Other - Family & Relationships - 27 February 2007

I have a friend at my schol wich is a gramar school. Me and the rest of my friends do quite well but she's always ben the worst. We know shes not as good as us and we dont care cos shes our friend but this year shes been getting much worse.

She does realy bad at most tests nd things that are given a grade. She never likes to tell us her grade and she probably realises that she isnt very good and is probably getting tired of it.

She never does her HW and always drags us up to the IT room to do it at school in our lunch break or just copies us. we are getting slightly fed up with her now but know shes finding it difficult.

My question is because she isnt just failing but she depresses herself by comparing her grades to ours and she usually cries when she gets a bad mark. How can we help her?
There is a help secton at school. Should we ask them or a teacher and tel them shes finding it hard? or should we just leave her?
no horrible comments please.

2007-02-27 23:56:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a WAHM with a baby but I feel bad when I see moms attack each other, and I am very confused about it. My mom was a SAHM and housewife her whole life and believe me she was not alone, a lot of women managed the house and kids and were not put down as lazy. She had a lot to do in the home, cooking cleaning, ironing, and on and on. Why is it wrong, or considered lazy for a woman to be a homemaker or domestic manager today, if the family can live nicely on one income. It does not make sense. Could someone enlighten me why working women and a lot of ppl have this view today?. Are all women supposed to work outside and inside the home?

2007-02-27 23:53:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I went today to sign on at the job centre .
Been self employed for two years and never claimed any thing ever.
I was told today that I am not entitled to anything due the fact I was self employed.They did say however they would allow my stamp per week.(have you ever tried to buy food with that)
Now before all you do gooders come on saying this and that I have never claimed before but paid into the system for 40 years.
I have a partner who has terminal M.S. and I have to look after her everyday as well as try to find work. I am not complaining that I have to look after my partner because thats how things are.
I tried for Carers Allowance and was told no because they thought I would not give her enough attention.

If I dont care for her who else would?

Its crazy it really is .Our only income now is her part pension because as an ex teacher she cannot have her full pension until she is 65 although she will not live that long to see it.

Has this sort of thing happened to you

2007-02-27 23:29:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-27 23:24:10 · 9 answers · asked by scottish football ....nuff said 5

for the past wee while i have been very bored i have no zing in my life right now...i have fiance and we have no zing left we do the same thing everyday....i go to college monday tuesday and wednesday..i love him lots but i get so bored i feel like sleeping all the time coz iam so bored...what can i do to put th zing back into my life...i need some cheering up :)

19 female

thanks xxx

2007-02-27 23:23:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

my partner just come home from work for his dinner, picked a fork from the draw then looked at me and said nic do this really look clean to you, well no it was dirty and nasty so i put it in the sink to be washed again, anyway he left for work again and now i am sitting thinking that my man has become a rite lazy begger, he does nothing round the house then has the nerve to critsize my cleaning efferts.

how can i get my own back????
(i aint really cross with him just abit miffed)

2007-02-27 23:14:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-27 23:12:02 · 9 answers · asked by qwerty 2

what does it mean when a guy thats a stranger to you acts normal and flirts with confidence around other girls. but when i go near him or when he sees me coming he acts all weird and looks down or darts across the room...im not an ugly chick,, i was told im quite attractive actually yet to this one guy im a monster..we dont talk to eachother cause were strangers but we did say hi once or twice,,,but now its like that....i feel awkward around him,,,his friends are looking when i go past and have that i know something u dont know look on their face....i feel like they are making fun of me,,,maybe paranoid but,,,,,i ran into him the other day with his bro,,,and i just looked away,,,he turned his back,,,i dont know him....
what the???i dont get it..

2007-02-27 23:04:19 · 14 answers · asked by missTQ 2

or helped change you for the better,
e.g done things for you or helped you achieve something if so what was it?

2007-02-27 23:02:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

It will be for an anniversary celebration.

2007-02-27 22:53:49 · 3 answers · asked by Mozza 1

I have been with my boyfriend 3 year i have a little girl from a past relationship. my little girl calls my partner daddy and loves him so much and he loves her. my little girls real dad used to see her from time to time when he could b bothered. the last year or so there has been countless times he said he was coming to take her out then would not turn up not even a phone call to say why. he has even told me that his priorities lie with his new girlfriend. she is 3 now and the last time asked to take her out i told her she was going and he didnt turn up again, and all day she was asking when she was going out with him. he has never gave me a penny towards looking after her. So i told him that he could see her no more And now he keeps texting saying that he wants to b a dad to her and that i have no right. i just dont want it messing my little girl up. she doesnt even really know who he is just someone who takes her out once in while. Wot should i do?

2007-02-27 22:25:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 27 years old male and currently suffering from some financial stress and difficulties. Due to such circumstances, I become a bit little dry with my wife i.e. I couldn’t say the nice words which I used to say previously like (I love you, I miss you, etc).

My wife really needed these words, specially these days, which she has tiered with our home affairs cooking, cleaning, and dealing with our 1 year old daughter.

Although that I’ve discussed this issue with her and I told her of my current circumstances, she decided to send me a hard message in order to know that she was upset from the fact that I don’t say nice words anymore and appreciate what she does for the home.

Is it right and fair that my wife refuses to do her duties at home in order to let me know of her feeling discussed above, although she is aware of my circumstances

2007-02-27 22:07:09 · 3 answers · asked by Unique Person 1

..a matter of your self worth in society or defined as something else ?

2007-02-27 22:04:40 · 17 answers · asked by pax veritas 4

2007-02-27 21:19:14 · 3 answers · asked by Piggy56 4

or do you think it's becuase they cant get anything better
ex. they're fat them self

I've noticed most people with fat females tend to be ugly/ fat..

Be honest here; don't give me that "its whats on the inside that counts"

2007-02-27 20:50:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-27 20:46:23 · 13 answers · asked by david e 1

I graduated from high school, and went college as everyone had told me and expected me to do! Two years into college I become sick of it! I mean literally sick, I was always at the doctors office for something. Then I just couldn't get back into being in college. I didn't know what I wanted to do, or if the degree I obtained would help in the real world! So I decided to take a break from school and maybe get a job or try community college. During that time I was seeing a lot about the war in Iraq and decided I wanted to join the Air Force, I did a lot of research and joined, then I ended up in the hospital, because of that I have the opportunity to drop out of the Delayed Enlistment Program or change the date I'm scheduled to leave. I don't know whether I should go or stay and finish school. i really like all the Air Force has to offer, but i'm afraid to leave my family and friends, and don't know if i should get my degree first or if i'll regret not enlisting!!! advice please!

2007-02-27 20:45:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dont really know why but my mum has been really annoying me! I just want her to leave me alone but she doesnt. is this common in a 14 year old girl or not??

2007-02-27 20:24:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i had a friend come tell me today that my twin sister is bulimic. shes been really grumpy lately, and he found out from his best friend who she told not to say anything to.. im not sure what to do, i want to ask her but i think it might be best just to keep an eye on her ... what should i do??

2007-02-27 20:13:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i understand there is a limit to what you would sell to your family like cars and real stuff of value but junk worth $50 to $100 they sell to eachother i come from a background where if you can help a family member out with giving them something you dont miss them why not. does anyone feel the same way?

2007-02-27 20:05:36 · 2 answers · asked by Kenny K 4

Have you ever done something in retaliation to a boyfriend/girlfiend husband/wife when finding out that did something horrible to you?

If you have,, what have you done to them?

2007-02-27 19:45:57 · 3 answers · asked by Jess 2

It is a good feeling and all, but how do I tone them down when I look into his big sparkling blue eyes and see him smile etc? It is totally torture because he just wants to be friends. All I want are little things like holding his hand, kissing him on the cheak, giving him a hug and resting my head on his chest. (I LOVE that for some reason!) Just little things like that.

2007-02-27 19:35:32 · 5 answers · asked by teetalla 1

2007-02-27 19:24:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

She loved me befor they married once my granddaughter was born she told me I wasnt part of the family now my son won't even let me see my grandson who hates this women, I have tryed to fix just an impossible situation. I dont want to live without my grandchildren. I cant talk to them and I miss my son, who I don't know anymore. I usually get him every summer and march break tonight i was told no hes not coming im being punished and all I did was give him the best years of my life and I get no respect he acts like im dead....please help anyone I dont know what to do cant talk to him....

2007-02-27 19:21:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

It can to a love interest, parent, or child...

2007-02-27 19:21:48 · 5 answers · asked by hespy 5

in a sence u prayed,u tried convincing,u tried understanding,u did every possible thing which u cud have done on earth.

2007-02-27 19:20:29 · 5 answers · asked by ibu 1

I walked in on my mom (45) having sex with my step brother (22 year old son of my father and his ex-wife). What should I do? I don't want to break up this family

2007-02-27 19:13:29 · 3 answers · asked by bob i 1

what is the best was to find a childs father in arizona who is dogging child support im in a diffrent state and i cant get help i need for my 14 yr old son

2007-02-27 19:06:46 · 6 answers · asked by tattoochick 1

2007-02-27 18:34:53 · 9 answers · asked by Ellie W 3

2007-02-27 18:17:55 · 3 answers · asked by queenB 2