Why do guys leave their girlfriend after they have sex? shouldn't that guy shouldn't want to leave his girlfriend since he can have sex with her at least more than 1 time and plus the girlfriend will be depressed and heartbroken if he did leave her. I am 30 years old and my girlfriend is 29 years old. She loves me so much. I still have feelings for her but I know it isn't love nor lust. I only like her. We been together for at least 6. We started making love since like 2 years ago, and I never left her. I knew if I left her right after, I wouldn't have someone to make love with and she would be sad and will be suing me if she had a baby. Thank god she didn't have a baby. I hope I don't fall in love with her. I told her "I love you" lots of times and didn't mean it and I know I didn't mean it.
2007-02-27 10:54:56 · 13 answers · asked by Mark 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You know what? I pity your woman....though I know,deep inside you,YOU really loved her...You just don't admit it to yourself because you know she loved you so much.You can never feel her importance to you until she gives up on you and will say "I don't like you anymore or I don't love you anymore bec.I have someone special now in my Life">>> what do u think?? are going to wait for that time that she tells you that??? and lost her??If you can accept it right now then I SHOULD SAY,YOU DON'T REALLY LOVED HER!!! and your "I love You" is not really TRUE...why fool yourself and fool your girl???just be honest with her and be honest with yourself...think If she DOES THAT TO YOU ALSO...and time comes you will know it...how would you feel??
Your long term relationship now is not a joke...and if you really don't like her..you will not stick to her that too long...it is just you can't admit it to yourself that you loved her also because she's always there with you...so I want you to think of a situation "THAT WHAT IF I LOST HER???" CAN YOU ACCEPT IT?? If YES...it MEANS YOU DON'T REALLY LOVED HER....ok...so don't fool yourself...but if you're ready to lost her then you must not really loved her and just fooling yourselves...
GoodLuck and my further advise to you is to PRAY HARD FOR GOD's GUIDANCE AND ENLIGHTENMENT IF YOU ARE MEANT FOR EACH OTHER...ok?
2007-02-27 11:21:18 · answer #1 · answered by xxxx66 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too munch information there buddy. Are you asking a question or giving us a confesion?
The type of male tat leaves as soon s they get it are not looking for a rlationship. It is just a game for them. Its like hunting. When you catch a deer and you prepare the meal the game is over. Is the trill of the chace. The conquest. Then you move on. Nobody said it was right but it happens quite often. These type of people are good at the game so they don't mind leaving for another crusade. This is because is not about the sex but about the conquest. Sex, is just the culmination of the adventure.
2007-02-27 19:00:53 · answer #2 · answered by mr_gees100_peas 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your pretty naive for a 30 year old first of all. You should'nt leave a girl because you wont have someone to make love to. You should not have said , "I love you." either. Let me guess.....you said that to get laid everynight. Your even worst than i guy that leaves a girl after having sex YOUR ALOT WORST. Imagine this: You keep saying babe I Love you for about 6 (whatever) and then you realize oh im not interested anymore after dating for that long! thats gonna hurt her more than if you just hit it and left jerk. I have not more to write besides this stupid crap your putting on yahoo answers is pathetic lol.
2007-02-27 19:04:47 · answer #3 · answered by Sophia L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are worse than the guys who f*** you then leave. I'd much rather have a guy walk out after one night, than spend years of my life wasted on a guy who says he loves me and doesn't. Don't you think that in the end, there will be more heartbreak for your gf than if you had left right away??
I think you are selfish & deceitful and you don't deserve for anyone to make love to you.
2007-02-27 19:02:14 · answer #4 · answered by loza500 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U NEED TO SORT OUT UR FEELINGS 2WARDS UR 'GIRLFRIEND'.it appears u don't love her so break it off if u don't &stop stringing her along. by the time u'decide' it hurt her more,harder 4 u let go. u obviously like her as freind & not as lover.sort it out B4 it's 2 late
2007-02-27 19:02:35 · answer #5 · answered by Brittfren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause the most important thing about all of it for guys is the task of trying to hit it,MOST girls make it hard for us to get sex, so after we get laid we feel no more need from girls,unless the sex in incredible then we stick around.
2007-02-27 18:58:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Immature behavior
2007-02-27 18:58:34 · answer #7 · answered by crussel4 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would not leave my lady after we have had sex ---- she means too much to me to even think of that --- and i sincerely hope that we have a child together it would be so exciting
2007-02-27 19:21:35 · answer #8 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because there guys and all they can think about is sex. thats all they want . i dont think they are thinking about if they hurt some girls feelings. they just want to get in their pants
2007-02-27 18:57:27 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 30 years old, but you write like you're half that age. In addition, you yammer on like a woman. Its scary that you're having sex. Please stop.
2007-02-27 18:59:51 · answer #10 · answered by nadsblowhard 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋