theres this guy i met on new years. the thing is is this guys a bit of a man whore but not really he just gets with girls a lot supposedly. but during new years i got really drunk and he was tryin to take care of me by liek feeding me this stuff that wud boost up my enrgy but it wasnt drugs or ne thing lol..later on we started talking a few days after new years and then i found out he likes me from another friend but im not sure if he just wants to get with me and then toss me off to to the side or he actually wants to be with me. im 18 btw. my friend told me that he actually does wanna have sumfin with me but i dnt know if hes just saying that. please help! do u think he likes me or no.
2007-02-22 21:29:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he wasnt trying to get with me during new years it was more liek me all oveer him and trying to gwt with him but he knew. and then he ended up gettin with my friend which he regreted. but now hes saying he actually wants to have sumfins erious with me and he always tries to meet wwith me and see me again always asking me and even trying to find a way for me to go somewhere with me. and he even asked his friend if i cud bring sum1 along cuz he wanted to go on a double date with me but i said only if i bring sum1 else along. he said his friend wudnt b happy 4 him asking but he did it ne way.and he said he wants to get to knwo me better but is that just an excuse?
2007-02-22 21:51:31 · update #1
I think we need more information to answer your question. You didn't say much at all about how he treats you, things he's said to you, things he's done for you. All he did is try to take care of you when you were drunk. That doesn't say much, if fact it may say he knew you were wasted so he he tried to hang around so he could get some. Please give us more info and we'll answer your question.
You added a little more to your question, thanks for the extra info. It's always flattering when a man pays attention to you, it makes you feel good inside, loved, cared for. I'm sure that you want me to say go for it, but you yourself describes him as a man-whore! Is that the kind of guy you want as a boyfriend? You know I can't believe I'm saying this but if you want to have some fun with no strings attached/ no regrets then go for it. It you want a faithful, loving boyfriend like you deserve than keep looking.
2007-02-22 21:46:01 · answer #1 · answered by juniper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he just wants to get in your pants. If not and he is willing to be faithful to you only he will get bored after a while and go back to his ways. Either way its a risk so the real question is Do you wanna risk being hurt or do you wanna be available to meet guys with a better track record?
2007-02-22 21:49:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you handle just being another notch?
He has a record and a rep. At 18, its still too early for forever so its your choice. You know what he is like and although he may like you he may have liked the last girl too and the next one as well.
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2007-02-22 21:48:05 · answer #3 · answered by Paradox 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋