Other - Family & Relationships - 27 February 2007

He's a great guy - mid 30's successful, family man - but hopeless at maintaining friendships and nervous about establishing new ones. Typically he thinks people won't be interested in him. So he judges old friends from that perspective - doesn't keep in contact - and prevents new friendships by assuming the same. The thing is he IS awkward in some social situations. He's very intelligent, not prone to social pretences, but so desperate for friends thta it leaves him really quite depressed at times. Seems he's always been like this. He just doesn't know how to do the friends thing. I'm quite comfortable socially. But have toned down myself a little so he can't make comparisons or feel threatened....
Can anyone help?

2007-02-27 11:16:39 · 1 answers · asked by leelee37 2

See I am an apt mgr for a 15 unit complex. I thought I had gotten reid of the problem, but low and behold I did not. This person is a cooker and a user. Made the mistake and gave to my husband (whole other topice there) and had the nerve to think he was ganna back her up. In the beginning she did not know I found out.
Until I confronted her in front of my man, ofcourse my man is not gonna lie for her. So, she had this stupid look on her face as if she had been betrayed. So, what do you think?

2007-02-27 11:05:22 · 11 answers · asked by Raquel C 1

she loves bugs and science kinda stuff

2007-02-27 11:02:26 · 2 answers · asked by wilo_chick 4

Give me your opinion on a 17 year old girl wanting to have a baby with her boyfriend who just turned 17.

PS......She always has problems with her boyfriend because he treats her bad from time to time, but she says she doesn't care because she loves him.

2007-02-27 11:00:27 · 24 answers · asked by huerito323 2

if they are 2 people you love in your life and if they are drawing who would you save! and why?

2007-02-27 10:56:52 · 5 answers · asked by daniella 2

im am an emotional reck!!I recently left a 7 yr abusive relationship.For some strange reason i regret leaving him and i fel like i still love him and im all going crazy inside.I want to get over this feeling and move on cuz i know he aint no good for me.Its just im so brainwashed over this guy that i keep telling myself that he loves me and he will change.Does anyine know a good website i can go to that deals with this kind of stuff

2007-02-27 10:56:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do guys leave their girlfriend after they have sex? shouldn't that guy shouldn't want to leave his girlfriend since he can have sex with her at least more than 1 time and plus the girlfriend will be depressed and heartbroken if he did leave her. I am 30 years old and my girlfriend is 29 years old. She loves me so much. I still have feelings for her but I know it isn't love nor lust. I only like her. We been together for at least 6. We started making love since like 2 years ago, and I never left her. I knew if I left her right after, I wouldn't have someone to make love with and she would be sad and will be suing me if she had a baby. Thank god she didn't have a baby. I hope I don't fall in love with her. I told her "I love you" lots of times and didn't mean it and I know I didn't mean it.

2007-02-27 10:54:56 · 13 answers · asked by Mark 1

2007-02-27 10:44:46 · 3 answers · asked by dorky child 1

he has a girlfriend now

2007-02-27 10:39:20 · 14 answers · asked by brooke 1

well i really like this guy named mikey and i don't no if he likes me.
wat do girls do to impress u and can u tell me wat i should do!
OOO PLZZZZZZZ!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-27 10:30:59 · 3 answers · asked by jenn jenn 2

What things do you want said about you at your funeral?
I'm not trying to be morbid. Tell me what's most important to be remembered about you.

2007-02-27 10:30:27 · 7 answers · asked by doublewidemama 6

and does it get better in college??

2007-02-27 10:25:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

preferably free and popular


thanks in advance

2007-02-27 10:22:01 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

this is not a ingagement ring

2007-02-27 09:58:23 · 6 answers · asked by gamer_king_2007 1

to follow on from my other question, if your loved one had a terminal illness and was facing a painful prolonged death and wanted help to kill themselves, Would you help them ?

Would you care about the after effects regarding the law and what might happen to you or would you put their wants first.

Do you think we should allow euthanasia like some other countries do . Shoul people be able to choose their own death and have some dignity in dying

2007-02-27 09:56:59 · 26 answers · asked by bluegirl 3

or have said to someone they have a heart of gold?

2007-02-27 09:50:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it okay to date my cousin?

2007-02-27 09:48:39 · 2 answers · asked by Patrik S 2

What is the way forward ?

2007-02-27 09:45:23 · 19 answers · asked by Tamara 2

My fiance is in school for massage therapy.

I find myself jealous that she is seeing all these naked men. Many of which (she told me) get erections during the massages. A few times the towels have slipped off the side of the table (because of improper draping technique, she is still very new) and exposed the erection.

She accidently brushed against a man's weiner once while doing his inner thigh.

I am jealous but she says I am over reacting and all this is normal and other students have had simular experiences.

Am I over reacting?
Therapists does this type of stuff normally happen when your learning?

2007-02-27 09:44:24 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sergio Rabatín, Andrés Kaswalder, Sandra Sautú,

2007-02-27 09:43:48 · 2 answers · asked by Sandra D 1

As I sit and think back most of the complaints women have about men goes back to the way they were raised. Men don’t help around the house. Men are liars. Are women that victim of their own designs? How many men witnessed mommy lying to daddy while growing up? Was it not women as caretakers that didn’t teach their sons how to cook and clean? Do you think in general women are the victims of their own design?

2007-02-27 09:41:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, so I am in love with this girl, she tells me she loves me and wants a life with me, but she wont say that she is IN love with me, just loves me. Says I might be her soul mate, but kinda refuses to say she is in love with me, whats up with that? So, should I stay, or let her go and do whatever on her own and be done with the whole thing!?

2007-02-27 09:39:11 · 14 answers · asked by Hank 1

There are children, tens years together so far, she admits to at least eight different people, one being is cousin, the other's his "friends". He says it isn't the kids.

2007-02-27 09:36:55 · 7 answers · asked by fisherwoman 6

I am putting together a book of "coupons" for my boyfriend for his birthday. One happens to be for him to take me to buy him the new James Bond Casino Royale movie, a back rub, dinner etc. Do any of you guys have any ideas? Besides sex lol

2007-02-27 09:31:03 · 5 answers · asked by Chick-a-Dee 5

2007-02-27 09:29:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

The reason why I think that the baby is not mine its because its a black baby. I'm a hispanic male and my girlfriend is white. She tells me that some of her familly and ancestors were African-americans....but I think that just some excuse...what should i do?

2007-02-27 09:27:39 · 9 answers · asked by Jose C 1

2007-02-27 09:23:13 · 8 answers · asked by vanjac6 1

Im in Middle School and I think I might be Gay what should I do to be sure

2007-02-27 09:16:03 · 14 answers · asked by jimmy t 1

My boyfriend has had an abusivechildhood,bad parents,he also has tried/experimented with drugs/alchol.Contrary to what you might think,he's a good guy,he's sweet,friendly,smart,really really likeable I care so much for him.He just doesnt have a good family life.I dont know what to do because I completely get his sit.,I have spent so much time thinking and crying about it,I UNDERSTAND,but I will never ever KNOW what its like.For me, I have always had pretty decent parents and a nice homelife.My schoolife has lacked,he only likes his schoolife,hehas tons of friends/popular.I want to be there for him for everything he goes through,but sometimes he is so difficult for me to get.He gets angry ALOT and idk.I can only love him but I worr my lack of notknowing what it is like might notprovide enough care/love for him.Also,I worry he might one day turn all his sadness to drugs/alchol-addict.I do love him..somuch. Even if we arent together later on, I want him to be happy,thats all.What do I do?

2007-02-27 09:09:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend is really cute, but i have problems with him. What should I do? HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-27 09:08:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous