im am an emotional reck!!I recently left a 7 yr abusive relationship.For some strange reason i regret leaving him and i fel like i still love him and im all going crazy inside.I want to get over this feeling and move on cuz i know he aint no good for me.Its just im so brainwashed over this guy that i keep telling myself that he loves me and he will change.Does anyine know a good website i can go to that deals with this kind of stuff
2007-02-27 10:56:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When the day starts, find an abuse center or free counselling agency in your community.
You are VERY strong to have finally left this situation. Now you must stay strong in order to heal, get well & have a life.
You are suffering from the loss of the relationship. Just like the loss of any relationship. It doesn't make a difference whether it was abusive or not. The feelings you're having are normal. They just don't feel GOOD.
It's going to take time, grieving time, like a death; which is what this is, the death of a relationship. But you must have help in not relapsing & going back to the hurtful person. That is why I suggest you find someone that you can connect with; someone tangible.
Here is an 800 number to call
http://www.ndvh.org/
Best of luck to you, Dear.
2007-02-27 11:06:43 · answer #1 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing by leaving. No one has the right to abuse another person but we have the right to choose the stay in or leave an abusive relationship but you chose right. Word of advise, stay away from websites. Ask the police or a law firm to suggest a good place in your vicinity for abused persons and whatever you do do not blame your self or go back to that relationship.
2007-02-27 11:05:56 · answer #2 · answered by zogizee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear about your abusive relationship. I'm sure you have a lot of bad memories of this and unless you want to rekindle these memories you need to get into the right mindset and forget this loser. I dont know of any websites but I am sure ther are some outhere. I hope there are no children involved. If so you need to think about them as well. Be safe.
2007-02-27 11:01:21 · answer #3 · answered by bubba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi tiffany,
forget the past and start a new life. dont dig out deadbodies from the grave. think possitive. ur still young and the whole life is lying ahead u. yahoo is the best website. if u have any qurries visit babhi_ne_puchi_lo group. enjoy the life!
2007-02-27 11:14:13 · answer #4 · answered by amarnath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going to www.about.com , go to people and relationships. They have a wonderful support group on this site. Be honest with them about your feelings and they will lend the support you need. Good luck
2007-02-27 11:09:13 · answer #5 · answered by Donna P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...you need to see someone who is a professional and deals with this all the time....what you are feeling is quite common and the reason that so many women go back to their abusers and end up dead....seek professional help so that does not happen to you....good luck and stay safe
2007-02-27 10:59:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just look at the gorgeous guys posters on this site and
forget about him
U deserve better>
http://www.allposters.com
good site...http://www.zaadz.com
2007-02-27 10:59:56 · answer #7 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
www.smartgirl.org
its a site with a lot of advice and stuff...it also gives you other websites to go to...its not for your specific problem, but you can find sites there.
2007-02-27 11:01:12 · answer #8 · answered by GiGi LaRue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dr. Phil
Oprah.
webmd------------look up relationship problems. There's an A-Z for whatever you want to read about!
2007-02-27 11:03:20 · answer #9 · answered by julesrules 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe do a google search or ring a refuge --- they will have lots of information to help you --- hugs and best wishes --- congratulations on leaving him
2007-02-27 11:00:11 · answer #10 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋