, what would you do?

2007-02-26 03:11:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am with a man who started a custody case against his daughter's mother to get full or joint custody. The mother is of course saying that her daughter should not live with her father because of me. She told the court that I abuse my children which is not true. We just found out yesterday that everytime I correct her behavior her mother has her document it on a calendar to say that everytime she comes over she gets in trouble so she doesn't feel comfortable. I treat her daughter just as I treat my own. If she does something that she is not supposed to which is a lot just like my daughter they are 10 and 11, I let her know that it is not appropriate. I don't yell, curse or hit her, I redirect her behavior. Now she has stated to her father that I don't like her and I pick on her. Does anyone know how I can counter this calendar and these accusations against me?

2007-02-26 02:58:48 · 4 answers · asked by Marcella D 2

2007-02-26 02:57:31 · 2 answers · asked by k-2007 1

I have a family who is lazy. How can encourage that person to be more helpful round the house without shouting at them?

2007-02-26 02:54:56 · 11 answers · asked by preenster 2

He likes cars, works on electical stuff, and does not like sports.

2007-02-26 02:53:48 · 5 answers · asked by Nichoda 2

I'm just ganna come out and say it...
I was raped when I was 5 by my gradpa, Gang raped when I was 12, Almost raped when I was 16 and then again two nights ago. This guy the other night just started working where I do and he said we had to help anouther guy salk milk. When I went into the milk cooler I asked what we needed. He shut the door and grabbed me I FROZE. I have no self defence and I just get so scared. Ive been to Conselling, it helps and then right when I think im good to go it happenes again. I hate this. What do i do? Who can i talk to? I told the mannager but... yeah. Im constantly looking over my shoulder. Im scared and it really shows. Can anyone help me Im 17 and this is getting to bad and hurtfull.

2007-02-26 02:52:59 · 18 answers · asked by Natasha0443 1

2007-02-26 02:43:38 · 3 answers · asked by pastorlucy 1

My 15 years old daughter has been very oppositional since childhood. When whe was 2, I put her in time-out, when the time-out was up I told her she could come off the steps. She said "I don't want to" and she continued to sit on the time-out stairs. Thus began the stuggle for control.
Now as a teenager if I ask her to do things, i.e. dishes, pick up clothes, she usually refuses though occationally she will cooperate. We used to be close, loving, and I thought she would eventually grow up and be less selfish and stubborn. Wrong.
She is now refusing to get up and go to school. She is too old and strong to drag her out of bed and dress her. We've taken away TV, ipod, computer use, going out. She refuses to talk to a couselor/therapist. I've tried to be nice, tried to joke with her, tried to reason, yelled, nothing seems to work. She is now laying in bed, draws in her book and is driving me crazy.
I need help and advice, I find it harder every day to love her.

2007-02-26 02:33:56 · 13 answers · asked by CraZePeahen 1

2007-02-26 02:31:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-26 02:29:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-26 02:28:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-26 02:26:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am getting a divorce and will be a single 18 year old with a baby on the way. Once I have the baby will I ever find someone to love me again? Please don't give any rude answers, and the reason I am getting a divorce is because I was being abused. So do you think I will ever find a good guy that will look passed the fact that I was married, and had a baby by another guy?

2007-02-26 02:20:36 · 20 answers · asked by Torey♥ 5

2007-02-26 02:05:04 · 2 answers · asked by barbie 1

i have seen a lot of movies this past week on teen precnancy and hiv and it scares me cause i was sexualy active with my exboyfriend my mom and i have a close relationship but not close enough i want to ask her to take me to the clinic but im scared what do i do?

2007-02-26 02:02:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years but his ex still tries to cause trouble for us . she send photos of when they were together to try to hurt me and loves to spread lies about us both they were over before we got together and she also has a new boyfriend but she seems set on trying to split us up . is there any way of getting rid of her without violence

2007-02-26 01:59:46 · 4 answers · asked by debbie s 1

So my boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 5 months. I know it doesnt seem long BUT things progressed very quickly for both of us. We both jumped in with two feet and head first. We moved in together (he was my neighbour for 2 years before we started dating), talked about marriage and having children together and growing old with my parents living next door.

The 1st 3 months of the relationship were out of this world...honestly nothing else in the world mattered except for him. Completely infatuated. One morning I woke up and found that I "didnt love him anymore" this happened along with some depression and some chemical imbalances in my head so my family doctor put me on some anti-anxiety meds. They have done their part but there is still this thought in the back of my head that always asks me "Do you really love him?"

He is everything I have ever wanted genuine, trustworthy (something I have never had before), passionate, romantic, sexy, intelligent etc etc...6 months before I met him I got out of a horrible relationship with a cop that ended up losing his job for abusing me. We dated for a year and when times were good times were OUT OF THIS WORLD! and I think thats why it was hard for me to get over him cause our entire relationship was based on drama. So that being said going from a dramatic relationship to a healthy one 6 months later is quite tough but all in all I think this is the place for me to stay.

He makes me laugh, I feel comfortable with him and I enjoy spending quite nights alone with him. We are very sexual with one another and I think that him being with another woman could turn me on although I look at that as though I dont care about him and I dont care if he was with another girl behind my back or something which honestly I dont think is the case.....

All of my friends look at me with my current boyfriend and they say I am completely myself with him and I am usually not like that. I usually am very controlling but for a reason I am completely myself with him. I think I was like that before because my ex's were all meant to be mis-trusted....Anyways. what I am asking is why dont I feel as infatuated for him as I did for my ex...I always wanted to marry my ex until he became abusive but I cant say 100% if I want to marry this one. I just want to know 100% and know that this is right?

2007-02-26 01:46:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

his brother has been gone for a year & 3mos. However, for 2 years he has been telling me just him & I need a getaway without my daugter or other's. We both believe we needed this because we've nearly broken up many times because of misscomm. He tends to make me feel left out or as he puts it "i'll nag until I get the answer I want". The problem is he doesnt listen to everything..he interupts and does all the talking and doesnt let me express myself -the first word i say that he doesnt like he will give me several negative comments toward the relationship that make me feel like he doesnt want it -if I ask about it he gets angry and yells and wants to just walk away. Then later...he'll apologize but never retract the ng comments. He just say "I said Im sorry NOW LET IT GO" but doesnt communicate. Anyway, he just told me that his Sister is going with us to Hawaii on the "alone" vac. WHY...he says his sister deserves it and he may have made a mistake not asking me 1st but tuff she's going.

2007-02-26 01:45:01 · 11 answers · asked by Rain 2

When you don't get what you want.

2007-02-26 01:42:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have made a choice to stop sending thought for the day to my friends. I feel like I should sending thought for the day again to those who wont to hear encouraging words. I will gladly send you a thought for the day If you will like.

2007-02-26 01:41:01 · 4 answers · asked by jarbo08 1

My fiance want to have a threesome because he heard it was fun and exciting... Then he says he has the perfect girl for the job.. Then i ask who this girl is.. He says he does remember or name or where he knows her from. I think he's lying i think the only reason he wants a threesome is because he wants to screw someone else.. I think maybe he's not happy with me. Then he says lets have a foursome so i can be happy... I feel like he wants to break up with me and just doesnt know how to. He's not concerned about my happiness.. i dont wan a threesome or a foursome. I told him how i felt.. I even asked him how he would feel watching a another man screw his fiancee.. you know what he said he wouldnt mind... I cant believe he said that... That really hurt me alot... I couldnt bear to watch another woman sleep with my man in front of me... He says that he would still love me afterwards... Mmmm.. I dont know what to do... can i please have some advice..

2007-02-26 01:37:11 · 25 answers · asked by Kittykat_diva69 1

2007-02-26 01:32:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am trying to get out of a relationship of over 6 years . I am 22 and he is 47 . I am also 61/2 months pregnant . I plan on moving back in w/ my father to save money and get my life back on track . I just feel bad like i am doing something wrong , I havent lived at home since i was 16 and dont know how to feel about this

2007-02-26 01:27:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

For the last few weeks have been feeling a little disinterested in fiancé even my mother noticed it yesterday. He is a lovely guy and couldnt do more for me but cant help these feelings that I have. I haI was home at weekend and went out with some old mates and really enjoyed myself didnt miss him once although he text me non stop to know how I was getting on etc etc.

I dont know what I am feeling getting married in little over 4 mths and cant even be bothered to do anymore for the wedding. I never got those flutters or sparks when I met him first just thought he was a nice guy and it went from there that was 5 yrs. Should I have got those flutters?
When he in work I cant help getting excited when he says he is staying late as I dont want to talk to him. have been sleeping in diff beds lately and he hasnt even asked y I just make an excuse everytime or even try not going to bed early staying up til 2 or 3 in the morning just to avoid it. I dont know what to do

2007-02-26 01:13:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months and yes we have had sex....im still a teenager living with my parents....sometimes i feel like they dont accept him...my mom already sat me down and told me that "she didnt want me doing..what i have been doing".....when i asked her what she was talking about she said "you know what im referring to" and if she found actual proof she wouldnt let us be together anymore....i dont know if im lacking my use of my own kind of privacy...that im making it obvious that im sexually active....but i swore to her i wasnt......what could i do to sit her down herself....and convince her that im NOT sexually active....and to be a little more trustworthy and acceptant to my boyfriend, Joel?? Please Help...Desperate!

2007-02-26 01:07:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

You see my wife loves me loads and is very loving towards me not tight in the bedroom either but i found myself having an ego boost via a woman on the internet and had long sexy conversations with her for about 6 months, my wife started getting upset cause she couldn't understand why i was staying up late at night till sometimes 3 in the morning and not going to bed at night with her, she actually cried herself to sleep a couple of nights saying she thought i didn't want her anymore i felt bad but couldn't stop chatting to this woman? Unfortunately about a week before christmas my wife checked my e-mail addresses and found loads of damning proof of what i had done she was devastated and distanced herself from me right up to xmas even went to leave me xmas eve but came back saying she could'nt do it to kids split us all up. I was very grateful because now she feels a bit bitter towards me and i realise how much i miss her loving ways to me what can i do? she also so photos of woman.

2007-02-26 01:05:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

So my boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 5 months. I know it doesnt seem long BUT things progressed very quickly for both of us. We both jumped in with two feet and head first. We moved in together (he was my neighbour for 2 years before we started dating), talked about marriage and having children together and growing old with my parents living next door.

The 1st 3 months of the relationship were out of this world...honestly nothing else in the world mattered except for him. Completely infatuated. One morning I woke up and found that I "didnt love him anymore" this happened along with some depression and some chemical imbalances in my head so my family doctor put me on some anti-anxiety meds. They have done their part but there is still this thought in the back of my head that always asks me "Do you really love him?"

He is everything I have ever wanted genuine, trustworthy (something I have never had before), passionate, romantic, sexy, intelligent etc etc...6 months before I met him I got out of a horrible relationship with a cop that ended up losing his job for abusing me. We dated for a year and when times were good times were OUT OF THIS WORLD! and I think thats why it was hard for me to get over him cause our entire relationship was based on drama. So that being said going from a dramatic relationship to a healthy one 6 months later is quite tough but all in all I think this is the place for me to stay.

All of my friends look at me with my current boyfriend and they say I am completely myself with him and I am usually not like that. I usually am very controlling but for a reason I am completely myself with him. I think I was like that before because my ex's were all meant to be mis-trusted....Anyways. what I am asking is why dont I feel as infatuated for him as I did for my ex...I always wanted to marry my ex until he became abusive but I cant say 100% if I want to marry this one. I just want to know 100% and know that this is right?

2007-02-26 00:55:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a Lesbian with 2 female lovers, the first one is an older woman who I happen to love dearly, we have been together for about a year now and she is wonderful, everything was going great between us then I met this younger girl who is stunning both physically and sexually, she practically threw herself at me but she was impossible to resist.
At first I thought I could handle having them both even though it's something I never done before.
my problem is that I have found out that I cant handle both women at the same time, I do love my first girlfriend but the sex is so remarkable with this other girl that I am confused what to do, this other girl shows me a lot more attention than my main girlfriend, she even call more often and we end up spending more time together because my main girl is always so busy, yet to be having sex almost every day with two women who cant seem to be satisfied is taking it's toll on me, I really do feel the need to walk away from one of them but who?

2007-02-26 00:49:06 · 5 answers · asked by Jamgirl 1