Other - Family & Relationships - 22 February 2007

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2007-02-22 23:52:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need real help - please tell me someone has had problems like this with sex in their marriage.?
My wife and I have been married for 2.5 years and we still havent had sex yet. We tried on our wedding night but in our nievity didn't know what to do, we were nervous etc. We lost confidence after that, and tried less and less. We used to have oral sex etc. but even that dosne't happen anymore.

We had gone out for many years before, but decided to wait. I wish we handn't now as non-sex is part of our life. It almost feels like we are more friends then husband and wife. We have had a pretty bad married life, lots of arguments, tears etc. We have just started seeing a therapist to help wit the arguments, let alone the sex.

I just don't know what to do. In my heart I think the sex issue is the root cause of everything. We are both very low in confidence, and the fact that we haven't had sex seeks to make us feel worse about ourselves even more.

Has ANYONE been in the same situat

2007-02-22 23:51:56 · 2 answers · asked by Happy S 1

Who is tying you up or who is getting tied up? What's the plan for them next?

2007-02-22 23:48:23 · 4 answers · asked by tiemetight814 2

Do I have to make a choice between the meaning of life and happiness? How can I stay happy perpetually and not rely on external materialisms ex a good man, great home, luxury bags etc etc to fill in the emptiness that prevails soon after?! How did you find that inner peace?

2007-02-22 23:45:23 · 2 answers · asked by Curious George 2

If yes, would it make a difference if the person that tells you is a stranger? What if the stranger that tells you, is the husband of the woman your husband was cheating with? Out of the four people involved, you are the only one that doesn't know, and two of the other three sure plan to keep quiet.

2007-02-22 23:14:57 · 18 answers · asked by b.radeckels 1

2007-02-22 23:05:32 · 16 answers · asked by jana s 1

dose it turn a man on if they spend time turning the woman on is that more of a turn on it they know its driving the woman crazy

2007-02-22 23:05:31 · 16 answers · asked by barbie 1

Just wondering do many guys like heavy girls? Im in a happy relationship and i am quite a large girl, and i consider myself very lucky to have found a man that i am totally in love with and comfortable with and who thinks i am beautiful and feels the same about me.. but i do just wonder....

2007-02-22 23:01:09 · 12 answers · asked by purplegal 3

true love-only Jesus would die innocent for our guilt-when we didnt even care "The wages of sin is separation from God, but the gift of God is everlasting life through Jesus the Messiah our Lord (master/leader)." Romans 6:23

once i lived a life of lust and lies-but I decieved myself to think i was better than the next person-even than alot of religious people-for I was a good Jew in my own eyes and those of the community. My Rabbi was told about me-He is the best Jew in the community, only difference is David believes in Jesus.

"In marriage the bed is undefiled, but the others will be judged." Hebrews 13

also in that chapter after one has repented from sin and been born again-as Jesus asks us to do=John chapter 3-this Hebrews 13 Jesus states "I will never leave thee nor forsake thee." verse 5 -now that is the true love=

have you found true love yet? I prayed"Jesus I am sorry for my sins, come into my heart and help me, be my friend, amen" He promised=Revelation 3:19&20!!

2007-02-22 22:56:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-22 22:08:58 · 8 answers · asked by Silkie1 4

I'm 18. I've loved her since I was 16. She is now 30. I really want to tell her. Will she reject me because of the age gap? Do you think other people will think its wrong and wierd or some crap like that? When I think about her, the age difference dose'nt really cross my mind. What do you think, mabe you can help?

2007-02-22 22:06:24 · 4 answers · asked by stardust23716 3

my bf is acting really werid with me 1 min hes all over me the next he is so horrible i want to leve him he keeps calling me names and telling me to **** off and he is demanding money off me then the next he says he dosnt want it and i was begin a *****. when am not i just could be sitting there watchin something on tv and he will turn it over and say he dosnt want o watch it but he is on the computer and i ask to turn back on and he try to start an argument by calling me names and saying he hates me. i also live with him and been to gether for nearly 3 year. i do love him and dont want to leve him what can i do so i dont feel like **** all the time and upset.

2007-02-22 22:01:57 · 11 answers · asked by shell 5

2007-02-22 21:45:59 · 11 answers · asked by SweetLuvlyMe 1

i sent my ex an email and told him 'i miss you' and sent a pic of him and i and he tryed calling me at work but i wasnt there coz im on holidays and then he ended emailing me and saying 'hi how you goinnn....Long time" what does this mean???

2007-02-22 21:40:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

theres this guy i met on new years. the thing is is this guys a bit of a man whore but not really he just gets with girls a lot supposedly. but during new years i got really drunk and he was tryin to take care of me by liek feeding me this stuff that wud boost up my enrgy but it wasnt drugs or ne thing lol..later on we started talking a few days after new years and then i found out he likes me from another friend but im not sure if he just wants to get with me and then toss me off to to the side or he actually wants to be with me. im 18 btw. my friend told me that he actually does wanna have sumfin with me but i dnt know if hes just saying that. please help! do u think he likes me or no.

2007-02-22 21:29:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm very discreet you can trust me..........................................

2007-02-22 21:25:16 · 5 answers · asked by Dolly 5

What are your views about these abuses? If you have experience abuse, please tell me what it feels like, how did you deal it and perhaps say anything you want other people to know. I will use your testimonies to save other people and give hope to those who are recovering from abuse. I will have a report in campus about these abuses… I can help these people in some ways and you will be a part of it, but it would be a better help if you can share your testimonies. Thank you!

2007-02-22 21:03:05 · 8 answers · asked by Its me! 2

2007-02-22 20:49:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I didn't go looking to read her emails or snoop . She's staying with us and she hadn't logged out of her email and when I came to check my email, hers was on the screen. I never do stuff like this and I'm very trustworthy. I know I was VERY wrong to do this. I was actually trying to find out some innocent info. about her upcoming birthday. Instead, I read A LOT of bad stuff she had written behind my back to her friends. She had revealed some very personal stuff about me, had called me a bad mother and outright lied about me. I always thought we had a good relationship; she always tells me she loves me like a daughter, etc. I have confided personal things o her b/c I trusted her so much. Now I think she's just a hypocrit and I can never trust her. I know that I invaded her privacy. How can I confront her about this w/o telling her how I found out? And does she have more of a right to be angry at me for reading her email or me at her for all the malicious stuff he had written about me?

2007-02-22 20:42:08 · 15 answers · asked by girlie 4

My wife would go nuts if I do

2007-02-22 20:19:37 · 8 answers · asked by Michael E 1

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2007-02-22 20:07:38 · 6 answers · asked by Jessica B 4

PLEASE! is there anyone out there that can help me find those "REAL GOOD HONEST TO GOD LOVING, CARING, RESPECTFUL, DECENT, KIND HEARTED HUMAN BEINGS"! You know the one's that....,don't LIE, CHEAT, HURT, STEAL, TRICK, FOOL and DESTROY?
Are there any left?
If so?
Where are they? And how can I find them?
If anyone knows, PLEASE tell me!
I would be so ever grateful! Thank you, Luv, Iris

2007-02-22 20:06:50 · 2 answers · asked by ghostguff3 2

my brother is not ready for that , he want to continue that relation, he forcing me, well i cant say no b'coz he is main man in house, and he is to short temperd

2007-02-22 19:58:49 · 15 answers · asked by aks na 1

2007-02-22 19:34:46 · 7 answers · asked by harley 2

Your longest relationship meaning preferably longer than one month

2007-02-22 19:34:45 · 12 answers · asked by Fia 4

Okay, we are 17 years old and financialy stable. I am woundering if when i cumz in her should i be very deep insode or just barely in or half wa or what? I have been told anywere but i ned a doctors opinion, So please real anwers everyone. i really also am worried about she could die, she turns 18 june 12 and so shes not going to grow anymore. she weighs105, her height is 5'5....coupld this kill her? Please true answrs only because we are doing this tonight..so please true answers only...Ok this is his fiance now. We have actually tried before but it was the day before my period and I didn't get pregnant. Is that because I was so close to my period? Also I've had Pap Smears and they all came back that everything was fine with me. One more thng thoough and I'm not trying to be nasty but how come everytime's we do try and he cumz in me it always come right back out.ill continue in an additional information....

2007-02-22 19:22:28 · 8 answers · asked by pimpdaddy37686 1

her Name is Donna Beck she is about 27-28 or so now... she used to live in billings Montana From Florida she has a son Named Allen and her Mom is also Named Dawna I haven't seen her for about 5 years now.. if any one may Know of her where abouts or any information on her in the present PLEASE PLEASE contact me.... I LOVED her then and I still do now.....

2007-02-22 19:22:15 · 6 answers · asked by atwen7331 1

Just a general question really do people out there think it is just one persons fault with regards getting on with people. For example where i work the loud people seem to know everyone and im still struggling to get to know people in my department and ive been there 2 years.

I would just like to know as i dont know if it is entirely me being shy and giving bad vibes or them not knowing how to approach me. As i dont know what to do in my situation whether to try and talk to people more and see if the response changes or just accept im not the perfect mould.

2007-02-22 19:14:30 · 5 answers · asked by ludvigjs 1

Give Service first, then the money will come to you, how can I use this formula in my Marriage Bureau Buss.

2007-02-22 19:07:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Staring sex!I usually start fast by kssing her neck and starting it by that.I need idea's to go slower.like starting slower.can anyone give me good ideas?

2007-02-22 19:05:59 · 9 answers · asked by inlove4406 1