Im in Middle School and I think I might be Gay what should I do to be sure
2007-02-27 09:16:03 · 14 answers · asked by jimmy t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Talk to someone. Go to a GLBT, PFLAG, or PRISM meeting. Talking to others that have been through it will help you a lot!!
2007-02-27 13:53:51 · answer #1 · answered by Cheryl C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is easier to recognize now that there is so much support out there, even though there are a lot of prejudice people who will give you grief. Go onto the Internet and type into the search 'I think I might be gay'.
There are two great sites that I researched and they are the 1st two on the list. It will take awhile to get around the site because there is a great deal of information.
At your age many feelings start to happen and are very confusing. Trust who you are. Visit these sites. You can email your thoughts and concerns. Read the questions and answers already there. They're wonderful. You're not alone.
2007-02-27 17:40:40 · answer #2 · answered by choose happiness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are sexually attracted to other guys then yes you are gay. But it doesnt really matter if your gay or straight. As long as you love someone and that person makes you happy completely, meaning physically (sex) and emotionally then go for it. A lot of gay guys are very open minded and dont get grossed out by the thought of having sex with a woman but just because you can handle it and not be grossed out by it doesnt mean you should mislead a woman if your really fantasizing about men. You should never mislead a woman to satisfy the beliefs of your family, and friends. Do what makes you happy. Just dont hurt anybody in the process.
2007-02-27 17:33:48 · answer #3 · answered by Martin L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't really be sure. You might be very comfortable around men in a way that you might not find as 'friends', but that doesn't necessarily mean you're gay. You might not see any interest in any girls at your school, or neighboring schools, but don't push yourself to being gay, if you're really not sure. It will just happen over time, and you'll soon realize your preference :)
2007-02-27 17:19:41 · answer #4 · answered by JBABYY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait a while longer and find out don't just say that you are gay already. have you had a girlfriend? have you had a boyfriend? test the waters before you come out of the closet
2007-02-27 17:21:21 · answer #5 · answered by misseshodges 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time. Why do you need to find RIGHT NOW anyway? You have the rest of your life to find out who you really are. Just be yourself and let your heart lead you whether you like a girl or a guy. Enjoy life!
2007-02-27 17:20:56 · answer #6 · answered by Princess of Egypt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not sure, chances are you are gay. Talk to a school counselor if you need to talk to someone. Dont be afraid to talk about it either! Hope that hleps
2007-02-27 17:19:20 · answer #7 · answered by deanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't force it. Let the feelings develop naturally on there own. When you meet someone special, whether it's a girl or a guy you'll know.
2007-02-27 17:22:23 · answer #8 · answered by pawt72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOTHING. You're in middle school and what does it matter? I mean, don't try to categorize yourself. I say if you like someone (whatever gender, race, whathaveyou) you don't need to analyze it to see if it makes you something in particular.
Don't worry about it so much, I would say.
2007-02-27 17:19:47 · answer #9 · answered by ladygirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are gay u would like a boy or haved kissed a boy
2007-02-27 17:19:25 · answer #10 · answered by fuzzpup96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋