Is it right to give up ur love, when u have actualy tried so hard in every aspect of your life?

Question

in a sence u prayed,u tried convincing,u tried understanding,u did every possible thing which u cud have done on earth.

Answer 1

hi ibu, first of all its not abt "right" or "wrong". we come into situations where we have no way, we r confused n dono wut to do.it sucks really bad n u feel stuck in life. i have been in ur position once n i really really know n feel wut u mean n wut u r facing. wut i have learnt is tat wen the person ur doing so much for, doesnt care abt wut u r doing for him/her, its no use n pointless for us to still trying hard. we keep on trying but the person doesnt even consider tat n we feel so extremly hurt n rejected, we jus want tat person to appreciate jus once n accept u. but tat dint happen, in my case n urs as well...wz lot of patience ibu, just stop expecting anything in return. tat person doesnt deserve ur love n care.i know tis mite b difficult for u to read.u want to give all ur love to her but she jus doesnt notice it, or even if she does notice, she doesnt respond.i know it very well.n it sucks big time.
wut i wud advice u ibu, is to jus stop evrything ur doing.keep patience n stop expecting. u dont have to lose ur self esteem.if tat person understood u or cared for u, she wudnt bring u to tis state, (to make u beg, pray n all tat u did)..its hard, but sometimes its best to give up n move in life. i know its dfficult, it pains in ur heart.but tats the only choice left cuz i feel its useless to waste our time, energy n love on someone who doesnt care n u know tat urself too. dont lose ur self esteem for some1 who doesnt bother.i dont mean to b mean/selfish here. but u can think for urself wut im saying. n i hope ur not losing interest in other areas of ur life--ur health,body,work, family, studies...wutever u r doing.
il b harsh n tell u to just stop it n give up evrything ur doing.i know u love her..but i know its not working out..get ur life straight, get ur priorities straight, make urself stronger inside n outside. dont cry. get ur confidence back which u have (i know) lost 'running' after tat person.dont make ur life hell, i know ud think of her, but keep tat as a bad experince u learnt something from. we need to show the heartbreakerz tat we have the gut to move on. dont u want ur stronger self back...n stop going thru wut u r going thru?? do u think wut u r doing in worth?? i tried for more than 3 yrs n finally i gave up...n im still recovering. u too can do tat if i can do tat.i know u r stronger inside, ur emotion is killing u--tats it.
if u need more motivation--c me. il broom tat crap out of u! ;-)

best of luck n i really feel for ur problems.

Answer 2

I think then you need to give up...Coz u did ur best..give some time .. then let them know... U cant miss all the joy because of the love. when ur love is not understanding..

Answer 3

You cant make someone love you.
All you can do is be a person who can be loved.
And forget her if she doesnt realize your worth.she is not made for you.bz you dont require to struggle hard to get your love.It will come to you walking when someone is in your destiny!Relax.take care.There are many fihes in the lake.

Answer 4

Your love will not go away. There's only one other thing I'm thinking here:

If you love someone, set them free
If they don't come back to you,
They weren't yours in the first place.

Answer 5

if i loved him i would work through everythin n anything.