my partner just come home from work for his dinner, picked a fork from the draw then looked at me and said nic do this really look clean to you, well no it was dirty and nasty so i put it in the sink to be washed again, anyway he left for work again and now i am sitting thinking that my man has become a rite lazy begger, he does nothing round the house then has the nerve to critsize my cleaning efferts.
how can i get my own back????
(i aint really cross with him just abit miffed)
2007-02-27 23:14:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
lol my spelling is just crazy time to go back to school i think
2007-02-27 23:15:10 · update #1
Alik411 got to be the best so far roll on kids bedtime time for nookie
2007-02-27 23:22:32 · update #2
oh and no i dont work, my partner did not like the kids being with a childminder so i left to be a full time mum ok with you?
if not go take a long jump
2007-02-27 23:24:56 · update #3
far from lazy i clean my house from top to bottom every day, my house is very clean if you must know but forgive me for my sins i put a dirty fork bag in the draw, well i obviously didnt see how dirty it was, some people are just plain arrogant this question is not to be taken to serious you plum
2007-02-28 00:08:49 · update #4
So he works and all you have to do is cook and clean, and you cant even get the cleaning part right, yuk what was a dirty fork doing in the drawer. I think you are the problem, there r alot of us out there who work, cook and clean and get it all right, u are just lazy.
2007-02-27 23:26:15 · answer #1 · answered by lonelyheart 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I understand your feelings, but I have a job and I'm pregnant now. Before I split from my husband, I did everything around the house and he would complain that nothing was getting done. So I decided to just stop doing it. He still didn't clean, and I had a bigger mess to clean up.
I would suggest that if your children are older then you put them back into a babysitter and go out and get yourself a job, so that way when he says something about nothing getting cleaned you can be like oh, I'm sorry honey I was tired from work.
Plus, until he does something around the house I wouldn't give him any. He'll probably eventually learn that way.
2007-02-27 23:39:14 · answer #2 · answered by Torey♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find TWO pairs of his smelliest socks and hide them in his pillowcase at night - let him work out where the smell is coming from - then tell him to take a bath coz he stinks - leave them there for two or three days - he'll get the message
2007-02-27 23:21:28 · answer #3 · answered by jamand 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
But he goes to work and you stay home and you call him lazy , you cant expect him to do everything he has a point you dident clean propely do it right next time . Get your own back why dont you grow up you selfish ***** .
2007-02-28 00:26:32 · answer #4 · answered by badass-mofu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y dunt u go 4 a ladies nite out and purposely leave the house in a mess. then leave a note 2 say that it is his turn 2 clean up
2007-02-27 23:24:42 · answer #5 · answered by dramaqueen 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your a Dirty ***** and he's a lazy sod for not washing the fork instead of whingeing
2007-02-27 23:21:22 · answer #6 · answered by moi 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're married, it's more difficult. But, I'd tell him go look for a skivvy, and walk out.
2007-02-27 23:20:50 · answer #7 · answered by DEREK L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get rid of all you knife's forks etc buy paper plates and cutlery see if that's better for him
all the best
2007-02-28 00:07:28 · answer #8 · answered by Tonny C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him to do it himself, wonder how long it'll be before he realises that the cleaning fairy doesn't exist.
2007-02-27 23:22:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
next time you have sex tell him, do you think that was a good effort no, now get back here and try harder next time or i might have to get somebody else to sort this out
2007-02-27 23:18:18 · answer #10 · answered by Alik411 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋