I'm a Lesbian with 2 female lovers, the first one is an older woman who I happen to love dearly, we have been together for about a year now and she is wonderful, everything was going great between us then I met this younger girl who is stunning both physically and sexually, she practically threw herself at me but she was impossible to resist.
At first I thought I could handle having them both even though it's something I never done before.
my problem is that I have found out that I cant handle both women at the same time, I do love my first girlfriend but the sex is so remarkable with this other girl that I am confused what to do, this other girl shows me a lot more attention than my main girlfriend, she even call more often and we end up spending more time together because my main girl is always so busy, yet to be having sex almost every day with two women who cant seem to be satisfied is taking it's toll on me, I really do feel the need to walk away from one of them but who?
2007-02-26 00:49:06 · 5 answers · asked by Jamgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm sure you are the envy of many on here...having two lovers. You should sit down and choose one before you are emotionally drained from trying to please both at the same time. Also too, that 'newness' may be what is happening to your main squeeze. It just that you have a new found playmate and it is taking you away from your main girl and you feel she is toobusy for you because are having too much fun with your new girl. You really need to follow your heart and choose one before both finds out and it all hits the fan and then you end up losing both of them! Place yourself in their shoes....how would you feel if you found out your gf has been cheating on you all this time? Follow your heart and do the right thing.
Good luck =)
2007-02-26 00:56:39 · answer #1 · answered by indyhype 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eventually things won't be as great with the first girl. You are just getting caught up in the newness of the relationship. Ask youself if you want to throw away the love that you share with the first lady for some great sex. By the way what you are doing is cheating and it is wrong so you better cut one of them loose before you end up hurting one of them really bad.
2007-02-26 00:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow this is a really tough situation. Sex is really important in a relationship though. To me if sex isn't good and if the person is constantly busy then its not going to work. Your older girl seems really responsoble, but busy, which can cause it not to work yet your young is adventurous and freaky. But then again this could just be for her fun. Hmm i would say make a list of eachs quatlities and then a list of bad things. it will come out clear who's better.
2007-02-26 01:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by ninacoqueta0817 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love your girlfriend as much as you say you should let the other one go and try to get your sex life back on track with her
2007-02-26 01:10:21 · answer #4 · answered by missy11xx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE SICK
2007-02-26 01:02:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋