iam very bored..where has my zing gone in my life....?

Question

for the past wee while i have been very bored i have no zing in my life right now...i have fiance and we have no zing left we do the same thing everyday....i go to college monday tuesday and wednesday..i love him lots but i get so bored i feel like sleeping all the time coz iam so bored...what can i do to put th zing back into my life...i need some cheering up :)

19 female

thanks xxx

Answer 1

Why not get a part time job to fit around college, not only will it relieve your boredom plus make new friends you will also be earning extra cash!

Answer 2

I'm really surprised that you have not been inundated with replies to your question 19yrs old is not really that old I'm 34 in quite a bit of debt and play in a band so the debt aside you would think by being in a band i would have loads of friends and be overly happy in my life OK I'm single and at my age being single is not a good situation but life is just never that easy and it doesn't get any easier but over the years i seem to have grown to accept the life i live and some days i feel on top of the world where as other days i could just run of and join the circus

I think in a roundabout way I'm trying to say that you have a lot of living to do yet join some kind of group try dancing,photography

learn an instrument ask yourself if you are seeing the right person look back on what you have achieved already and write down what you would like to do who you would like to meet use the Internet or try word of mouth but try and do positive things and hopefully this way you will see positive changes in your life and i hope that from this you will have less days where you are board mainly because your too busy to be board

let me know how you get on all the best

Answer 3

aww babe

we all feel like that from time to time, on the old rat run........

Firstly, are you feeling tired all the time? What type of foods do you eat? Sometimes a bad diet can lead to feeling lethargic. Make sure you eat loads of fresh fruit and veggies and cut back on the junk, you will be amazed how much your energy can saw

2) Why don't you both go and do something different on one night a week, either together or separatly. Doesn't have to be costly.......go for a run together, a long walk, bowling?

3) Turn off the TV at night and just sit and chat over a glass of wine .

Sorry if I sound a bit mumsy, I think's it my age

And remember, we all feel like this sometimes, I know I do.....
xx

Answer 4

You sound like my EX-husband, he always thought he was missing out on something, you have to realise that life is about school, work, family life and companionship with your partner. Once you realise how lucky you are to have all these things then you will be more contented. Life aint like the movies dear!

Answer 5

My zing's gone too!